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Sup, my name's Aaron, i'm a band freak, health freak, grammar freak, perfectionist, and I just love to watch people do stupid things even if it includes me, because heck there's no point in being uptight about life when in the end it all ends... hahah gotta love my type right? There's not much about me that you probably haven't heard that you can't compare to other people, I mean i'm a friendly person who once you get to know me, tends to grow on you like mold on bread. I'm smart, courageous, a leader, fun, loving, honest, brutally honest, sadistic, idiotic at times, ignorant to certain topics, indifferent in some controversial issues, unconcerned about what you think about me, happy, sad, depressed, angry, and basically any other attribute you can give to a 16 year old teenager. I'm an ex-swimmer, meaning that I quit... just because of band, and no i'm not that big a band freak, I'd just rather be playing my instrument and feeling the soothing sensation that music has to bring as opposed to getting stressed about being beat by other people! But no, haha I love swimming and if my school allowed me to take both at the same time without sacrificing my grades I probably would. I'm not the kind of person that sits and watches something, for instance, I hate watching football but I love playing it just because of the adrenaline rush. Blah, haha not sure what else to say, I mean I suppose I can tell you that i'm chinese, and uhh that's about it I think... I like to philosophize haha if that makes any sense, I feel that although philosophy is basically the "DUH" of life, sometimes you just need to be told, DUH. There's nothing better than discovering the obvious... Anyways, life's so much easier for probably you and me if we chatted on AOL, my screen name is An3mu5c0r9u5 yup yup =D hehe

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Ok, well I have an audition on monday for the school musical and I am going to sing "A Whole New World" from Alladin. Anyways, I got the music from my piano teacher but it is all off key. So, I am trying to find free and printable piano sheet music for it. Plz help! I NEED HELP FAST!
thanx so much!
i will rate high!

hmm well here... i searched google for you.. http://www.8notes.com/f/1_37543.asp go to this site and then ask the person to email you a copy... your welcome if it works and sorry if it doesn't

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Over the past month or so, I have been cutting my arm. I never cut the inside of my arm near to my veins but on the other side. It started off as just a way of forgetting everything but now it has turned into something much deeper, that even I haven't figured out yet. What I am doing is hurting my friends very badly and leaving them feeling guilty and lost. They keep saying that they will go to a teacher and tell him and two friends already have. I know I am hurting them but I honestly can't help it. I don't want my family to find out and I am scared that if my friends go to the teacher then he will tell them. I have no idea what to do. I have tried other things as an alternative to cutting but they never help like cutting does. I know that before I think about stopping for good, I need to figure out what has caused me to do this. I am usually happy, flirtacious and confident but now I am always upset. I suspect that I am doing it because of various family issues but I think that it could be something else as well as that. I honestly do not know what to do anymore.

wow i think you need to go to a counselor or a shrink because there is obviously deeper problems involved... and if you like to cut yourself that is probably an actual disorder.. I mean do you actually like the "pain" cause if you do that it is a mental disorder

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At the school dance the other night, i danced with one of my good friends who i found out liked me..and he's going to ask me out. I like him a lot as a friend and i think that I would like to give dating him a shot. Trouble is, my best friend really likes him. He doesn't like her in that way, and my best friend is a great friend to me and everybody else...now people are telling me that i shouldn't have danced with him because it was a mean thing to do to my best friend.What do i do about this whole situation?

well you can't change the past... so, you should maybe try putting a word in for your best friend maybe hinting on that she likes the guy or w/e and you know maybe you shouldn't date your friend because if you do then if you screw up you'll end up screwing up your relationship... so yeah..

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In the last year my periods have been really irregular. I'm 17 and I started my periods when I was 9 and they used to be quite regular, as far as I can recall because I never used to pay much attention to them.

In Spring my period was 3 months late and so I took a pregnancy test which was negative. In June and July my period was normal but the it was nearly 3 months late again. I had my last period late in October.

Does anyone know what is going on?

hmm no not really... you should go to the doctor

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Okay I am a female an I am 15 yrs old. I have always been rather skinny but I moved over a yr ago and since I moved I have gained a few pounds. I am still rather skinny, but now I have hips and I dont like it. I am about 5'6-5'7 and I way about 130lbs. My stomach is flat, and I have long legs, its just my hips. I am not comfortable with my body right now.I try and do sit ups and I walk and run alot but it doesnt seem to be helping much. I am really pretty, but I just want to lose a few pounds to feel better about myself. What is a good way to lose my hips and a few pounds? Does anyone kno of a good diet I could go on that does not involve too many calories. What do I do to lose weight?

well first of all the key to losing weight is eat less unhealthy foods and more exercise so that you are losing more calories than gaining... also since you are 15 years old it is all right to be thinking that because you are still going through puberty and that's what happens when girls go through puberty..

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i have a friend who is bi....but im ok w/ it .but she asked if i wanted to come over?and i told her no cuz i have plans..but i dont,and people have told me wen they stayed the night w/ her that she want to do stuff and im not like that at all....wat should i do???

lol well talk to her and make sure that she understands that you aren't into girls like that and that tell her what people have been saying because it's not good for people to talk about other people that are different like that and say bad stuff about them behind their back

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okay im a girl and there is this guy 2 years older than me and we are in hs... he wont leave me alone... and ive been tryin to ignore him because he gets attached to people and started saying i love you on our fone conversations... when i really dont like him at all... now i dont want ne thing to do with him.. how do i tell him to leave me alone and stay out of my life? without hurting his feelings... because i dont want to be hurtful..

well just say that uhh hey you're really annoying me and I would like it if you could just keep your distance for awhile..

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two guys at school like me and i like them ones funny and nice and the other is cute and nice! who shoud i choose?

you should choose personality over looks any day

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There is a girl at school at she is really comfortable around the guy I like. They are like best friends and I'm friends with him too but not like she is. Sometimes I get sort of insecure around him and act weird. If I didn't like him, obviously, it would be so much easier for me to talk to him and be myself. The only place I'm really okay talking to him is online. Do you have any advice for me to "open up" more? He even said, since I told my two best friends they were being mean to me, that I could hang out with him and his friends.

13/f

well, if you're with your own friends it will probably be more comfortable for you to talk to him when you're in a group just because you'll have back up if anyone says anything bad to you =D

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am i fat im 11 128lbs and 4"10"

hmm well you can't really ask that question just because we don't know how you are built... i mean according to the facts that you have you probably are overweight... maybe not fat.. but remember you still have 3-4 years till puberty hits and then you should lose all that baby fat

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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?

lol.. well you know hehe.. i'm gay too... =D well besides that uhh I really don't see why it matters I mean if they make fun of you just ignore it... be at least like well good at least someone else besides in my family is popular =) cause that always works hehe

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In school, I always feel like people are judging me. Only the popular ones though (because I'm not popular, I'm just average). I always watch what I do, to make sure it's something the popular kids would "agree" with (I guess?). It's not that I want to be popular (because, believe me, I really don't), but I just want to feel comfortable around them. It's kind of a weird topic, but I want to get it off my mind. I hate not being myself and I want to stop, but it's hard. I want to know your opinion on this. Thank you so much

lol gf don't give a shit what people think about you.. in the real world as long as you are intelligent you will be their boss while they are below you... school is only good for 3 things hooking up, making friends, and learning... that's why you pay so much money to go... not to care what other people think about you

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Im 14 and about a year ago i started noticing wierd bumps on my thighs and the backs of my arms. The bumps are kinda like pimples they have white dots in them. Even if i dont shave they dont go away. Please Help Me!

yeah that is probably acne... I have that too i was born with it but they fade away after a while... I think you should maybe just go to the doctor and ask if there is any type of medicine that'll help

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My mother bought me a beta fish (a Japanese fighting fish) and I have no idea how to take care of it. I got a book on how to take care of it, but you have to decode it (meaning I don't understand a word of it) The local veterenarians don't really know how to take care of these fish because not alot of their clients have fighting fishes. Does anyone on Advicenators know ANYTHING about these fishes? Do you know any sites where I can find information?

LOL! well yeah I do... never put them in front of a mirror cause they are extremely competitive and tend to like to hit the glass and stuff... well otherwise I suppose you should just feed them change their water but only add a little bit of water at a time or else they'll die from different water... and keep them in their own water when you empty the tank..

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Does anyone know where to get Paint shop pro 8? I tried jasc.com and downloads.com but they dont have it..they have 9. Thanks.

www.suprnova.org get the bit torrent thing on google... look for ABC

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Does anyone know a good color for clothes for someone who has long brown hair, kind of pale (not like white but not tan) skin, and green eyes? Pink looks good on me, but i hate it. Any Suggestions?

okay.. well i'm assuming you're a girl... well if you have green eyes you should wear blue because blue compliments green i think.. or maybe it was some other color... anyways yeah blue would look good

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I am 16 years old and I have been through hell and back! My mom was with a guy for nine years and I was molested by him. Now every year she is with a new guy. In February I was raped by my brother in-law and my mom didn't believe me at first, I was called a liar and I was told that I asked for it, the cops didn't even believe me until I took a polygraph test! I eventually got away from my mom because she hit me one day. I was living with one of her friends which kicked me out of her house for smoking cigs (She knew before I moved in that I was a smoker and I NEVER smoked in her house or even on her property!) I tried to kill myself because I didnt want to go back to my mom, i was placed in a mental institution for 4 months and now I am living with my mom again! She of course is with another guy. In the last few weeks my mom has had two strokes because of her boyfriend yelling and threatning her! I can't take it! I have enough problems of my own and the other night I tried to kill myself again! I dont want to end up back in the hospital and my moms new boyfriend is cool as long as they aren't fighting. I am scared that my mom is going to get hurt and I am going to end up dead because the slightest things make me want to cut, burn, or die! I still don't feel close to my mom, but I spent so long fighting her and finally gave in. I have no where to go but back to the hospital and I dont want that! WHAT DO I DO!

well apparently God still wants you on this world.. otherwise he would have already condemned you to hell... well anyways besides that... I think you should try getting adopted by one of your aunts or uncles just cause it's not healthy for you to live in that type of environment.. I mean if I were put in that situation I'd understand what you mean by trying to kill yourself but just go and see if like your aunt or uncle can adopt you

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There's this guy "Ethan" and i liked him alot over the summer, but then at school it got around to me that he didn't like me anymore and so i thought okay ill just not seem interested bc guys usually come back to what they now know they can't have. Well that's when he started coming back around and wanting to talk and everything and i of course got excited. Then once we started talking again it wasnt much but it was something. i guess i just wanted it to go back to how it was over the summer. so i suppose i got in the habit of ignoring him going back to the belief that he'd show me more attention but now he's not noticing me much anymore either. What can i do to get him back to talk/notice/like me?

I think you're too cocky... he might not be the kind of person that wants to play the "hard to get game" he maybe just wants you to talk to him too... maybe he thinks that you like someone else I mean us guys can't read minds you know...

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Hi, could someone get the url to the song "All I want for Christmas is You" By Mariah Carey. Thanks a bunch! I need it for my xanga :) (i would get it myself but i can't find it onthe sites i normally go to, even if you just recomended a site or something thatd be peachy :D)

hmm didn't know she still sang... but I'll do my best!

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one of my really good guy friends is being a jerk, because i just met a guy from a different school and i think hes jealous but anyways i asked him why he was mad cause i didnt know for sure and he said don't talk to me..actually do better then that stop breathing, i cant believe you haven't already and i was like okay..and my friend kneed him through a bus seat after he said that and he said hey lesbians get a room and he was being the biggest dickhead ever and then he said i was ugly even though he said that i was extremely pretty a week ago and he also said when i was talking to another guy he said to teh other guy..hey broz before prudes and hes been like that for like 2 days..what could i say to him??

he's just jealous... I don't blame him i mean it's probably because he thinks that once you go out with the new guy you won't pay attention to him as much.. believe it or not but we men have feelings too =/

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