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boyfriend problem.
f/13
i want to go farther than a makeout w/ my boyfriend but i asked him how far he would go & he said nothing past makeout. i understand that everyone moves at their own pace or w/e. but is there any way that i can get him to want to go farther?
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Nope. Anything you make him do will only weaken your relationship. Let things move at their own pace and it'll be a much better experience for both of you.
Any relationship where one person pressures the other is a bad one.
-LM
[16/f]
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Seriously, by respecting his decision to not want to go further. Just tell him that's fine and don't push him. Trying to get him to do something will only push him away.
When he's ready, he will say, okay?
Don't worry, you're only 13. There's plenty of time for doing more.
Don't rush things.
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maybe try not to be so loveydovey just try to be nice
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Don't force him into anything.
Pushing him to do something he isn't comfortable with will ultimately drive him away and cause your relationship to start crumbling.
-Laura. (15-f)
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You should respect his wishes. Don't try and make him do anything that he isn't ready to do. For a girl who is 13, you should be taking your time as well. You have all the time in the world to do more than makeout, don't rush into things.
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