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k, so i alread asked this question but the link didnt work.
so im gonna try this again
(dont scream)
http://tinypic.com/ei1d93.jpg
thats a picture of me..and if that picture doesnt work, my hair is almost shoulder length, black, and parted to side, so my bangs go over one eye, and they are a bit shorter than the rest of my hair.
saturday i have a hair appointment to get a trim, thin, and styled for homecoming, and my question is, how should i get it styled? i have no idea what would look nice. my dress is black with some pink, and its long with speghetti straps.
ill rate you 5 unless your mean.
thanks in advance. (link)
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Oh wowowow this is going to be fun! It would be so cute if you leave the bangs down, and then pull up the rest into a half up, half down style, then leave the bottom straight, but the part that's up in to a ponytail, curl it. IT would look ADORABLE with that dress. Have fun at homecoming.
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My girl and I just broke up. She wants to call me everyonce in a while to check how Im doing. I would be crushed If I found out she was with someone else. Should I keep talking to her in hopes that she might come back to me? Would it show that I am trying to make things better? (link)
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Honey, stop right there. Eh Eh. Bad. Do not, not, not talk to her that often. WHen she calls and says "so how are you" just say "oh im doing awesome" and don't tell her you miss her or ask her about her love life. You should move on sweetie. I know how hard it is to forget someone who you cherished, but really, you should move on.
Maybe in the future, few weeks, if she is still showing interest, it could mean she wants to get back together. but for the moment....don't get into longer thenm 5 minute conversations on the phone.
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Three girls. Used to be friends with them. Now I'm not (long story) and they're bitching about me behind my back. The part that makes it upsetting is that act really lovely to me when I'm around... and I'm a trusting kind of person. It took ages for me to believe it.
Would you please tell me what to do? Is it better to...
1)...confront them, and a)hold a grudge b)forgive them OR
2)...ignore them, and a) hold a grudge b)forgive them.
3)start a hate campaign.
Or if you have an alternative I'd be glad to hear it (but I'm not changing schools!) (link)
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You should definetley confront them. I mean, not in a bitchy way and don't get in a catfight, but ask them about it. IF they deny it, then you just need to ignore it sweetie. I swear that it will eventually stop. I was in the same situation a while ago. Once they know it doesn't bother you, they'll stop it becasue they don't find pleasure in it anymore.
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hi my name is jake, i'm 16 sophmore in high school. over the years i watch my friends go through relationships and stuff, n i never had one. n its not bc i'm antisocial or anything; i think i'm pretty popular, lots of friends and stuff. just thinks never seem to happen or get to the point of relationships; is this weird? should i try to put more an effort to startin a relationship? or should i just kinda be passive about it like i've been. i do want to find someone, to have fun with. (link)
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No. Don't force yourself. Seriously, I dated this one guy who was 18! HE hadn't had a girlfriend yet and that was totally fine. You should wait until you find a girl that you really like. And if you just want a kissing buddy, well im sure those aren't too hard to find, but don't rush into a relationship hun. Wait for the right one. Enjoy highschool while you can, you don't need a girlfriend to enjoy it.
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ok im a huge germophob lol & i was wondering like could you get any type of diseases er anything from public bathrooms? i dont like using them but sometimes you juss have to, so does anyone know anything??
thanks!!!!! (link)
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Yes you can so be careful! Put down those dispensed paper protection things. You CAN GET DISEASES from the toilets! SO you do need to put down toilet paper on the seat!
xo
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(16/f) One of my good guy friends and I are starting to like hang out more and he's told like the whole world he likes me.. but that's not the point. One day at tennis practice I was telling one of my really good friends that he liked me and since then she's been like all over him and it's really annoying! This isn't even the first time that she's done this! Ok and by "all over him" she's really just flirting with him. But she didn't used to. A year ago she had a SMALL crush on him but since then she's had like a zillion crushes *let's be honest she's a little boy crazy*. What should I dooo?!
I'm really liking this guy but I don't want her to be mad at me or something
thnks! (link)
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Well, the classical "Do I pick the guy over the girl" Well, sorry to say but there is no easy way out of this. If you like this guy, and he likes you in return, well, then go for it sweetheart. Stake out your man. If your friend is peeved about this, which im sure she will be, explain to her your feelings, and if she is still mad, or worse, wont talk to you. You just give her some space. SHe will realize in time that you acted on your feelings....
But you do need to talk to her about it, and explain your feelings for him.
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ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me... (link)
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WEll, I'm not a big fan on lying so I think you should fess up. Tell your parents that there will be parental supervision, and say that you will call them every few hours to make sure everything is alright. IF you sit them down and explain this to them, I"m sure they'll go for it.
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hey!.....i like this kid and hes a year younger then me in school...anyways..i started talkin to him just like 2 months ago and we barely talk but hes really hawt....like i cant stand looking at him because i just wanna kiss him so bad anyway..i told his friend that i htink hes hot and his friend told him and he says the same about me...and he hasnt done anyhting about this...i mean he smiles at me once in awhile wen he sees me and he says hi or w.e and his friend was supposed to hook us up but this kid i like lives in a different city like 15 min away...not a problem for me i drive..but i dont know how to get his attention more or how to take our friendship to a higher level...we have a lot in common and he was surprised that i thought he was hot so i dont know
help me!! i rate high (link)
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Okay honey, now this i can help you on. First, STOP STARING AND ASK FOR HIS DAMN NUMBER! haha. Just casually walk up and be like " oh hey, what's your number" and he will definetley give it to you. Then the next step is to call him, talk and see what's up. Don't talk for over 20 minutes. Then the next night, don't call. Then on the third night, give him another call and ask if he wants to "hang out" or catch a movie.
From there it's in your hands, but that is THE BEST START TO TAKE and he will go for it.
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So I've been with this AMAZING guy for about a month, officially on Friday, the 14th. And Saturday its Sweetest Day, any ideas? I was thinking of something for both of the occasions. Please dont tell me to do a search. =) He is very creative and I'm not all that creative. Please just something creative/homeade or omehing that isnt pricey.(up to $30)Something that shows meaning. Thanks in advance, I rate! =D (link)
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This might sound a little corny, but buy a bouquet of roses, and on each rose, write down on a piece of paper and tie it onto the rose, one reason why you love him per rose.
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how do you make destroyed jeans...any ideas?...well i know you use paint and sisscors but i heard a cheese grater was good too? (link)
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Well, those will all work, but I have an even better idea...give them to your dog and play tug a war with him. IF you don't have a dog, then just start hacking away at them, The cheese grater works EXCELLENTLY!
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Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month and a half, and I really have fallen in love with her. She says she has too and I believe her. Now shes says though that she wants to take like a break for maybe about a week. Now during this break were suppose to be pretty much still going out, but with like no strings attached. She wants to make sure that if given the chance we wouldn't do anything with someone else or we could and see if we still felt the same way about each other. I understand why she wants to do this becuase we've both been done wrong by other gfs/bfs. She just wants to make sure the relationship lasts before diving in head first. I agreed to do this, but still want other people's opinions.
John
Age:16
Gender:male (link)
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Hmm. Well this is a tricky one. Well, it definetley sounds like you two are totally smitten with each other. But, yes, there is a but, dont take this in the wrong way, but she might not be willing to make a commitment.
You need to sit her down and ask her "what do you want out of this relationship" and if you like her answer, then you continue being with her. IF it doesn't satisfy you, then you keep it at a permanent break.
You need to find how she feels about this realtionship.
Good luck buddy!
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My 9th grade math teacher is so sweet! I am in 10th grade now, and my teacher for Geometry is not a good teacher, so I go to my 9th grade teacher for help! and last year she helped so much, and this year she is helping a lot too! I want to get a picture frame, and on the outside put a wooden ruler and a wooden protractor and a crayon and a pencil. She is from Texas, and proud, so I want to add something from that, but I dont know what. For the picture inside of the frame, she nominated me for student of the month in 9th grade and I won, so I will use the picture of us from that. I am also going to give her some candy and her all-time-favorite soda, Diet-Coke! Anything else?
5's and feedback! :)
-Kelsey (link)
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Wow. That is really nice of you! That all sounds really nice, but a nice touch would be if you put it all into this really homey looking basket with ribbons, that would add such a cute effect. Also include a thank you letter that expresses your gratitude! Other then that, sounds like a great plan and you sound like such a sweet person. It would be nice to be your teacher!
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What are ways of reducing anxiety? I'm a senior in high school so I've been pushing myself to do really well this year. I am also putting in 20+ hours a week at work which takes up alot of my time. I get stressed out over the littlest things that deal with school. Just over small assignments & tests. I want to do well but I can't seem to stop having this anxiety about everything. Besides medicine, what are ways to reduce my anxiety? (link)
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This is going to sound really stupid, but you should really try meditation. It seriously helps. Set aside about 30 minutes form that hectic schuedule of yours and go get a book on meditation, some scented candles, and a nice comfy rug. This will seriously, seriously, seriously calm you down. ALso, try a nice scented bath maybe twice a week. I am also extremley stressed with school at the moment and I definetley know that feeling, and believe me, this works...oh and you could also add a little music, but not what you would typically listen to..I know this sounds dorky, but put on some nice classical music, or slow indian, it really gets you in the mood. Good luck hun.
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I just started a new job today in the clothing department of a superstore.
The store hasnt opened yet so we were cleaning the diplay tables for the first couple hours which was fine, but then my boss had us folding clothes onto the tables. She told me TWICE that I wasn't folding them neatly enough even though I was trying my best. I was working with two other girls and she was being harder on me than the other two and I'm not sure why. I was so stressed out about it that when I got home I wanted to throw up and I went staight to bed.
My next shift is tomorrow and I really want to impress her.
Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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Okay, well from the sound of it, your boss is an extremley huge bitch, but you can't go telling her that now, can you. The best way to approach this is to be extra polite. IF she doesn't like what you're doing say "could you please show me how you would like it done so that I can do it to your satisfaction" THAT will impress her, showing that you want to learn how to do it right.
DOn't suck up whatever you do! Good luck, and maybe she's just trying to see how tough you are. But definetley follow the above advice.
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Well, I adore singing.. to me.. it's a way of life. I do it 24-7.
I don't really know if I could ever do it infront of anyone other than myself! I'm so affraid that I will mess up, or people will hate my voice. Personally? I love my voice... but they always say, "Sometimes, you hear what you want to hear, not what is heard by others." I don't know what to do. In a few months.. I'll be moving to Tennessee to live with my Father. He says that Nashville is a land of opertunity for me. (he and my step-mother are the only ones I've ever sang infront of) Well, my Step-Mother, is persuing her singing career. And I'm SO happy for her. She has the prettiest voice.. EVER I'm not sure what to do..
Anyone have good advice for me?
Thanks..
Confused Vocalist (link)
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Okay,well you might not like this, but Follow your heart. You seem like you really really really love singing with a passion. Go for it babe! You never know if you haven't tried, and if you do, which i doubt, but if you do "suck". Then you won't make an ass out of yourself on the big screen like ashleeee simpson!
I'm pretty sure that you have a nice voice, so you should seriously pursue that dream. Don't be afraid...Some people will hate your voice im sure, but everyone has different tastes...Go for it
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i am trying out for cheerleading and i am really pale. my legs are really white, so should i ask to go tanning or should i try something else. i cant go outside to tan cause its like sooo cold out. please help! (link)
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Stop right there honey! You are beautiful the way you are. Don't try to tan and be like all of the other "typical cheerleaders". If they pick you, it won't be on how tan you are, it will be on talent. Besides, tanning salons and even tanning outside is DANGEROUS. If you really want that tan that badly, get a spray on one..but really honey, you don't need it. I'm whiter then hell...well, heaven i guess you could say, but they will judge on talent. IF you really want it and it will boost your confidence, get the neutrogena spray on tan, it is a light tan that doesnt' make you look like the other plastic barbie doll girls!
Good luck and im sure you'll make it!
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She is not very social. She is not very "cool." She wants to be my friend but I don't like her very much. She is weird. She got off the bus crying the other day because people call her a lezbo and a homosexual. I asked her why she was crying and she said she didn't know what thoughs words mean. I am 1 year younger than her. She is a geek...HELP ME! How do I a) get her away from he and/or b) make her cooler shall I say. (link)
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Well honey, there's no real nice way to say this, but ignore her. I know it's mean, but you need to just ignore it. If you don't, believe me it's happened to me, she'll think you're her best friend and tell everyone so....
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ok i have to say im medium size stomach which im fine with its a good size but i have thunder thighs do u no any excerize i can do to make then smaller in 3weeks before i start swimming in gym (link)
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Well, sweetie, I'm sorry to say this, but there's no overnight cute to "thunder thighs". Believe me, I have them, and I've been dying to get rid of them, but there is one exercise that I've used that proved to be effective. IT's going to involve a lot of your time to get rid of some of the "thunderness" as you would like to call it.
Okay here goes:
Walk for at least one hour every day...if you can't do it on the weekdays, make it up on the weekends. This shows VAST results in the thigh area. ALso try a bike machine, It really does work, but you must be persistant. And no, you're not going to loose it all in 3 weeks, but it's a start, and if you're that unconfortable in a swimsuit (LIKE I AM) Then put shorts over it.
Good LUck!
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I recently just started dating someone that I like soooo much but my friend is pissed off at me!i did tell her that if he asked me out then id say no bc of how he acts but when he asked me out i just couldnt say no!shes now saying..."how could you choose him over me?"when i never did that!shes acting like i ditched her but i would never do that!!!what do i do? (link)
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Simple answer: You didn't do anything. Your friend is purely jealous. You having that boyfriend is now going to take away some of the time that you used to spend with her. I know that it seems really hard now, but she'll get over it. Tell her that you can balance the time between the two people you care about, her and your boyfriend. And also tell her that no matter what, she'll always be your friend and you'll always be there for her. She will simply have to accept it.
Good luck hon!
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okay so i have gone out with my ex for 6 months and its been a year and im still not over him.. i have tried to get over him but its so hard and i really need to get over him because its just so hard for me to see him with other girls, i have tried to be with some guys but my ex is always on my mind and it just wont work.. please help (link)
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Well, there's no real "quick fix" to this. Believe me when I say that I know how you feel. ME and my boyfriend broke up, i couldn't get over him for about 8 months...no joke. And I knew that it was pathetic, and I just couldn't get over him! So I just tried to date other guys and think about all the things that weren't right in teh relationship. Yes, it was extremley extremley hard, but I eventually got over him by dating other guys.
Believe me honey when I say that it will go away. Good luck! Try dating other guys, spending more time with your girlfriends..
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