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virginity
i am 15 and its getting to that time where im feeling pressured to loose my virginity i feel that i have to loose before all the girls get to expeirenced what should i do?
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i know it feels like you HAVE to do it and you have to do it noww.
but really, in the long run people will respect you for not falling under the pressure of having sex with someone who means nothing. for now, just wait youve got plenty of time
marii
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you shouldn't just do it to do it;; guys respect virgins more anyway.. you shoudln't feel pressured to have sex. it should be something you want to do;; and it should just be like a 'lets do it and get it over with' kind of a deal because it's not something y ou just want to give away. you need to make sure you TRULY care about the person before you do it with them because your not goign to want to regret it
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Hey whoa. Losing your virginity just like that isn't something worth boasting or being proud of. When come to a time like this, always think - consequences. Ok let's say you've lost your virginity, and your friends know bout it
1) They might be awed and find you cool but then it only lasts for a while in their memory. It's just gonna be "oh wow, how does it feel? Was it great? You're so cool" and snap, it'll be gone from their minds after a while.
People always want to be pioneer in everything, but really, ask yourself, if you don't have sex yet, what will happen to you?
And if you had sex already, what will happen to you? Which option is safer and reversible? Sex is something that once done you'll never get back your virginity ever again.
Virginity isnt something that you should lose in a spur of the moment or heat of excitement. Think bout it, I'm dead sure that the good things bout losing your virginity now are only temporary. I can't name any at the moment but that is something I can instinctively guarantee you.
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Seriously, what on earth is the rush for people to lose their virginity? It's something I will never understand.
I didn't lose mine until I was 100% positive I wanted to do so and knew he would be the person I'd be with for a long time. and I still am. and this was just over a month of turning 18.
Noone should ever feel pressured to have sex.
Obviously you should wait until you are actually at the right age, but more importantly, you need to know everything about it. All the facts.
Why choose to give it up to someone because "you have to before all the girls get too experienced" ?
They're all rubbish reasons and you probably will regret it later on when you actually find that one person you want to get intimate with.
Call me old fashioned, but it's a big choice to make. Don't ever give in to peer pressure. and do it when you are absolutely CERTAIN you want to.
Only you can decide in the end. I hope you make the right choice.
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No one can make any decisions about your virginity except you. If you feel ready and you know perfectly well all the consequences that can come with sex and you think you're able to handle them well, you can make the decision to lose it to someone you truly love or trust, etc. If you're not ready to handle the consequences, don't do it.
Ignore the pressure...live above the influence ^^
Just because other girls lose their virginity doesn't mean that you have to lose it.
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