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Name: Kelley ♥ I'm a jv cheerleader for my school, Keystone Oaks. it's pretty insane there. i have great friends and a very conplicated family. being loud and obnxious pretty much describes me and my friends. i text all the time. i get annoyed very easly though and random mood swings. trying new things is very exciting and i'm usually up for anything. i love piercings and bright jewlery. i don't go anywhere without my bracelets. i made this not only to give advice but to get it too. nobody perfect. i struggle with tough issues all the time. people need guidance and i'm here to give it and receive it :] IM me sometime uhohxomfg!

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Hey, so my friend wanted me to ask if anyone knew if Pro-Active helped at all. So, if anyone has used it, just answer back and let me know saying yes or no. I'll rate. Thanks

i've never used it but my friend uses it all the time and it works for her but then my other friends sister used it and it didnt help at all.. so it many depends on how much you use it and if you are doing it right. also it could just be your type of skin that it doesnt work on.. hope it works though

OKay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 8 months , and we are definantly in love. Lately we have been talkin about sex, a little more and more each time we talk to each other. Like last night we were texting each other and he said and i quote "Blaire, I love you, & you no that, i would do anything in the world for you. And , well now, i think im ready, for well you know, to have sex. I think we should try it. But only if your ready"

and the thing is , were young. He is 16, im almost 14.(one more week) and well, i would really love to loose my virginity to him, but he has already had sex(he used to be in the major party scene. He quit for me.) So should i have sex with him?

-Confsed

well personally i think your pretty young but if you feel that you really love him then go for it. but first i would think of the consquences, like possibly getting pregnant, him leaving you after, or just regretting it. but if you truely think he loves you and you love him then i would go for it but if you arent ready then dont let him rush you into anything. hope everything works out

i wanna get my belly pierced but my parentals won't let me. my questions is how do i persuade them ?

i went through this and got my way so ill tell you what i did =]

okay well i showed my mom that i was responsible by cleaning my other piercings like in my ears. and like help clean around the house. then i would just bring up the topic a lot like not in a joking way but like in a funny but real way. like i said .. well if i get my belly button pierced then you can get you nose pierced.. like stuff like that .. and then i said and if you cant afford it then ill raise the money for it or it could be like a present for the next holiday. like mine was a easter gift haha.. but yeah just keep bugging her but dont get annoying about it and show her respect and prove you can be responsible and take care of it =]

hope i helped

okay there is this guy i like and a month ago he came to my party he was all over me at my party and i have only talked to him a couple times since my party and when i do talk to him its not alot i really like him and i want us to be more than just friends but i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to be gettin on his nerves because the day after my party my friend called him without me knowing and asked him out for me and he said he would think about it sometimes i think he likes me but he doesnt really show it and i dont know how to talk to him because hes the "gangster" type and i dont want him to think im stupid .. ughh what should i do?

well maybe sometime try to get him alone and ask him who he likes and find out if he likes you.. if he does like someone else say to him, "i just want to know something.. what we did at my party, did it like mean anything" and see what he says and then tell him that you still have feelings for him .. if he doesnt like you then just try to except it and stay close friends but if he does then ask him if you guys will ever be more then friends .. hope i helped

how do i get my hair scrunched? like that curly hair u see girls have. i dont want it like a wet scrnched though. and i want it to stick with all the humidity that we have in new orleans. my hair is like an inch below my sholders and i straghten it everyday and now im gettin sck of that look. k thx. 5's

AT NIGHT: when you get out of the shower wrap your hair in a towl for about 5 minutes, take it out then put moose in it and sleep with it in like that.. it will look scrunched & kinda curly but not wet.

IN THE MORNING: if your hair is dry wet your brush and brush your hair so its damp not soaking.. then get moose & gel and scrunch it with your hands. your hair cant be really wet or too dry. if its damp it might look wet at first but then the wet look goes away once you walk around

hope i helped ♥

So I have this great boyfriend. He is really cute and really nice and every girl is just dying to meet him. But the only bad thing is that he acts so clingy sometimes. I went on vacation and he called my cell phone and left 12 messages saying "Hey babe...I miss you..Are you okay...call me..please..i love you more than my own life." And thats typical of him. He says that kind of stuff alot on the phone and computer.

But then at school he acts all jumpy and weird around me and sometimes I will walk right by him and say Hi and he will totally not hear me at all.

And if this might have anything to do with it, he wants to hang out with this girl who he always says he hates. And he invites me to hang out as a threesome and I think it's a little weird. I thought maybe he was going to break up with me, but no, he is even more clingy-er now!

What does this mean?

he could like the other girl too or that could just be his personality.. yeah i know what you means its cute saying he loves you and misses you but kinda annoying.. he might like the other girl but not want to be with her so hes trying to stay close with her but even closer to you so you dont leave him.. if it really starts to bug you that much i would talk to him .. stay calm about it though.. hope i helped

hey!! ok, i really need help. I like this guy. ALOT. and my friends said that he probably likes me because he stares at me sometimes and gives weird signs that he likes me. The Problem: I have never talked to him. He is VERY shy so he won't talk to me, but i'm shy also. I want to talk to him but i dont want to be ackward and i want to maybe even become friends with him. I just want to get to know him, and become closer to him but i dont want him to think im weird. please help me, what can i do?
thanks ♥

i think you should just make randomly start talking to him one day.. like maybe since your shy to have you and your friend just stand near him and start a random conversation about something really funny but weird and then he will probably get interesting and start talking to you guys and just take over. like talk about what you were before but then slowly ease into a different conversation.. that should take away the ackwardness and you will be able to just go up and talk to him yourself regularly.. that it doesnt work the first time just keep trying that approach. if you see it going no where you can always just ask him something like hey do you have Mrs. (so & so) blah blah.. hah you should get what im saying. but that should help a lot to start talking more =] hope i helped ♥

ok so im getting braces this thursday but before that i need to make a decision whether to get the clear or colored ones. the clear ones are NOT invisilign just to let you know the clear ones are basically the same as the colored ecept they match the color of you teeth. now the thing is with the clear ones if you eat something like chocolate, your braces would turn brown which i dont really want to happen but they say it doesnt happen if you brush your teeth a lot (which i do) but like in school if i have like a chocalate bar or something i cant brush my teeth in school and the other thing is pratically all my friends have the colored ones and i really havent seen many people with the clear ones.
can someone help me figure out what to decide?
thank you so much
sorry its kind of long

well personally i would get the colored ones. the clear wants are basically so they arent so noticable but if you do eat something a weird color they are gonna be colored anyways haha. and plus if all of your friends have the colored ones then you dont have to be ashamed having them anyways. but yeah i would say your best bet would be the colored ones =] hope i helped ♥

Hey does anyone know if bambi is a girl or a boy?
Just wondering, it has to do with a school thing.

he kinda acts and looks like a girl but hes deff a boy =]

hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's

no, not at all. i think its perfectly normal actually. personally i think thats how most girls should be, saving their first kiss for someone they love instead of kissing everyone they think they "love." and having a boyfriend is nothing important. just because you dont have one doesnt mean your a loser or anything. it just means that you havent found someone thats perfect to you and thats normal. so dont sweat it, i mean if you think your pretty and smart and a good person then thats all that matters. guys will come sooner or later that you will want to waste your first kiss on and your first true boyfriend on =] hope i helped ♥

I think I may have social anxiety(sp). Whenever my friends do something without me I start to think they don't like me and and start to get very depressed. I've been depressed a lot lately for different reasons also but I was thinking I may have social anxiety. I'm starting to feel separated from my friends and that I only have one tru friend. I'm also getting depressed more easily. The slightest thing makes me force back tears. Does anyone have an idea as to what this might be? Thank you.

whoa. i so know where you are coming from. i get like that every once in awhile. like you'll just being sitting there and jsut start crying. I know exactly how you feel and its horrible. i dont think its social anxiety. It might be depression or stress. or maybe its just thought you are a very sensitive person. usual what i do is just talk to one of your friends. not about the situation but just about life. talking to someone always helps. or even talking to your mom or dad like every night about your friends and your life will help a lot. if talking to your friends or parents dont work you can always do to a councler or maybe go see a doctor and find out if your depressed. hope everything works out for you. if you need someone to talk to me you can question me back or IM me UHOH x OMFG on AIM good luck babe ♥

Okay... I have a boyfriend lets say his name is "Joe". Well me and Joe have been dating foor about 2 months now and meanwhile I have always had a things for my old friend "Bob". I mean I would never cheat on Joe and I care for him more than the world, but yesterday Bob and I were talking and he told me he still had feelings for me and that from up so many feelings I had for him. But I still REALLY like Joe...I know this is confusing but I am so confused and I REALLY need help.

i've been through this before.. stay with joe.
yeah you might still like bob but it is always hard to get over people. that will be a good way to stop liking him if you stay with joe. plus if you and joe lasted 2 months already then that must mean you two really like eachother

any cool sights where I can meet cool people.. besides myspace?

xanga is a cool one.. just browse through and comment random people

Lord help me.

I am a 13 year old girl, and for a while, I considered myself "straight." Now, I'm really freaked out. I have a big crush on my lesbian English teacher (FYI, she's made it public that she's a lebian---I'm not just assuming). I'm so scared. Having a crush on a teacher is bad enough, and on a female teacher is awful. Mind you, I don't have a discrimination against homosexuals, but I don't like to think of myself liking someone of the same sex. I feel like such a creep. Does this make me a lesbian as well? I mean, I've liked only guys of my own age (but those were huge, long-term crushes), but still...I am so scared.

If anyone at school finds out about this, my life is over.

~Stella Luna~

oh dont worry about it.. your just going through an akward stage right now. most people go through it. if you are more attracted to guys then everything is fine. i mean it might not even be a crush on the teacher.. you might just admire the way she teaches in a non creepy way. but hey if you are a lesbian which i dont think you are theres nothing wrong with that either

ok i like this guy but i have never asked a guy out but i like him alot and i think he likes me u see him and i help kids and we work together and well last week all the kids were gone so we had to go to the lmc and on the way up their he keep getting closer to me and bumping in to me and then i went to my locker and he went with me and i said i hate my locker partenr because she had a bunch of posters up that i did not like and he said that he had a few posters in his locker he could give me to put up in mine but the problem is my friend likes him to and him and i are good friends and i dont want eather of the friendships to end what should i do

i think that you should just keep it going slow. dont ask him out because if your friend finds out she might be really hurt that you would do that to her. but if he asks you out talk to your friend about it and tell her how you feel about him. keep going on with the flirting. it sounds like a good sign that he likes you =] if you have any problems with your friend in this situation just question me back =] hope everything goes good for ya

There is this boy who I have had a crush on for like 5-6 years. One night I found out he had a 'thing' for me and I was so surprised that well I thought it would last forever but then it faded so distant and now he barely talks to me. He never texts me back, never ims me, never calls me...he completely forgets I'm alive. My friends who knows him as we went to the same schools, tell me to move on and just live life, with or without a guy. I've been trying but every friday wen he's online I feel so sick to my stomach because I have no idea what's wrong with me; do i have a sign on my head, did i hurt him, what did i do?
Last night though he talked to me...just a few words and somehow I think it's because my friend asked him why he's not talking to me. HE just said hi, how are you and how was your day. And wen I asked y he was talking to me he completely ignored my question. He was like a brother to me, he used to help me with homework, we used to talk for hours on the internet and wen he called me I would sneek outside to talk to him. One night he called me 11 with his friend and talked for 40 minutes and it was amazing how I made my grandma think it was my 'girl' friend! It's really botherin me...does ne one (girls or guys) know why he's ignoring me all of a sudden?

it could be because he might only think of you as a friend for now and doesnt want to give you any mixed signals like most guys do.. just try your hardest to keep in touch with him. if you need something to talk about online just randomly IM him saying something weird then be like opps sry wrong IM then start talking or maybe ask him to help you with homework and once you feel like you guys are talking more just go for a walk with him and tell him how it hurts that you guys dont talk no more =] hope it all goes well

well. i just turned 13. Like, 2 days ago. Ive been getting that white stuff in my underware for a while now. I would say like 4 months. I dont have alot of pubic hair. Can you get your period with out having pubic hair? Does it come after you get it ? Or do you have to have it before? Also, am i close to having my period? Im not sure. And im worried i might get it in the middle of school or something. Okay, one last question. If you get it during school, is it definately going to leak through? Or is there a chance it might not. Thanks so much if you can help me !!!

the white stuff is discharge. you can usually get it before you get your period but for some girls it doesnt mean that you will get it. its different for most people. the pubic hair just grows when you start to mature. it doesnt have anything to do with your period tho. and about school, well usually the first time you get it you dont even relize it cause its real light. then later on you will basically know when your gonna have but if you do get it during school just go to the nurse. she will know what to do. =] but if you feel wet down there just check in case ;) hope i helped

i dont need a lecture on how smoking is bad, i know. this is pretty pathetic, but i never realized how. how do you smoke, do you breathe in and breathe out? and is there a difference between smoking pot and smoking cigarettes?

smoking cigerettes is really easy. just put your mouth on the end that isnt lite then suck in the smoke. smoking weed is kinda thicker smoke then cigerettes and it makes you laugh at everything and pretty high. pot is very addictive. be careful. dont try anything if you arent 100% of the coenscences

im am an 8th grade girl
and i am currently going with a 7th grade guy
we're both 13, (today is his birthday, btw)
and we just started dating again.
-when i say again i mean that we've gone out in november for about a month.
we both like passionatly like eachother
the only semi-problem is is that
i am 5"7
and hes like 5"0 about.
it usually dosnt botehr me, but its just like when i dream about that "first true love" i always think of some one that can hold me in his arms, you know? i really really like this guy tho.
he makes me feel like i've never been hurt before, like i just found out what love is,
and im sure to say, i am pretty experienced and stuff
i just wanna feel like this guy is
a man who stands by my side,
and not a boy who runs and hides,
just please give me some tips to feel better about this,
thanks a lot.
i rate particuarly well.

awe. dont worry about it babe. just keep telling yourself that you really like him and looks arent everything. yeah everyone wants this tall dark and hansome guy but only few are lucky to find those but be happy that you have someone you really like and try to look past the height. everytime you feel like weird or worried about it just remember that you really really like him and that he will eventually grow

I am very pale because I am almost 100% french. In france it is beautiful to be pale but in the U.S.A it seems as though pale is not as beautiful. I would really like to be able to wear skirts and not be afraid that everyone is thinking my legs are ugly and that im to pale.

What can I do to make my legs look not so bad in skirts?

you can either go to a tanning bed or i have this lotation that makes your legs tanner but not like dye your skin like that orange stuff.. its called Natural Glow, daily moiturizer. it worsk really good =]

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