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have a new cant let go of the old one
i am 23 year woman and im loseing it i dated my ex boyfriend for 10 months we have broken up for over a year and a half i have had a baby and a new boyfrind in the mean time but i just cant get himout of my head i dream of him almost every night n think of him at least once a day if not more i do love my boyfriend now whats going on.
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ok sometimes stuff that happened in the past,you just cant seem to stop thinking about it its normal...but you shouldnt let your thoughts get to you beacause,even though you know your over your ex,too much thinking can mess up the way you feel about him and even ruin things with your boyfreind!You can start to think that..."my ex used to do this and this...why doesnt my boyfreind"till one day,you just cant stand your boyfreind.Even if you dont think about your ex,theres something in your mind,that when your about to think of him,blocks out these thoughts which is great BUT the problem is...it comes in your dreams,its what you refused to think about in the day,it came in your dreams.Thinkin of him alot is really going to ruin alot of things for you,you might end up liking him again,losing your boyfreind and your baby!If you want to think about him,think the right way,think it like...ok its over....im just bored and i have nothing to do so im thinking of him.You need to put up all the reasons why you shouldnt think of him.He is the PAST,and nomatter how hard you think of him...its not coming back.Dont think of the past or you might end up with no future
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