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so confused..
me and this guy have been really close friends for about 4 years and i just recently got out of a 3 year relationship. me and my friend confessed feelings for one another(you may have read about this in another question i asked before)...and we decided to take it slow. yet, a few days ago when i was dropping him off at his house after hanging out(as friends)...he kissed me..and the whole way home i couldnt stop smiling and he said he couldn't either. and it just felt sooooo right and the feelings got stronger after that. BUT, i saw him again today and before we said bye, we kissed again. and, it was just so different. i mean, i like him still but we kiss soo different. like, he moves his tongue a whole nother way than me and its just so not right because we both kiss VERY differently and i couldn't help but feel upset about it. everything was so perfect until now. tonight we talked on the phone and i was kind of quiet and didn't really have anything to say to him and it's just so weird because now, i just kind of want to get back with my ex-boyfriend(even though we have gone through a lot of bad times)...i mean i dont know whats wrong with me ..i like this other kid and all but now i just miss my boyfriend...maybe its because im just used to him and dont know how to change...i really dont know what to do...im not even sure if i have the same feelings toward this kid anymore. please give me any advice that you can!!!
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well i dont really know what to say but if you were in a 3 year relationship and you guys broke up than you guys just werent ment to be together.it doesnt matter about how the kisses are as long as you guys like each find somethin you both like and talk about it ask him if he still has the same feelings for you as he did before dont go back with your x if you have gone through bad times be your self you dont have to change for no one or for the relationship.sometimes you feel like you have no feelings for that person but when you brake up with that person and they are with someone else you just feel so jealous that you want him back so ask him how you guys can make the relationship better and stronger and to last a long time....i dont really know what to say but thats all i have up my sleeve right now im sry if its not much help =/ hope everythin works out
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just go with your heart. if you like this other boy and are going out with the one you said goodbye to, then it would not be fair to the one you said goodbye to. i know this is kinda confusing. but if you really miss your old boyfriend and you wanna be with him i would go with him. if you went out with this other guy and liked your other boyfriend, then its not fair to your boyfriend. you know?
just follow what you think you will be happy with.
good luck!!
brunettecutie**
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You just need to give yourself some time to think and decide what you want. You may decide that you don't need your ex, or you may decide that you really do. But after coming out of a relationship that long, you need some time just to THINK, and figure out what you want. Hopefully that helps!
♥ Melissa
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I honestly think you need to give yourself more time to move on. Three years is a long time to invest in a relationship and you can't and shouldn't make a rush decision about going back or going out with someone else.
This roller coaster ride is confusing you, so get off. Take some time and enjoy being single. Promise yourself like 2 weeks, or one month of no kissing/hand holding whatever, and stick by it. By the end you'll have a much better idea of what you really want to do.
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