hey, im colleen. im your typical teenager, but i've been through a lot more then you can imagine. i can pretty much answer any question you may have. whether it has to do with school, friends, boyfriend/girlfriends, or even, "what should i wear to school tommorow?" for being 15, i have a lot of experience in life. you can trust me, and ill do the best to help youu.
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Last Update: September 30, 2007
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Okay so I just moved to a totally new school this over the summer and i've been going to school
for about 1 month now and homecoming is next weekend and technically i have a date but he's really shy and quiet and i hate it. I want to just got with one of my new friends but I don't want to hurt him...Should I tell him I don't want to go with him? or what? I REALLY don't want to go with him. My mom says I need too but I don't really care this is my Junior homecoming I don't want to go with some guy who can't even spit out 3 words to me with out whispering them. I want someone who's outgoing. Any idea? (16/f btw) (link)
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definately DO NOT go with him. your date should be someone you WANT to go with, that will make your homecoming more fun for you. dont just stay with him because its making him happy, you have to make your self happy first. Just tell the kid that he's really nice, and its nothing against him, but you'd rather just go with friends and what not. if you go with him , youll probably regret it. but i would suggest talking or dancing with him for a little while you are there. it would jsut be a nice thing to do rather then totally ignore him.
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hey so i got my period like 3 months ago once and i havent gotten it since...
is it normal? cause i know its supposed to be irregular the first few times but is it supposed to be this much??
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yes, completely normal. when i first got mine, i got it in january, and didnt get it again until july! then i didnt get it for another 2 months. the first year or two you have your period, its very weird and out of wack. you have nothign to worry about girly =]
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what things do guys see in girls to consider them hot? Like idk if im considered hot or not, is it what there face looks like, their body, there personality, etc. PLEASE someone answer this...in detail. thanks =] (link)
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okay so first of all you need to know that guys are shallow. they are immature. 'hot' to guys, is like perfection. big boobs, perfect hair, pretty eyes, pretty face, skinny, nice butt, nice legs, aka perfect. no girl is perfect. no one is perfect. don't feel like you need to live up to these standards, because you dont. you just need to be you, and there will be that special guy who thinks you are perfect just the way you are. =]
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I'm not at all suicidal, but right now I feel like killing myself. My mom yells at me for the simplest reasons, and she says the meanest, most hurtful things. Like today, I needed my cheerleading uniform washed and I don't know how to wash it because the instructions are very complicated, so she told me she'd do it for me, and to lay it on the floor. I didn't want to lay it on the floor because I didn't want the cats all over it so I hung it on the door in the washroom. About an hour later she comes to me and starts banging on the door and when I open it she yells at me. She said. "I told you to lay the unform on the floor, not the fucking door, I didn't see it and now IO have to wash all over again!" And I tried say "Mom, I didn't want to lay it on the floor, the cats would just be all over it." and I didn't yell or anything, I just said it. Then, next she threw the uniform at my face and said "Fuck you! You can wash he fucking uniform yourself. I'm through with you." She says things like this all the time, and it's only getting worse. I can't talk to my father, he just says "You know how your mom is." and I can't talk to my mom, I'm actually scared to talk to my mom...she's even worse when I try to talk to her about what she does to me. I have no one else to tell, if she evr found out I told someone...I don't know what she'd do to me. She's hit me before. And I try to be a good daughter, and to no make her mad. I clean my roon, wash my clothes, I have straight A's, and I never get in trouble...
So afterward I just stayed in my room, but she called me out to get my biology homework on the table and she startes yelling at me about how she wants to leave the house because my dad's always gambling and my sisters always in trouble, and she says that I'm just worthless and trifen, and that we all deserve esch other. I really do feel like dying right now, maybe it would make her happier to have me gone. I don't know how much more of this I can handle before I break down. I try to just focus on school and the clubs I'm in, but whatever I do, she always finds a reason to yell at me, or worse. I'm never good enough for her. (link)
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firs of all, id like to say that your mother is completely wrong about you. she does not see how great you are. its not that you arent good for her, no one will be, because there is somethign wrong inside your mothers head. i dont know her personally, so i cant really make an assumption. but i do know from what your saying, that she has some problems. i would definately suggest getting some proffesional help. no one should have to deal with this. you dont need to change yourself, you need to change your mother. please dont ever think about taking your life away because of her. you will go so much farther in life then she did. and you said that she hit you before? that is illegal. this whole situation needs to be handled by a professional. if you are worried about your mothers reaction to you talking to a professional, dont worry, tell them that you are afraid of her, and they will protect you. i think you should talk to your school guidance counselor, and she/he can decide what is best to do for you. and one more thing, if you ever feel that your mother is putting your life in danger, or threatening you, call the police. i hope everythign works out, and remember, you need to ask someone for help. you cant deal with this on your own. stay strong
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today my boyfriend and i tried having sex the problem is that he is really umm gifted and it wouldnt go in and when it did it slipped out right away and yes he fingered be before but nothing seemed to work please help me out (link)
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funny thing, this happened to me before. theres really nothing that you can do, but i would suggest using lubricant to make it slide in easier. its hard the first time, because you may be too tight. just be patient, and it will take time, but eventually it will workk, i promise =]
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sorry it's kinda long but I wanna know...
ok well it's be about 8 months since I've gotten my period and for the first 4 months is was coming aroud the 20th and then it didn't and it came aroud the 13th and then for about 3 more months it was around the 13th well in Januaray is come on the 13th and now it's the 17th and I don't get why it hasn't come and I'm like scared that I'm messed up or not normal considering this is the 2nd time this has happend. Can someone please tell me what's happening if it's normal or not. Thanks, will rate too. (link)
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It's TOTALLY normal. When you first get your period , it skips all over the place. When i first got mine, i had it in the middle of the month. I didnt get it again untill 2 and a half months later! I was scared, but my mom told how it was normal. So no need to worry. After a little bit , your cycle will start to get in a routine. And you'll know around what time you'll have your period. Hope i helped!
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