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Not so perfect situation..
Okay... I have a boyfriend lets say his name is "Joe". Well me and Joe have been dating foor about 2 months now and meanwhile I have always had a things for my old friend "Bob". I mean I would never cheat on Joe and I care for him more than the world, but yesterday Bob and I were talking and he told me he still had feelings for me and that from up so many feelings I had for him. But I still REALLY like Joe...I know this is confusing but I am so confused and I REALLY need help.
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I have been through that like twice. I think that I have found that it is just easyer to stay with the "joe". My "Joe" turned out okay. If you dump Joe and go for "Bob" then you will have to get over Joe (wich is like almost imposible) and then you have to get into being with Bob. Not only that but there is the dumping and the asking out, and then a lot of other things. This way, you stay with Joe and you don't break his heart, but instead of just saying no to Bob, tell him that you are in a relasionship right now, but if he wants to wait that you two could try it if you and Joe breaks up...that is what I should have done...but I made the wrong decision the first time. I did what I just told you not too. It didn't work too well...anyway...I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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i've been through this before.. stay with joe.
yeah you might still like bob but it is always hard to get over people. that will be a good way to stop liking him if you stay with joe. plus if you and joe lasted 2 months already then that must mean you two really like eachother <3
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ive been in this situation before
just stay with "joe"
cause "bob" is just seeing if you still want him
and things wouldnt probobly not work out anyways
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