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My friend Sarah broke up with her bf John about one month ago and they only went out for a month or two. Last night I found out that John cheated on Sarah the day before she broke up with him, but even after she broke up with him, he didn't tell her about it. John only told one of his guy friends who told two other girls. Anyway, I found out last night and I don't know if I should tell Sarah about since my friend pointed out, "nothing good can come of telling her." I think thats true, but I also feel like she deserves to know even though they already broke up for other reasons. If it was me, I think I would want to know, and if I did find out later and then found out my friends were hiding that from me, I think I would be pretty mad. I have no idea if I should tell Sarah because she is one of my best friends, but then the people who told me will get it trouble cause it might get back to John that his guy friend told people. It's also really hard to keep that big a secret from Sarah.
Please help!
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It's good that you put yourself in your friend's position and you need to tell her. You would want to know so it's only right that you tell her. You're her friend and she trusts you but if you keep this from her and she finds out,then that trust will be broken.And obviously John isn't that great of a guy so don't worry about him finding out his frien told people. He shouldn't have done it in the 1st place.
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15 / f
i have known this girl since elementary school, and we have been "best friends" (i've had other best friends in between until i realized it's pointless to have just ONE best friend).
i've never really had many classes with her throughout middle school, but this year, my freshman year of high school, she's in virtually all my classes.
now at first, we were both elated! we finally got to see each other more often.
but that soon turned around. by december, i knew that i was ready to burst. it hit me. she was absolutely perfect. but the ONE little tiny thing that just made me scream and caused nights of crying myself to sleep was the fact that: every. single. grade. in every. single. one of our mutual classes. she ALWAYS gets the same or (more often) BETTER grade than me on EVERYTHING. homework, tests, quizzes, projects, you name it. and it made me want to vomit. i tried SO HARD. i even bought a new desk to get myself motivated enough to do my homework and really really study.
no one has any idea i feel this way about her. i hate her more than anyone on the face of the planet, pretending to be her best friend. everytime i look at her i just want to slap her. that's all. just give her one hard slap and give her brain cells a little ride so she'll stop getting less than 110% on EVERYTHING.
and what makes it worse? besides the fact that she's always trying to ask me what's wrong and comfort me when she's the problem, after several tests we've taken, she's CONVINCED. like ABSOLUTELY FUCKING CONVINCED. that she failed. and like usually i HATE being like, "oh that wasn't so bad" cause i don't get a 100. but she was CONVINCED. we both get our tests back the day after, and she got an A and i got a B. and i was BEYOND irate.
i'm naturally an extremely jealous person, but she is in 203849023 clubs and she's always saying how she never has anytime to do anything yet she finds the time to do better than ME and i barely do one club.
someone has to help me. i'm seriously losing it. i try so HARD on everything and she reads a packet once and gets a 100 and i read it 20 times, highlight, and outline and get a 95. she's ALWAYS better than me. and i severely need advice on how the hell do deal with this situation. and it's not like i can just go upto her and be like, "dude, i hate you. you're too perfect." and i've TRIED studying WITH her but it makes me want to puke being near her. i tried, i tried. it does no good. i try to get away from her as much as possible and not talk to her but it's hard. it's not that she's a really nosy person, she actually cares about me. it's not that she's a bad person either, i just want to look at my report card and be proud. and i can't. i want to cry.
in conclusion, help me stop being so jealous of this girl's grades and / or life to the point of violent thoughts taking over my brain. (link)
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It seems like you a spending way too much time thinking about how perfect she is and what good grades she get's. Don't think of her as better than you because she's not but some people just have to work harder thn others. If you do the best you can then don't beat yourself up and no one is pefect, not even that girl.Maybe she feels like she has to prove herself because deep down she is inscureand doesn't feel good enough.Don't hate her for being smart, just forget about her grades and worry about your own.
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So... I gave my bf a hickie and his mom found out and she just laughed and thought it was supa' funny.... and she said that she wouldnt tell my mom.... but... i'm still scared..... please please please please HELP ME. p.s. I'm 13..... if that helps any????? (link)
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Well hickies are hard to cover up, i know from experience! but don't stress about it because i'm sure she won't tell your mom. Just be more careful not to give him a hickey next time and don't let him give you any because they are hard to hide, even with cover up. And you could try using excuses like "it's a bad bug bite" or "it's a bruise" but most people won't fall for it.
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i have a lot of hair on my arms. And now that summer is comming i want to not have hair on my arms or make it so noticeable. Do u know what to do??? And also just for a summer tip, how long should i stay out in the sun?? b/c i have very light skin, and i get burned easily. And what kind of suscreen could i use. thank you b/c all the boys in skool make fun of my hair and that i'm pale! (link)
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Do not shave your arms..it will be a lot worse if you do. I also have a lot of hair on my arms and it's dark so it shows up more but I bleach mine. It's pretty easy and you can buy it at the drug store but that stuff is quite strong so read all the directions. That's your best option and make sure you use Sunscreen that has an SPF of at least 15 or you will be harming your skin.
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What does someone mean when they say that they "have to pick a bone with her"? (link)
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When you have a bone to pick with someone it means you have something to talk to them about but it usually means they did something wrong or outrageous and you have to talk to them about it.The bone is the problem and when you talk about it that is the pick part.
Example: I heard Ashley started smoking cigarettes and I didn't approve of it and she hadn't told me...This would be the problem I have to talk to her about
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16.m
i've been going out with an amazing girl the past 13 months. we're both in highschool and she recently got a job. so she's been feeling responsibilities pile up on her. it was all going good until she wanted time to herself.
she said we're very likely to get back together, but it's nothing i haven't heard before. i guess i just need some comforting words.
but i love this girl and she knows that, she loves me back. i don't get how two people can have feelings like that and one just doesn't see a point in going out. (link)
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I was in the same position as the girl you care so much about. I loved my boyfriend and he adored me but it was kind of smothering at times. We took a break twice but then I kept breaking his heart and he refused to get back together with me.The point is that we loved each other a lot but I took him for granted and thought he would always be there. I bet the girl you love thinks you will always be there but let her know you won't continue to let her hurt you like she is. Talk to her seriously and if she loves you she will agree to a relationship but just give her space and don't be clingy about it.
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