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cant seem to orgasim (dont know if i should call it that)
ok im 16/f and my bf 16 we have been going out for almost two years..ok well when he fingers me i cant seem to umm well moan i guess. I know he kinda wants me to and i want to too i just cant like how do i make it more pleasureable to myself? is there anything he can do to make it better? and what can i do to make myslef moan?
thanks
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lol i'm the complete opposite of you; i make my self not moan. but since you want to;; your going to need to guide him through it and show him what feels good and what doesn't make sure he's not just putting his finger in your vagina. make sure he comes out and rubs a little and maybe have him variate. like have him go up your shirt at some points and curess your breasts for you to make it more pleasureable yourself you need to relax (don't know if you are or not) but if you don't relax then your muscles will tense up and it won't feel as good
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Masturbate and "explore" yourself and find out what makes you especially happy. Than you can tell your boyfriend where to touch and how to do it. He wants to please you, so Im sure he'll be happy to oblige.
Good luck!
-Abby
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Do you masturbate?
Because, if you don't, you will have a more difficult time in bed with a partner. (as you have probably noticed)
I started masturbating at 13 and achieved my first orgasm as soon as I turned 14...
I use a sonicare toothbrush (the flat end- not the brush) on my clit. It gets me to climax soooooooooooooo quickly.
But if that's too odd for you then try fingering yourself until you teach your body to respond to touch. (because sexual responses are pretty much learned reflexes)
eventually you'll orgasm once you learn how to "push your erotic buttons".
have him kiss ur clit after you're really hot and bothered..... just experiment.
hope i helped.
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well it might be that he isnt get the citorious which is actually out of the vagina so if he is just 'going in the hole' then it wont feel as good...
this may sound odd (but works...) feel around yourself and find out what feels good to you...where; speed; pressure...and when he is fingering you; show him.
put your hand on his and guide him...
guys have a WAY different body then us...so they dont know...
trust me; once you find the spot you will be moaning and groaning haha
good luck!
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