beckss's advice column

Hello -- I'm Becky. I am here for you, to help you with anything you need help with. I'll try my hardest to answer your questions. It may not always be what you want to here, but know that I always put my time and effort into each answer. I'm not here to gain points from you, when you rate my advice... I don't long for a 5 as my rating. All I care about is helping you. It's ridiculous how people basically go on this website to see if what they is justified and right, and if advice columnists state otherwise, they rate your advice low. For example, a 13 year old girl asking how to give oral sex. First of all, it's not bad if someone warns you to put what you're doing into deep thought and consideration. They are just trying to give you their opinion on the situation. Isn't that the whole point of this website? Exactly.
Anywhoooo, I'm 15 years old. Yes, 15. Too young? No! I'm very mature for my age. If you dont want to get advice from a 15 year old, then don't listen to it... However, I'm still going to give you my opinion :)
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I go to High School and I am a Freshman. :0
What else? Well, I play the guitar and I have been playing since I was in 4th grade. I love everything about music -- it's my life. Seriously, I either have my iPod to jamm to, iHome, computer... I basically need music anywhere I go, because I really can't live without it. I mean I could, but it would be a very depressing and boring life 0.o
I've gone through so much drama the past few years of my life and I'm not even in highschool. Each time I go through a horrible situation, I learn from it for the next one. It's hard, but that's life. Everyone has drama in their life. Everyone has been betrayed. Everyone is going through or has gone through these stages of seeing who your true friends really are in the end. It's a hard journey, and I'm no where near done with it. But everyone goes through it. And if you have any problems or questions a long the way, I am here to help. :D

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well this weekend one of my good friends invited me to this party. and someone from her old school is havin it--this guy. and i told her i would go already since i promised her i would go to the next one with her...but im scared! because i havent been to much parties before and this time im not gonnna know a single person besides my friend and there is gonna be drinking (that dont matter) but i think my friends "crush" is gonna be there and im scared she is gonna leave me to like go makeout with him or somethin then what am i suppose to do? i wont know anyone and i will look stupid standin there by myself. and i already said but you better not be goin off with andrew (her crush) and she didnt say anything about it so now i dont knwo..i am just a shy person so i dont know what to do. i think my friend might get trashed..but i wanna drink SOME i dont know about gettin drunk..because i dont wanna regets somethin the next morning you know...but what do you think i should do?? because i promised her i would go sooo i cant cancel..i cant bring another friend that would be rude..and everyone else is doin things already anyways..ugh! this is making me go crazy!! HelP?
i will rate anyone who answers a 5!!
thanks sooo much
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Well, tell your friend that you dont want to be left alone i mean ask her to atleast introduce you to other people before she goes off and ditches you which she will probaly do. Dont worry about not having someone to hang out with. You may be shy but if you dont know those people what do you care what they think? Since you promised your friends youll go then go and have a good time and if she ditches you dont give her so much importance, have fun.
-beckss