So im going out with this one guy. lets call him matt. we've dated before for about two months. and we recently started going out again. Its been about three weeks. I never stopped loving him and i like him sooo much. and more than anything wanna be with him. I need him. But the thing is i know he loves me but its hard since we live so far away we can never see eachother. But heres the real problem. I have this friend and i know that she would be perfect for him and they live closer so they could hang out more. And see eachother more. But me and Matt are bestfriends. But as much as it hurts i know that there better for eachother then me and him are. So what do you guys think i should do. Keep him and keep letting him and myself down. Or let him be with her. ANd know that hel be happy and so will she. Its so hard knowing that i want him so bad. But is it what i want. Or is it letting the one i love or letting the ones i love since shes my best friend be happy? ahh this is so hard. Any advice would help soo much. Thanks guys.
jobrolover3725 answered Monday March 24 2008, 10:36 am: this doesnt really make any sense. do matt and your friend even know eachother?? because if they dont then dont introduce them. you dont know how 2 people will be together. if you are thinking they are both really similar.. 2 similar people sometimes CANT STAND EACHOTHER. matt is going out with you for a reason. he likes you more than any other girl in the world. so if you really like him, im thinking you should keep it that way. =) [ jobrolover3725's advice column | Ask jobrolover3725 A Question ]
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