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Is this a normal thing...he forgets me!
There is this boy who I have had a crush on for like 5-6 years. One night I found out he had a 'thing' for me and I was so surprised that well I thought it would last forever but then it faded so distant and now he barely talks to me. He never texts me back, never ims me, never calls me...he completely forgets I'm alive. My friends who knows him as we went to the same schools, tell me to move on and just live life, with or without a guy. I've been trying but every friday wen he's online I feel so sick to my stomach because I have no idea what's wrong with me; do i have a sign on my head, did i hurt him, what did i do?
Last night though he talked to me...just a few words and somehow I think it's because my friend asked him why he's not talking to me. HE just said hi, how are you and how was your day. And wen I asked y he was talking to me he completely ignored my question. He was like a brother to me, he used to help me with homework, we used to talk for hours on the internet and wen he called me I would sneek outside to talk to him. One night he called me 11 with his friend and talked for 40 minutes and it was amazing how I made my grandma think it was my 'girl' friend! It's really botherin me...does ne one (girls or guys) know why he's ignoring me all of a sudden?
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it could be because he might only think of you as a friend for now and doesnt want to give you any mixed signals like most guys do.. just try your hardest to keep in touch with him. if you need something to talk about online just randomly IM him saying something weird then be like opps sry wrong IM then start talking or maybe ask him to help you with homework and once you feel like you guys are talking more just go for a walk with him and tell him how it hurts that you guys dont talk no more =] hope it all goes well <3
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hey well maybe he fpund out that you had a thing for him and got a little freaked out. that could have killed your relationship. its all up to you to find otu why he isnt tlaking to you. its not up to your friends. only you can solve your own problems if you want them solved right. well good luck. you simply have to confront him yourself, no if ans or buts. cait ♥
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it sounds like maybe this thing he had for you was just a thing and not a crush. Im sorry i know how you feel im going through the same thing except he likes another girl now lol. guys can be so diffilcult they treat girls as if they like them and then forget about us and move on. all i can say is try to look around for another guy, its hard to move on (i know!) but just try to find someone better who deserves you. good luck and try not to push this guy who forgot you, he'll think your being clingy or sumthing (guys can be insensitive)!
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