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Hey there! I'm Carey. I'd love to hear from you so don't hesitate to ask me anything! I'll reply to you the best way I can. Feel free to even send me an email!xo
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ok well i have this friend..and at the begging of the year we were really good friends and some howw we got into fites....and it all started when i said that her b.f was a player and she beilved him insted of me ..she got mad at me we didnt talk for months and then she called me up and said im soory...so i forgave her ( dont really ever forgive people when they backstab me) then the second time she siad that i did something on purpose..and i was like no i didnt..and it had to do with a guy...she thought i was trying to steal him but i wasnt..so aguan we got into a fight then she called and i forgave her...because i really loved her alot she was my good friend..but now agian somwthing happend about and lets just say it repapted and we werent talking and then agian i forgave and we beacme firneds....yea i know im pathetic..but now this is new she thinks i spread rumor about her..like really bad...rumor and hwn i didnt beacuse why wouold i so now we hate each other agian and today in the whole way she came up to me with her friends and asked if i said anything i was liek no and started to wlak away she grabbed me and grabbed her hang like le tme go you hore...and wlaked awya and she laughed and calle dme names..so i dont no what to do !! HELP!!!
Don't keep letting her come back, because that gives her excuses to keep finding ways to fight with you. Why would you want someone like this in your life? She's obviously not someone who cares about you if this is what she's doing.
Remember not to stoop to her level. If shes calling bad names to you, just look at her and smile and keep walking. Don't show her fear or she'll continue what shes doing. Find other friends to hang out with.
Just drop her. She's not worth your time. I had a similar situation and when she see's you really don't care she may fight back for a bit but she'll get bored when she see's it's not bothering you.
Good luck.
You deserve better.
There's this guy in my gym class who's really flexible than most guys because his mom forced him to take gymnastics when he was realy little. And for gym every morning we do these stretching excercies and these guys always tease him saying that a guy that can do that (bend down to teach his toes and wrap his arms around his legs) can have kids.
I want to tell them to leave him alone because he's a really nice guy! Why does everyone always hate the NICE guy?
And yeah I techniquely have two problems:
1. I don't want it to seem that I LIKE LIKE him by defending him.
2. They're the mean guys that would hit a girl and i am VERY weak and bruise easily!
Thank you so much! Please respond soon! I don't know how much more he can take of this or even I can take of this! he always defends others but he's not defending himself this time...
Find a weakness in one of these "bullies" and exploit him. If you can make one back down, then they'll all back off. Find a way to make this "flexible" boy seem more superior to them.
Ex: "Well maybe you could do that [stretch] too if you lost a few pounds!"
OR
Instead of insulting back, compliment this boy and tell him you think it's really cool that he can do that sort of stuff. Get some of your other girl friends (or any friends) in your class to compliment him to. If those jerks see that they're the only ones thinking like that and no one cares what they have to say, they'll stop.
I do not know what to do anymore, dropping hints, etc... how do you tell a couple of your family members that tney have very bad BO and that they need to shower daily, every time they visit our furniture needs to be disenfected and deoderized, then to top it all off they always seem to stay a day or 2 longer then they say.
Try tricking them into it.
"Hey, you should try this [insert soap brand or body spray product here], its so good! I LOVE IT. You'll like it too"
or just come out and say it. They are family so you should be honest with them.
Good luck.
f/13
i want to go farther than a makeout w/ my boyfriend but i asked him how far he would go & he said nothing past makeout. i understand that everyone moves at their own pace or w/e. but is there any way that i can get him to want to go farther?
You should respect his wishes. Don't try and make him do anything that he isn't ready to do. For a girl who is 13, you should be taking your time as well. You have all the time in the world to do more than makeout, don't rush into things.
So im going out with this one guy. lets call him matt. we've dated before for about two months. and we recently started going out again. Its been about three weeks. I never stopped loving him and i like him sooo much. and more than anything wanna be with him. I need him. But the thing is i know he loves me but its hard since we live so far away we can never see eachother. But heres the real problem. I have this friend and i know that she would be perfect for him and they live closer so they could hang out more. And see eachother more. But me and Matt are bestfriends. But as much as it hurts i know that there better for eachother then me and him are. So what do you guys think i should do. Keep him and keep letting him and myself down. Or let him be with her. ANd know that hel be happy and so will she. Its so hard knowing that i want him so bad. But is it what i want. Or is it letting the one i love or letting the ones i love since shes my best friend be happy? ahh this is so hard. Any advice would help soo much. Thanks guys.
It is very mature of you to think of his best interest, but if he really likes you then why comprimise it. If he doesnt mind the distance then its okay. Don't push something that doesnt have to be there. :)
I AM SO EMBARRASED
i dont go on here much but i went on the otha day and forgot to log off, my sis posted this thing about how she had sex with my best friend and all this shit i cant look at him or my sister the same at all she knows i saw it
what do i do?
Well you can't undo what you have seen. If anything she should be embarrassed about what she's done. Eventually you'll be able to move past that and things will go back to normal. You shouldn't feel embarrassed at all.
The topic that I just read by the girls saying that the male body part is ugly,while the female body is so pretty.We are what we are.Why did the good lord put it on the outside,probaly so we can do the job that you are unable to do yourself.You can stick all kinds of objects up there but that won't give you what you want most.When you get ready to marry,who do you come to,us.When you want to have kids,who do you come to,us.Who is going to support your butt the rest of your life,who is going to pay for the home your going to live in,in other words,let me think,oh I guess it us.If you think the male organ isn't worth playing with,have fun with your tooth brush honey.You may be ashamed of showing yours but at least we are out in the open and proud of it.I do realize that at a very young age if you saw one for the first time your scared but remember that many girls still don't know what there's look like still.I like this site but some of the questions are from girls way to young to be thinking about sex with boy friends.At pre-teens you should be out there having fun in groups.Where are your parents?Do they know that there 13/14 year old are thinking of,let alone doing? Grow up first.There are enough Britney Spears out there,give yourself time to know what the world has to offer you and what you have to offer it.
I both agree and disagree with this post.
a) Not all women out there are dependant on men to survive. We are more than just ass and breasts. We have brains and we are quite independant. I'm sorry for those women who have given you the impression that we are needy.
b) I agree that some of the ages of people posting about sex is inappropriate, but they are curious and thats nothing beyond normal for a teenager. They want advice and ways to deal with whats going on, thats what advicenators is for.
I'm sorry that you feel that all of this is going on, but there is really nothing anyone can do about it.
I've met him once and spoken to him on msn loads of times, and I've started to really like him, we get on really well. Who can I make him like me back?
I've had so many shitty relationships and I want this one to be better...help
Well for one, you can't force someone to like you. You can't change their minds or decide how they feel.
But, try hanging out with him more often. Act a little bit flirty, compliment him, make him feel special and appreciated then slowly drop hints here and there to show that you like him. If he likes you to, he'll def show it :)
Good luck.
14YRS...FEMALE
there was this new guy at school and i have 1st and 5th with him, we ended up becoming close, and i ended up liking him. ok it was just a minor
crush at first but then every day i ended up liking him even more. well last monday he asked my best friend out and she said yes, even though she knew i loved him.now they are both really really happy. so what how do i get over him? i mean i have tryed to hate him in the past, to not like him but it never worked...so what do i do, stop liking him, or like him in secret, because if i tell my best friend she will break her and his heart. WHAT DO I DO?????
It's okay to like him as long as it's kept to yourself. But knowing that they are happy together should give you the motivation to move on and keep your eyes pealed for another guy to enter your life.
Your friend although should have shown more consideration for your feelings towards this boy. You should have every right to sit her down and tell her how you're feeling, but still, try and be happy for her even if deep down you aren't.
It's not like they are going to get married right?
You'll find someone else soon, just dont spend all your time dwelling on the past and keeping this boy in your head. You'll move on :)
Good luck.
I like this guy, and for the past few weeks, I can't explain it, my life has been so much better, and the best parts of my day where when I got to see him, even if I didn't get a chance to talk to him. It takes a lot for me to like a person like that; I haven't fallen this hard in years.
This week I actually thought he *might* like me back, but now I find out that he most likely has a girlfriend. :/
If he does have a girlfriend, should I still put my effort into liking him, or should I forget about him now while I'm still ahead? I've been hurt too many times in the past, I can't handle being led on again.
You can still like him, but just back away from him for a while because you might find yourself broken hearted. Try being friends with him mostly first. Then if the opportunity arises, give it a shot. In the meantime, keep your eyes open for any cute boy that walks by :)
I need a guys opinion on this.
I met a guy, he is a sweetheart and we get along well. I want to get to know him better, maybe be able to get into a relationship with him. But he just got out of a relationship with a girl whom, cheated; Lied; and said things like "I'm not attracted to you, but I love you though"; He is hurt by it and I understand I just don't know how to approach him with the consideration of maybe getting to know each other better maybe in hopes of a relationship.
DO you think I should give him a little more time?
Should I probably just see where things go without trying to help things along?
Give him time to heal, but get to know him more. Chat with him, and keep a smile on his face. Show him you care and that you're around if he wants to talk. Once you've given it time, then let on that you like him. Ask him to hang out one day.
Ok so i like this guy. He has a girlfriend named Nathaly and you might of guessed i dont like her much since i like him. Well she is really gassed that she goes out with him but the thing is hes playing her with another girl. I dont know if i should say anything cuz really its none of my buisness but if i was in her possition i would hate to find out people knew my man was cheating on me and didnt say anything. So i really dont know what to do. Although i dont like her im willing to tell her he is cuz i guess it would be better than her actually seeing them. I know what that feels like and it not a nice feeling.
Uggh im like soo mad at him. I thought he was different than other guys but then again i cant stop liking him..
Anyways what do you think i should do?
Its difficult to see a guy you adore do stuff that you don't aprove of but you'll def get over it. Easier said than done but take it from someone whose been there, you'll find someone new.
As for his girlfriend, unless you can provide physical proof to show her, stay out of it. She may take you telling her as jealousy and it may backfire on you. Its nice of you to want to help but stay away until/unless a proper opportunity comes up.
Good luck.
I got my period in january for the first time. My period hasn't come but i have this really brown stuff coming out. It's SOOOO GROSS it's like phlegm? Like, i feel like something is seriously wrong. It's brown, but it's definetly not my period.. what could it be? THANKS.
During the first few years, your period may not be consistent because your body is still adjusting. It could be your period but may just be slightly different because as I said, your body is adjusting. If it continues, consult your doctor or talk to your mom about it.
I have an ipod touch and for some reason whenever i put it on shuffle, it will play the same song over and over. i have to actually hit next before it goes to the next song. it just recently started doing this...how can i fix it??
1. Make sure you have more than one song in the playlist.
2. If your clicking "shuffle" by tapping on the song cover and clicking, make sure your pressing the arrows that overlap eachother, and not the aarows that are shaped sort of in a circle (because thats the repeat button, if thats clicked, unclick it).
If none of those do it, try resetting your ipod or check for updates.
Good Luck.
whose sings the pop version of waht hurts the most?
It may not be the one you're talking about but Cascada sings a pop/dance version.
Try googling different artists who sing that song.
15/f
I have feelings for this senior, at one time I thought he might like me too. (ie..We never talked and he threw a paperball at me..then he picked me for his group and sat right next to me, he had his arm touching me the whole time and everytime he said something to me he looked me in the eyes. And he would nudge me with his shoulder or his leg. And he was teasing me and laughing with me. Note there were two other girls in the group. One sitting on the other side of him and the other in front of him.) But anyways i thought he might have had feelings for me too and you can see why. But then he started to kinda drift off and he wasnt talking to me as much. (He had a girlfriend the whole time, but when this "drifting" began to happen i heard they had broke up) And he would occasionally talk to me. One day he was sitting in the corner alone staring at the floor and i said "what is wrong with you cj?" and he started to mumble under his breath, and i said "yeah i heard nothing you said" and he began to smile and said good you werent supposed to. And i said ok then and began to smile and laugh back. But then i heard that they never did break up. And everyone is telling me i should go for it and ignore the fact that he has a girlfriend. But I couldnt do that. I would hate to think how i would feel if that happened to me. I am not the kind to steal a guy from another girl, whether i like her or not, i just dont feel its right. But i really would like to get to know cj if you know what i mean. But he has college and basketball, and the girlfriend. My friend said that we should write a note between each other talking about how i feel about him and his girlfriend and what she thinks as well (my friend) then stick it in my binder and when he checks it for our class then he will see it and read it (because everyone loves to read notes). (mind you this note would be between me and my friend talking about me and how i have a thing for him). What should I do?? I know he is a senior and everyone says seniors want freshman for their body. But we grew up in a small community and it just isnt like that with most of us. If that is true it is the senior girls and freshman boys.
What should I do about all of this
PS his girlfriend is a cheerleader and im not, i know that most jocks like cheerleaders, but i have this feeling that there is something there between us...And the other day we was sitting at the computer at school and he was looking up car parts and he seemed really concentrated and i was bored and all i could think to say was "whatcha doing?" (he would reply something) and "im sorry but im really bored" (and he replyed its ok)
i think he might be confused but it seems like sometimes he shuts me out...its driving me nuts
Boys can be JUST as confusing as girls. (haha). From what you told me it sounds like he's really comfortable around you and might be interested, but you'd be better off becoming closer with him first, especially if he's a senior. Try and get him to open up to you by talking. Let him know that you're there if he needs someone to talk to.
The note thing sounds like a good idea. Its subtle and cute. But the downside is that you don't know exactly how he feels, so him reading it might make things awkward, thats why I suggest creating a closer bond first.
Smart choice on not wanting to go after him if he has a girlfriend. That might make him lose his respect for you if you did try and do that.
Good luck :D
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Def ask for his number, or his email. So you can stay in touch ;)
Be like, "hey, can I get your number?" haha.
:)
okay so im 13 and i have this group of my girls were all close,but theres this one girl and weve been friends for EVER but recently shes giving mre comments like(your so fat) and calling me ugly and stuff, and like lots of ppl call HER that and she always says im fat like her. but all my other friends tell me im not ugly at all
and thay always complament my body and they say its really nice!!
so i dont know if shes acting fair with me and now my self confidens is super low
plz help
Sounds likes she's insecure with herself and her self esteem is slow so she tries to bring other people down to her level. So when she feels bad she wants everyone else to feel bad as well. It sounds pretty messed up but thats how some girls are. Try giving her some nice compliments to boost her self esteem, then she'll stop bringing you down.
Don't let her or anyone else shatter your confidence, because especially in this situation their just jealous :)
Hope I helped.
Well, Im in grade 8 and I have a step sister in grade nine. I have liked this guy named Jake for a very long time, who is also in grade 9. And he liked me back at one point also. So at one point me and him hung out and he was kind of drunk and so was I, and we did some stuff... He was really nice still after but one day he stopped talking to me because someone told him my pussy smelt, and he was to drunk to notice! And he started denying that we did stuff. :| They addmitted they were joking, but he said that he didn't beleive it was a joke. After that he kept on being mean to me for a long time, so I tried talking to him again on the phone and stuff and he finally said sorry. But now he keeps on flirting with my step sister that only knows him from me because she knew I liekd him, and he invited her to this party thing, and they started also doing stuff at the party. And my sep sister likes him noww, and hes always asking her to hang outt. But on the phone when we're talking he says shes a slut =\. One of his friends told me that he was trying to make me jealous by trying to hang out with my step sister, but I dont know why, or if he even is? Im really confused, and sorry if this isnt enough detail I tried to make it not too long. But if you have anyyyy advice whatsoever on this, that'd be greatt :). Thanks,
(L)
Sounds to me like his friend is right --he is trying to make you jealous. I think the reason he's carrying on this way is because he is either:
a) too immature to admit to what had happened with you.
b) likes you a lot but doesn't know how to make things better aside from "I'm sorry"
c) he's just a dickface.
d) all of the above (haha)
I think its now up to you to decide what you want from him. Friendship or more? Then figure out why. Weigh out the pro's and cons and see if he's even worth keeping around in your life. If all he's going to do is mess with your head then whats the point? I'm sure you can find someone WAY more respectful to be with.
Good luck.
If you have any more questions feel free to ask :)
Okay so this yeah there was this new girl who came to our school and we became bff. this lasted a little bit but then i figured out she said stuff behind my back and she totally ratted me out on everything. Me and this other girl have pretty much been bff since pre-school. but i "broke" up with her for the other girl. This week me and the girl from pre-skool have been really close and now the other girl wants her back. so she is doing everything in her power to take her away. I am pissed. it was just getting good. i actually had some to trust and now its over. I want to talk to the girl from pre-skool so i did and she says she feels the same way that we want to be bff again. but she doesnt do it that way she is like controled by the other girl. what should i do i am scared and worried. I am confused Helpp please.
If you and this other girl are on the same track wanting to be BFF's again then both of you should just ignore this other girl and trust eachother to not believe anything that this other girl does. Try and spend as much time as possible to make this girl you wanna be friends with again to want to be around you more.
Good luck
:)
yeah so im a 16/f & i like this really popular boy at my school.. he's really buff & is single. he's a jock, he plays fooball lol... the problem is we barely ever talk.. & whenever we do it'll be like in the hallway when we're by ourselves during class. & on myspace we talked a few times.. i dunno. i think it'll be hard to tell him to like him or even talk to him.. & i notice the girls he talks to are like really pretty/popular.. what should i do? like how should i get him to talk to me?
Try and become more close with him. Chat with him in those classes or even try the "I dont get it, can you help me?" thing. lol. From my experiences its better to like a person that you talk to, because if you fall really hard for a guy you don't talk to, your really going to get hurt.
Good luck.