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I'm not sure what to do.


Question Posted Tuesday February 26 2008, 4:30 pm

Well, Im in grade 8 and I have a step sister in grade nine. I have liked this guy named Jake for a very long time, who is also in grade 9. And he liked me back at one point also. So at one point me and him hung out and he was kind of drunk and so was I, and we did some stuff... He was really nice still after but one day he stopped talking to me because someone told him my pussy smelt, and he was to drunk to notice! And he started denying that we did stuff. :| They addmitted they were joking, but he said that he didn't beleive it was a joke. After that he kept on being mean to me for a long time, so I tried talking to him again on the phone and stuff and he finally said sorry. But now he keeps on flirting with my step sister that only knows him from me because she knew I liekd him, and he invited her to this party thing, and they started also doing stuff at the party. And my sep sister likes him noww, and hes always asking her to hang outt. But on the phone when we're talking he says shes a slut =\. One of his friends told me that he was trying to make me jealous by trying to hang out with my step sister, but I dont know why, or if he even is? Im really confused, and sorry if this isnt enough detail I tried to make it not too long. But if you have anyyyy advice whatsoever on this, that'd be greatt :). Thanks,

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carayotie answered Tuesday February 26 2008, 6:50 pm:
Sounds to me like his friend is right --he is trying to make you jealous. I think the reason he's carrying on this way is because he is either:

a) too immature to admit to what had happened with you.

b) likes you a lot but doesn't know how to make things better aside from "I'm sorry"

c) he's just a dickface.

d) all of the above (haha)

I think its now up to you to decide what you want from him. Friendship or more? Then figure out why. Weigh out the pro's and cons and see if he's even worth keeping around in your life. If all he's going to do is mess with your head then whats the point? I'm sure you can find someone WAY more respectful to be with.

Good luck.
If you have any more questions feel free to ask :)

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