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leaded me on..then got a girlfriend
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OK...so i'll try and make this short...me && this guy named jonathan have liked eachother for about 1 month now. we would talk on myspace and call eachother sometimes. then two days ago we got into a stupid argument that was pointless but, it was VERYY minor. WE GOT OVER IT...so he was suppose to ask me out but, he didn't. and he posted a bulletin on myspace saying that he was taken and loving it. i thought he meant me,,but I found out yesterday he's back with his ex. He didn't even tell me..my best friend did.. and when i found out, i was CRUSHED.. i was in tears and i couldn't believe that i was actually going through this again.[this happened w/ another guy].. and my friend told me that even though he's back with his ex,,he still has feelings for me. AND I'M HIS #1 ON MYSPACE..if that even matters...
so my questions are:
should i still talk to him??!! ..what's the point he has a girlfriend now..right??!!..i'm not even sure if i still like him because it hurt me soo much..should i move on to someone else??!!..what should i do overall..??!!
THNX IN ADVANCE
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You should move on to someone else. Because if you continue to like him, he will think that its easy to get you. You seem like you deserve much better than a guy like him.
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aaakh that bastard!move the hell on!forget about him like he forgot about you!youve got dignity dont you!get with another guy and piss him off!!get with a guy you can like and is cute and all,itll help you move on and help piss him off like fuck and youll see..watch him come BEGGING you to come back to him WATCH.dont show him that your sad EVER...thatll make him happy!YOu gotta show him that he makes no difference with you and that youve got a life outside of this guy!YOUve got guys that like you and you arent waitin on him,hes not the last guy on earth.
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first of all whatever advice i offer to give you, you can either take it or leave it, use your best judgement.
there is jumbleness of words inside my head, but i know what advice i want to give you-just the ideas i'm trying to convey into words.
this guy, jonathan, he's stupid for playing you like that. but thinking of this, how much does he mean to you? and he to you?
talking on myspace, is simply just that. myspace is myspace, it's like las vegas. but there's a point in time, if he really cares about you, enough to even go beyond words and say, "i like you, and i still have feelings for you" he needs to show it.
him getting a girlfriend after talking to you for a month and then leading you on, it's just pathetic and wrong. it's like a terrible nightmare that you want to wake up from. like someone stabbing your heart and breaking into a million pieces. but that feeling won't last long, and ur worth so much more.
i know what you're probably thinking, what do you know? and your probably right. because i don't know your situatuation and could never pretend to.
yes, you should still talk to him, to answer your question. don't give him the cold shoulder. the worst kind of punishment is solitary-and that's what the cold shoulder is.
i can't tell you what to do, but personally, moving on is the best you could do.
don't cry because it ended or what could have been, be happy that it happened. it's in the past now, and all you could do is that.
sometimes things in our past run over the ideas and relationships that could happen in the future.
so just keep your mind over. i know you'll get through this.
-the greenness
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My advice to you is that you needed to forget about him, if he liked you he wouldn't get back together with his ex, right. As for talking to him, that is upto you, but I would advise that you should not get your hopes up.
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EDIT-
Yes, you'd be his rebound, which is why I suggested you just be friends with him. But if you really like him that much [as it seems you do], then does it really matter?
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Yes, you should still talk to him. Just because he didn't ask you out, doesn't mean there's no point in being friends with him. Don't just stop talking to him for that reason alone.
I also think you should move onto someone else. I mean, if this guy has a girlfriend now, there's no point in pursuing that kind of relationship with him. You don't want to do anything to ruin a relationship he has with someone else.
I think you should just be friends with him. You'll find someone else in no time. And, if you don't want to deal with that, then wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. If he's done it before, there's a chance it'll happen again. Once that happens, continue going after him & seee what happens.
Good luck on that.
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