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I have a friend who's been annoying me lately. I really hate to say it but I think she's fake, and a poser. (though I really hate that I think that) She's my best friend though. I just can't take it!! She copies me A LOT. She copies what I do, my style, my likes, what I say... It's really annoying and makes me want to say "think of your own freakin ideas!!!!" and give her a piece of my mind! She KNOWS I hate copycatters but I think she thinks that I don't mind, or that she's "not copying" me. I'm just myself, and when she tries to do something I do, it comes off as fake. To me at least. I really like being unique, different, and my own person, but it's hard to do that if she's JUST LIKE ME. She's changed though... Like on aim, I put my status message as "ca-call me, so I can make it juicy for ya!" A quote from one of Lil Wayne's songs. Then later, my friend put "Ayyy-bayy bayy! :]" or something like that. .__. I would do something like that (cause I'd wanna get back at her), but she might think I'M copying HER. Then she'd try to be better than me. I actually do have an away message like that, but didn't get the idea from anyone else. She's not even like "that" at all. I really don't mean to be rude. :[ but how can I get over this? I don't wanna be annoyed everytime she does something... It drives me crazy! Whenever I think of something kewl, it discourages me to share it with people because in the back of my head I'm thinking "uh oh what if so and so copies me and gets all the credit for it?" Sorry. I have a problem with copycatters. I just feel like she's stealing MY identity. It feels like a "competition" and I hate it. She makes it like that though. How can I not get annoyed and stop thinking about all the negative things? I want to think positive things and be happy. (I'm annoying myself cause I feel like I'm caring about something so stupid.) Sorry if this is long. D; (link)
i know how you feel i have a friend that is the same way what you could do is hang around other people for a day or so or like what i did just tell her how you feel if shes a ood friend she will understand


So i just got a kitten she's about a month n a half old.. she's like a brown kitty with like darker "tiger strips" almost with little white paws.. i get to name her and i dont know really waht to name her.. i want unique names not like the typical everyday name..

i was thinking
roxy
zoey
chloe
riley

names like that.. but pleast dont tell me which name u like best because i would've picked one if those were the ones i wanted (link)
how about...
.Tasmen (tas-men)
.Fudge
.Misty
.Annie
.Lady
.Abby
.Jetta (jet-a)
.Muffin
From becky


What does it mean when a mare is in heat? What are signs of it and why does it cause problems when riding? (link)
if she in heat she'll walk up to the boy and her tail will be up some if you see shes getting fater then you should call a vet if she is dont ride her ask the vet he'll tell you how to take care of her unill pop new liveing thing is in the world


any you know of? cause im a 14 yr old black girl who always has been interested in alternaive-ish rock, like my fave bands are the strokes and arctic monkeys. im just wondering.. i mean it would be cool if i ever in a billion years became like a really popular african female rockstar-person lol cause i wanna learn guitar (my dad can play) or i can sing. not rap, btw. i think it would sound cool but idk.. any examples? and please dont say "the go! team" cause im not talking about like hiphop cheerleader music that they make. thanks for the help! =] (link)
sorry what kind of music do you like


Me and my friend got into a huge fight 2 days ago.And everytime on the bus she is always giving me dirty looks but i give her one back.How can i tell if she is talking behind my back? (link)
she might wisper to whom she is sitting next to but 2 wrongs dont make a right


how do you now if a girl likes you (link)
she might smile if she sees you she might say hi or something like that


Can anyone be very DETAILED in answering: would you allow your child to go on a stay away from home visit - with ANYONE whom you do NOT know where they live, or whom they live with? (link)
no i would not


My dad is an alcoholic and he won't listen to me when I try to tell him he needs to quit or hes it goign to die from drinking and driving or other horrible things I can't even imagine! How do I tell him? (link)
maybe you could get pictures of what you look like when you drink and show them to your dad maybe he'll stop


where can i find stupid little quizzes for nexopia blogs just to pass time? (link)
you could go to google.com and write quizes i like doing blond quizes but sometime they disopornt u


how to tease a guy to the point where he is about to go crazy....some tips please(:

I will rate! (link)
well frist you flick his ear then you can talk about how nice of a guy he his (that makes them blush its the funnest thing)then you could talk about this really hot guy to him.you might keep bugging him about his crush and go up to the crash and talk but dont say anything about him

hope i get a great rating
love ducky


My birthday is on Easter So my boyfriend bought me a rabbit, "Derby". He's a 10 week old Rex/English Angora male. which i've had for three days now. I keep Derby in my room, and he chews the metal bars on his cage around 1 in the morning. It's so loud so I let him out of the cage to roam around my room at night. I want to keep him in my room and to stay in his cage at night. How do I get him to stop chewing on the bars? I bought him apple branch sticks at the pet store so he could chew on those but he doesn't like them.

I bought him a little house that looks like an igloo but he doesn't like to go in it. Do you think he might eventually go in it if I leave it in there?

Also, Since he's a male and hes only 10 weeks old, should I get him neutered? If so, at what age and how much would it cost? I live in Florida if that helps.

Thanks! (link)
i have 3 bunnys and mine dont do that so maybe hes lonly and if you make them sleep in there poop and pea then they can get bactera in them and be very sick so try to get a cage that has holes 4 the pop to fall into


16/f
5'5
163 lbs.

I'm so sick of being fat. I've tried almost everything! I just can't stop eating junk food. I need to be 135-140lbs by June. So I have 67 days to lose 23-25 lbs.
I recently heard about a detox diet? Or a cleanse involving lemons?
Could someone please elaborate on those?
I am also open to other suggestions! (link)
maybe try eating less junk food and eat more healthy food like apples and i havent seen you but i dont think your fat maybe exsersize


idk why but i was bored and came up with future baby names even tho im 14. i know its really early but what do you think of these names so far? and any sugestions to add to make the name better or anything?

GIRLS:
-Roxanne Rae (i like Roxanne cuz i could get the girl "roxy" clothes from pacsun and it sounds all firey and stuff. i'd prefer a better middle name than Rae though.. and please dont say a name like "marie" oh lord.)
-Cameron Jade (what do you think? ive always liked cameron, and jade's one of my fave types of green

BOYS:
-Julian Antione (Antione sounds alot better than Antonie(sp?) IMO. and the Julian part is from "Julian Casablancas" from the strokes..)
-Jamie Alexander (Jamie is my favorite boy name ever. and its the name of Jamie Cook, this really cute guy from the Arctic Monkeys band. and I've always liked Alex and Alexander)

THANKS!
and sorry if i wrote anything wrong or whatever but im HELLA Tired right now! ahha (link)
for a girl i like the name tasmen for a boy i like the name chirs


f/13
i want to go farther than a makeout w/ my boyfriend but i asked him how far he would go & he said nothing past makeout. i understand that everyone moves at their own pace or w/e. but is there any way that i can get him to want to go farther? (link)
maybe try not to be so loveydovey just try to be nice


15/f
ahhh i'm so bored! i don't know what to do. i live in ohio, it's cold and snowy and i live in really small town with next to nothing in it. so any ideas on anything i can do at home? anythingg fun or interesting that will keep me busy til like friday.

i have friends but my best friend is leaving and i don't really hang out with a lot of people. i'll probably hang out with my boyfriend for a little bit but i need stuff to keep me busy at home. thanks sooo much! (link)
naybe you could try playing with peys if you have any or try learing a new sport




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