HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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I asked for someone's opinion and I got answers saying rude things. I don't want rude answers. What can I do so these people will stop saying VERY rude things? (link)
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well some people here think they own this place and answer arrogantly thinking your problems or questions nomatter how small they are are stupid...forget about them and ask anyone eles that can help
id be glad too^_^
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what do i do if i have a boyfriend for over a year, i love him, but i might be falling for a player.. ? (link)
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stick closer to your boyfreind and cutt of any connections with the player..block him online,dont answer his calls or anything eles.Cuz in the end...even if you do leave ur guy for him..he WILL leave you for another girl because he is what he is..
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my guy friend has a girlfriend. and i hate her with every bit of feeling i have left in my gut. as much as i would love to curse her out, pull her hair and yell at her, telling how much i hate her and how she's taking him away from me and how she's a fake b****, i don't. instead, i try to, as convincingly as possible, be nice. it's fake. but if i say something to her, he himself will hate me.
am i doing the right thing? (link)
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ok how is she fake?fake as in slutty and using him?if so,then you need to talk to him about him just ONE LAST TIME cuz you probably did alot before...tell him that your worried that she might hurt him and that your sad that hes been different with you ever since he got with her.But no,dont go up to her and beat her up cuz in the end,she is none of your buissness....you beating her up will make your freind here only get mad at you and YOU will be the bad one infront of your guy freind even if she is wrong.
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14/f
OK...so i'll try and make this short...me && this guy named jonathan have liked eachother for about 1 month now. we would talk on myspace and call eachother sometimes. then two days ago we got into a stupid argument that was pointless but, it was VERYY minor. WE GOT OVER IT...so he was suppose to ask me out but, he didn't. and he posted a bulletin on myspace saying that he was taken and loving it. i thought he meant me,,but I found out yesterday he's back with his ex. He didn't even tell me..my best friend did.. and when i found out, i was CRUSHED.. i was in tears and i couldn't believe that i was actually going through this again.[this happened w/ another guy].. and my friend told me that even though he's back with his ex,,he still has feelings for me. AND I'M HIS #1 ON MYSPACE..if that even matters...
so my questions are:
should i still talk to him??!! ..what's the point he has a girlfriend now..right??!!..i'm not even sure if i still like him because it hurt me soo much..should i move on to someone else??!!..what should i do overall..??!!
THNX IN ADVANCE (link)
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aaakh that bastard!move the hell on!forget about him like he forgot about you!youve got dignity dont you!get with another guy and piss him off!!get with a guy you can like and is cute and all,itll help you move on and help piss him off like fuck and youll see..watch him come BEGGING you to come back to him WATCH.dont show him that your sad EVER...thatll make him happy!YOu gotta show him that he makes no difference with you and that youve got a life outside of this guy!YOUve got guys that like you and you arent waitin on him,hes not the last guy on earth.
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i am 23 year woman and im loseing it i dated my ex boyfriend for 10 months we have broken up for over a year and a half i have had a baby and a new boyfrind in the mean time but i just cant get himout of my head i dream of him almost every night n think of him at least once a day if not more i do love my boyfriend now whats going on. (link)
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hi
ok sometimes stuff that happened in the past,you just cant seem to stop thinking about it its normal...but you shouldnt let your thoughts get to you beacause,even though you know your over your ex,too much thinking can mess up the way you feel about him and even ruin things with your boyfreind!You can start to think that..."my ex used to do this and this...why doesnt my boyfreind"till one day,you just cant stand your boyfreind.Even if you dont think about your ex,theres something in your mind,that when your about to think of him,blocks out these thoughts which is great BUT the problem is...it comes in your dreams,its what you refused to think about in the day,it came in your dreams.Thinkin of him alot is really going to ruin alot of things for you,you might end up liking him again,losing your boyfreind and your baby!If you want to think about him,think the right way,think it like...ok its over....im just bored and i have nothing to do so im thinking of him.You need to put up all the reasons why you shouldnt think of him.He is the PAST,and nomatter how hard you think of him...its not coming back.Dont think of the past or you might end up with no future
hope i helped
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i was just wondering what you (a girl) would think or do if you found out i (a guy) was wearing a thong or what youre feelings would be? (link)
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EW.....id think that persons mad gay and id laff my ass off....not tryin to be mean to all them guys that wear THONGS but...yeah loool
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My ex-boyfriend of more than 3 years really isn't sure he wants to be involved in our unborn daughters life [due nov. 4th]...i really wish he would be because i would hate for her to miss out on anything like this...i want her to have a father...even if he and i are not together...i really need advice on what to do and tell him to convince him that being involved in her life is the right thing to do and that we need to think of our daughter regarless or our situation...we've talked about this extensively but he is still unsure...i really want my daughter to have her father...please what can i do??? help.... (link)
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oh my god!what kinda "man" is he?!he just screws you and forgets about the consenquences?ok you gotta tell him that hes gotta be a man and finish what he started and take care of his daughter too because if he dont and if anything bad happens to her in the future,itll be rubbed in his face!
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I feel so stupid for asking this, but what EXACTLY is happening in Iraq? Why are we fighting them? What is Bush doing that is making him so hated? Is there anything else that I should know about?I really want to be politically informed!
P.S.- Also, what's happening in Darfur?
P.P.S.- Please, I want an answer from someone who is neutral about the war. (link)
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whats happened is that Bush claims that saddam hussien(who they recently executed and is the president or iraq)is a murderer and causing trouble to the iraqi people.So he decides to send his army there to get sadam hussein and punish him but somehow theyre killing iraqis too.Most people say that american government is after iraqs petroleum.Whats making him hated by both arabs and americans,is that americans hate him because hes sending out young men from america to war and millions die and arabs hate him cuz hes killing them for no reason,if he claimed that its saddam he was after,and now that sadams dead,why are they still in iraq?
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i've been molested, as a child. it happened often and i've tried so hard to block it out but now i feel like it defines me. nobody knows, i can't say anything nobody will believe me. everybody will hate me. he ruined me. i picture how my life would be if it never happened, the way i am now is horrible. i make so many mistakes just trying to make myself feel better but nothing works. i dont know what to do, i cant talk to anybody. im 16, this happened the summer going into 5th grade then into the year.
nothing makes it go away i don't know what to do i want to die so badly. (link)
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ok you cant NOT tell anyone...its compleeeeetly wrong..you know..if you woulda told somebody earlier..you woulda been cured from this pain a while ago...YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE NOW,someone that WILL beilive you,go to your parents,an aunt and cry your eyes out and tell them what happened...they can get the guy,they can get you a psycologist,THEY CAN HELP...if you stay quiet like this then the only thing thats gonna happen is that youll gbet more and more depressed and make more mistakes trying to heal your pain.Speak up for your rights,speak up to save yourself from drowning in more sorrows.
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my friend, ok yeah so she sent all these pictures of her body, like her boobs, and vagina, to all these guys. and yeah i know its slutty, but ive kinda always been the type, that i give my opionon, and say its wrong, but i believe everyone can do whatever they want, & if its what they choose, then fine. but anyways, her sister saw one picture, that a guy sent her. so they got in a fight, and her sister told her mom. well now her moms taking the phone to the store or whatever, and like going to see all of her txts and everything. soo, any advice for my friend on how to get herself out of this mess? (link)
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beilive it or not i think you should leave your freind in this mess!!!Tell you why,you warned her in the beginning...you KNOW what she did was totally wrong,noone can deny that.Her mom needs to know what her daughter is doing...seriously.Her mom needs to punish her so your freind can learn from her mistake and never send random guys her body pics again.come on imagine your daughter was doing this and you found out...would you honestly listen to her freind that wants to get your daughter outta trouble!?you warned her and she didnt listen,let her pay for the consenqunces of her actions now
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i`m 16 and i have been dating my boyfriend of 18 for over a year. we hang out constantly, every day. we decided to take a break this weekend and make it a friends weekend. we both decided on this and were happy with it. then he asks me if i want to be single for this weekend - like pretend he doesn't exist and hookup with other guys. why would he ask this?! i said NO right away, and he was like i don't either i was just asking. why would he ask that randomly?! (link)
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damn...how weird.If i were you i wouldnt have said no,i woulda said,do YOU want to be single for the weekend and hookup with girls??Because theres gotta be a reason to why he asked that and im POSITIVE if he loved you truely hed like die if you dated other guys and wouldnt want a break from someone he loved.Ask him again,hey remember when you asked me blah blah...well do YOU want to be single for the weekend and hookup with girls?If he says yes then he asked you that in the start because HE is the one that wanted a break.Its because youve been going out with him for a whole year non stop!you shouldnt go out with a guy every single day man hell get bored,although he shouldnt if he truely loves you with all his heart.
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Okay well, all my life I felt like I have grown up all by myself. My parents weren't really there for me. I am the oldest out of four kids, and my parents would always leave us at my grandma's house when we were young. And when I started school they started leaving us at home alone. My parents would always be too tired, so they would never help me with my homework. I felt that I had to grow up and become someone important just so they can pay attention. So I would try so hard at school. I would get straight A's, get awards, and other stuff. But they simply didnt' show that they cared. They just always said "good job" and that's it. As I got older they kept pressuring me to become a lawyer at age 9. I felt so pressured. And now at age 15, I want to tell them that I don't want to be a lawyer. And that I don't want to stay in Anaheim or California. I really want to tell them, but they have so many expectations for me. I mean, they REALLY want me to be a lawyer and stay with them forever. I don't know how to tell them because my mom has panic attacks. And well, my dad can has had strokes in the past. I don't know how to break the news to them without them dying. What should I do? Am I a bad daughter for telling them that I don't want to be what they want me to be? Help, please. (link)
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thats so great of you,your pretty strong to be able to study even though they werent there for you,you are truely mature and open minded.Anywayz,i think you should work what you want,you cant possibley work all by yourslef so hard to reach your dreams and then have someone come and change your dreams for you!But they are your parents,you have to tell them verrrry nicely and delicatley so nothing bad woud happen to them...start off with your mom...tell her mom...what do you think if i were to work a *whatever you wana be* instead?i always wanted to,its one of my dreams actually....let her say her opinion and listen to it without arguing too much because of her condition....if it works with her then congratulations...if not..then just leave her alone and try with your dad....hes probably stronger and can hear you out more....good luck
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what does it mean when they say find yourself? and how do i do that? because i want to find myself this summer! (link)
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what it means by finding yourself is to know who you really are,to know yourself very well,what your weaknesses are,what your strengthes are,what your hopes and dreams are,what your future plans are,and how to acheive them,what religion you beilive in,what you want to do with your life,who you are.....thats what it is to find yourself
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hi, i'm a girl of 14 and am hooked on porn sites i know this is dirty and bad my family and friends would be disgusted if they found out i'm practically addicted i'm a really good person inside what shall i do and how do i stop????
thank you (link)
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well,i really do think youre good and brave to come out here and admit it and claim that you want to change,i respect that.What you need to do to change is have the urge to change,Do you really want to stop?are you really feeling guilty for this,you know your a good gurl,are you sick of this being the only thing ruining your innocence and getting you sins?if the answer is yes to all of that then you are truely ready to change.What you need to do is swear to yourself never to watch this shit again cuz you know its completly usless,it wont get you anywhere,itll just get you sins and beilive it or not,you might even be influenced and decide to try and copy what you see!Make a journal about your improvment,this always works...day one....ive decided to quit watching this shit beacause.....blah blah,you get what im sayin?i really wish you luck
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my boyfriend keeps on trying to have sex with me and i keep saying no but he got me naked on the couch 3 times!
and he tryed to finger me!what should i do? (link)
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if he dont respect your opinion then he dont repsect you,tell him your opinion clearly and tell him to respect it,if he doesnt slap him and tell him to fuck off.Threaten to break up with him too,that way he might respect your opinion,if he doesnt and tries again after you talk and slap and do what you have to do,then BREAK UP WITH HIM
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ok well now Trevor (my ex bf) is being an ass.... but i love him alot.... we just broke up this morning and he ALREADY has a new gf!!! its really pissing me off! we r just friends but then just like an hour ago he said he still loves me but he loves his new gf too so its "hard" to choose between us..... should i just get over him or just wait 4 his answer on who he loves more? (link)
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one things for sure man,if this guy really loves you,he wouldnt have to make you wait to tell you if he loves you,hes messed up and doesnt know how he feels,if he really loved you he would say it right away,hes telling you to wait and playin around with your emotions and gettin your hopes up,i think just like he moved on you should.To hell with him!hes the past!you shouldnt wait for anyone,you dont even know what his intentions are man,so my advice to you,get over him by throwin away anything that reminds you of him...give it 3 days....one day to cry,one day to think things clearly and one day to go out and get a new crush^_^
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One of my friends is very rude! Now when i say rude i don't mean burp in your face, potty-mouth rude. I mean this: she never listens to me...like if i tell her a problem of mine she turns it into a joke, even though i listen to hers. She also constantly puts me down by saying "youre dumb" or "retard!". Also she leaves me when the "populars" are around even though she isn't popular! This is so annoying and really hurts my feelings! I don't know weither to leave her or what! I know that scince we are just entering highschool it gets tough but it shouldn't be this bad! You know with the whole "clique" thing but, i just don't know what to do!!!! (link)
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your freinds problem can be that she was always a nobody and not popular...and when she finally found the popular people,shes trying to be like them in hope of fitting in with them,she doesnt like being herself,she wants to be out there and known and what proves that is her changing her attitude and being mean to you,popular kids mosta the time joke around like that,shes trying to do the same expecting you to accept it but you dont!SO what you need to do is have a talk with her,tell her how shes been acting and how shes different,let everything you feel out,if your nervous,even write it down on a paper and read it to her on the phone if your scared but you gotta let things be clear.IF she apologized and changes then forgive her,if she dont then you desserve your freindship,forget about her man youll find other freinds!
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My birthday was June 30th. It was my 16th birthday. I don't know why they forgot my birthday.. they've never forgotten anything of mine before. There wasn't anything going on around that time.. I don't know what the problem is! I am not a bad girl.. my GPA is a 3.85 and I'm always doing chores. Why did they forget? Should I say something? Because every time I tell them they did something wrong, even if it was that they didn't put on their seatbelt, I'm grounded for 2 weeks, and I'm not even exaggerating.
Its been almost 3 weeks since my birthday.. (link)
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TELL THEM,what are you waiting for!to turn 17 then tell them!im sure there was a big ass excuse why they forgot it thou,ask for an explanation
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don't know if this is the right category, but I want to go to a tennis camp this summer and I need to raise $130.00 by July 14th. How do I do it? (link)
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you can burn people CD's of songs and movies
audio cd's you can make them for 6 bucks,movie cd''s are for 12,that could help you raise money but you need to do something eles next to that.you can babysit.
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would you consider slow dancing with another girl cheating? (link)
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yeah, i would never allow my guy to dance with any girl cuz dancin with them means he can get to know them any moment and next thing you know,thell exchange numbers and date!
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