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Okay.If a guys fingers are too big to finger you,what happens?Does it go through anyways or not?What happens?Help me out please,I would appreciate it highly.Thanks in advance. (link)
i dont think thier fingers will be that big. they can finger you no matter how big or how small thier fingers are.

brunettecutie**


im 15, blonde, athletic, skinny and about 5'11 and i don't think im ugly..but idk if guys are like intimidated by my height or what..i have alot of friends..but not that guy friends that i hang out with..so any suggestions on how to be more outgoing around guys w/ out being self concious about my height..or just any general advice would be great! (link)
i think u should not worry about your height. i really don't think height matters in a relatonship. i was taller then my ex-boyfriend and i really did not care. i think you should just focus on the relationship.

goodluck!!

brunettecutie**


I was at this workshop thingy today. There was this one girl who's about my age and i really wanted to talk to her. She's cute and seemed nice when i met her. But i'll only get to see her for a couple more days. I don't think i'm gay so don't mention that..i'm a young/f by the way. What's the point of even getting to know her if i wont see her???? Any ideas??? (link)
you can still get to know her and talk to her. maybe you guys can exchange phone numbers or screennames and talk to each other on that. or maybe if she lives kinda close by you guys can see each other on weekends or something. even if sh lives far away, same thing.

brunettecutie**


my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
thanks

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worried friend (link)
i think you should really sit your friend down and have a long talk with her. the question i am anwsering right now, ** read it to her**. tell her exactly what you said to me. tell her you are wprried about her and tell her you are scared for her. tell her to stop and if she doesn't she will end up getting raped or hurt or pregnant. if worst comes to worst you might need to tell someone.

brunettecutie**


ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...

ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.

please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms (link)
no your definatly NOT spoiled. if you do work around the house and dont get money, of course you get something for working. your not spoiled. its like your parents are paying you for cleaning but they are like spending it on stuff you want just like you would yourself. your not spoiled.

brunettecutie**


ive never been kissd...im worried it will be too akward

i guess i jut need confidence or something... (link)
dont worry too much about it. when you first do it its always akward. but your first time, you just know what to do when to do it. you cant help it, u just know. so dont worry about it bc you will be fine.
good luck!!

brunettecutie**


me and this guy have been really close friends for about 4 years and i just recently got out of a 3 year relationship. me and my friend confessed feelings for one another(you may have read about this in another question i asked before)...and we decided to take it slow. yet, a few days ago when i was dropping him off at his house after hanging out(as friends)...he kissed me..and the whole way home i couldnt stop smiling and he said he couldn't either. and it just felt sooooo right and the feelings got stronger after that. BUT, i saw him again today and before we said bye, we kissed again. and, it was just so different. i mean, i like him still but we kiss soo different. like, he moves his tongue a whole nother way than me and its just so not right because we both kiss VERY differently and i couldn't help but feel upset about it. everything was so perfect until now. tonight we talked on the phone and i was kind of quiet and didn't really have anything to say to him and it's just so weird because now, i just kind of want to get back with my ex-boyfriend(even though we have gone through a lot of bad times)...i mean i dont know whats wrong with me ..i like this other kid and all but now i just miss my boyfriend...maybe its because im just used to him and dont know how to change...i really dont know what to do...im not even sure if i have the same feelings toward this kid anymore. please give me any advice that you can!!! (link)
just go with your heart. if you like this other boy and are going out with the one you said goodbye to, then it would not be fair to the one you said goodbye to. i know this is kinda confusing. but if you really miss your old boyfriend and you wanna be with him i would go with him. if you went out with this other guy and liked your other boyfriend, then its not fair to your boyfriend. you know?
just follow what you think you will be happy with.
good luck!!

brunettecutie**


I am 13 and my parents still treat me like a baby! They won't let me get hair highlights! How do I convince them to let me get highlights??
I rate very high! (link)
make them relieze your 13 and your not a baby. im not saying your imature, but try acting more mature than you already are. like dont whine, dont make a big deal out of things. maybe offer to water the plants, or baby-sit or something like that. do work maround the house with out them telling you to.
good luck!!

brunettecutie**


how much weight could i lose until august 27? and how can i lose 20 pounds?? like exercise n food? i will rateeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee (link)
from now to aug. 27th you could probally lose 15-20 pounds. but it depends on how hard you work to lose weight.

brunettecutie**


okay.. i cheated on my ex and he found out and broke up with me. Now.. hes threatening me and everyone that knew and didn't tell him about it. He won't say what hes going to do to us.. he just keeps saying he knows people to "take care of it"

Hes overage and we had sex.. so if he trys to hurt me.. can i get him on a statutory rape charge? -- my parents dont know we had sex...

and also.. what should i do about the threats? (link)
i would really call the police and really re-port him. he is over-aged and that is illegal. u should really call the police. you never know what he might do so i would take care of it now.

brunettecutie**


Ok, I was just wondering what color eye liner you thought would go well with me. I have blue eyes most of the time (they change) And brown hair but not really dark. And also blonde high lights. Plz help (link)
i think black would look really nice with you eyes. or a dark blue or a dark green. they will look real nice. i saw it on some people and it looked really nice.

brunettecutie**


I am applying for a job at clothing store, and on the application it asks why I am applying for this position. The honest answer is because I need the money, but I know you're not supposed to say that on applications. So what should I say instead? Thank you. (link)
pre-tend this is your application:

i think i will be best for the job because i think i can make a difference in this company. i am a hard-working person who will make sure the job gets done.

write something like that, they will love it im sure!!

brunettecutie**


i got a new gf and we have nothing in common when she calls me we like dont talk about anything so does any 1 have ideas what to talk about or any ideas how to make conversation? (link)
talk about what you like first and see if she is into anything you like. then go on with stuff you both might like, like, the shore, or sports, anything. and if it doesn't work out for you 2 its not your fault.

brunettecutie**


i'm 13 and i've never had a boyfriend!!! so.. how do i get one??? (link)
well at the age of 13, its ok if you did not have alot of boyfriends. i know you really want one but when you are older, (later like maybe a few months, maybe shorter, maybe longer) you will go theough sooo many guys, its not even funny. lol.

brunettecutie**


What is an average weight for a 13/f. Height- 5 ft 1 in or maybe 2 in? Please help! (link)
i would say the average weight is about 120-140.

brunettecutie**


About three weeks ago i started taking diet pills without my parents knowing. After i took them i started feeling really nervous. My heart feels like it's beating really hard and fast. I'm breathing really weird and it takes me forever to go to sleep cuz i'm soo wired. I stopped the pills shortly after taking them but i'm still messed up. Does anybody know what's wrong and how i could fix it??? (link)
i really think you should tell your parents and ask them to call your doctor. you dont sound well, u really need to see a doctor.



is it ok to shave next to your belly and your lower back? (link)
i would not recoment it. bc it makes your hair grow in thicker and darker, and you wouls not want that on your back or near your belly botton.

brunettecutie**


are hoop earrings still in? (link)
oh yeah. i wear hoop sall the time. i love them. big hoops, little hoops, they are all in baby!



Im 14 about to b 15..whats a good way to have a b-day party n December.. My b-day is In the later December after Christmas PLEASE HELP! (link)
you can have a man-hunt party in the snow. ~in the snow~
(thats sooo fun)
u can go sledding with your friends.
something like that



what are some tips for getting your eyelashes longer and more curled ? (link)
you can use double mascara and an eye lash curler. they really help.





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