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i ♥ giving advise .. ANYKIND! so dont be afraid to ask me. i love this site and im on it all the time so your questions will get answered pretty quickly. Some things about me .. my name is candace and i live in georiga. I love hangin out with my friends and doing stupid stuff. My favorite color is green!! green rocks! my favorite places to shop at are 1) american eagle 2) abercrombie 3) hollister 4) aeropostale 5) old navy ... these are the places i shop at the most but i do go other places sometimes! my favorite animal is deffinatly a monkey! they are soo cool. i have monkeys all in my room (fake ones of course!). well if you want to know anyhting else, just ask!
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ok. So I met this girl on the internet, shes really nice, my age, lives near me etc.. but just a little while ago, I rang her up.. and she sounded like a guy.. I mean, I'm not shallow or anything, but it kinda just freaks me out, And now I don't know what to do.. should I give her a chance, or not bother?
BTW I have another girl I aslo likes.. she is also really nice, 15, fun, and yeah...
signed, Confused 17/m
You should still give the girl a chance .. i mean its just her voice. Who knows, she might sound different on the phone! just give her a chance nad if it doesnt work out with her, go to the other girl!
There's this guy (We'll call him Zach) that one of my friends dated and one of my other friends like him. I promised my friend that I wouldn't ever do anything with him. That was before I discovered I have feelings for him. However, there is another guy (We'll call him Bob). Bob likes me, I like Bob. But Bob is really shy, and isn't doing anything. I've asked Bob out before, but that was before he liked me and that was before I got feelings for Zach. I really like Zach and Bob. But Bob is a bit more immature than Zach, but there isn't friend entanglements if I went out with him. But Zach is that person I can talk to and I know he'll listen and have answers for me. What do I do? I rate high for good answers.
you should try to talk to bob more and see if he can do more stuff. And you promised ur firend you wouldnt do nothing with zach, but if u tell her you like him maybe she wont care, so talk to your friend about zach and if she still doesnt want you to do anyhting with him, go for bob, but if she doesnt care then go for zach. You can always have zach as a best friend!
Ever since my best friend started going out with this one guy, she has been starting to be mean to me like not talking to me durring school and stuff like that. She has also gone a lot of places with her boyfriend's friends (her new friends) and haven't even asked me to go.. I'm worried about loosing her as my friend becuase.. well.. we only have 6 girls in our class and to tell you the truth I don't like the other 4 girls in my class. Oh, and she has turned into a MAJOR slut! What do I do? What should I say when I talk to her??
Sorry It's so long
just talk to the girl and tell her you dont want to loose her as a best friend but you think she is changing. ask her to go hang out just the 2 of you sometime and see what she says. But also if she is ur best friend, you shouldnt be callin her names like a major slut! hope my advise helps.
ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months now, and we really love each other. i'm 15 and he is 16, and going to be 17 next month. he thinks everything is perfect in our relationship and i feel the complete opposite. like we will go out and it will be the most amazing time ever, but then he finds someone to completely ruin the magic of it all. like he will go somewhere and wont talk to me or lie about what he did etc. ( i know he lies sometimes but i dont tell him i know ) he always asks me why im upset and i just say im not and he always asks me why i dont tell him things and its because everytime i call him to talk to him about something he asks me to call him back and i have gotten so fed up with it i just dont call back anymore and then he like freaks out.. and he has been lying to me about him smoking.. and all he does is hang out with his friends.. he talks about them non stop, like i dont know if he wants me to be jealous or what.. but i guess its kind of working.. i dunno, how can i talk to him ? am i being selfish ?
- i dont want to break up with him though, i mean, i really love him, and i almost feel like i am being stupid for putting up with all that i am, but i dont know, please help :( i'll rate high
well i think you should confront him about the lying. tell him you know he is lying to you and u wanna know why. then talk to him about him smoking .. tell him you dont think he should do it but do everything in a loving way. And as for him with his friends all the time, just tell him you want to spend a little time with him and not all his friends. Hope this all helped you. lemme know how things go!
heyy ok.. umm this has been going on for about a month now and i really cant take it anymore! my friends think ive changed, they think im dramatic, and they think im obbsessed with gossip.. me nd my 3 best friends have been best friends for 2 years now and everything was perfect then.. we never faught.. we never talked about eachother.. nd we were always there for eachother.. this year is different nd were all starting to fight.. nd my 1 friend always takes other peoples sides wen i fite with them.. its like she hates me.. nd i dont think any of them trust me.. nd oh yea my really good friend and i have been hanging out more nd they think i like her better then them and i dont! and they dont believe me wen i say i dont! i said i wanted to kill myself nd some1 told the guidance office nd now i have a therapist! ughh.. my parents now kno about it nd no1 leaves me alone at all anymore! nd another reason why they think ive changed is becuz i smoke nd im 13.. i kno its not smart but ive only done it a couple of times cuz people say it relieves stress nd as u can see theres been alot of that going on in my life! well thanx sooooo much for reading this and please give me adivice.. it would mean alot to me!
ok .. first off .. u need to stop smoking! it does nothing to you but cause health problems in the future. an for ur friends, you need to get all of them together adn talk about it nad try to get everything settled once and forall! Tell them how you feel about all of this. Then see what they say about it all. I hope my advise helped. lemme know if it helped or not!!
A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now
just talk to her whenever you see her and try ot be her friend again. Maybe she wants to be your firend again too!
I feel as if my friend and I are drifting apart but I dont want to! She is like my sister. She quit dance and now we hardley ever see eachother. She means so much to me but i feel as f we are drifting apart. What do I do?
talk to your friend, she may feel the same way. You both should hang out on a weekend and try to spend more time together.