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(16/f) One of my good guy friends and I are starting to like hang out more and he's told like the whole world he likes me.. but that's not the point. One day at tennis practice I was telling one of my really good friends that he liked me and since then she's been like all over him and it's really annoying! This isn't even the first time that she's done this! Ok and by "all over him" she's really just flirting with him. But she didn't used to. A year ago she had a SMALL crush on him but since then she's had like a zillion crushes *let's be honest she's a little boy crazy*. What should I dooo?!
I'm really liking this guy but I don't want her to be mad at me or something
thnks! <33
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Well, the classical "Do I pick the guy over the girl" Well, sorry to say but there is no easy way out of this. If you like this guy, and he likes you in return, well, then go for it sweetheart. Stake out your man. If your friend is peeved about this, which im sure she will be, explain to her your feelings, and if she is still mad, or worse, wont talk to you. You just give her some space. SHe will realize in time that you acted on your feelings....
But you do need to talk to her about it, and explain your feelings for him.
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"I realized since I told you I liked [Insert Guys Name Here] you've been flirting with him alot more. Since you know I really like him, could you maybe back off?"
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Just be honest with her,tell her that you really like him,that you found out he likes you back,that you are not trying to take him from you but that she should understand you,if you were her you would understand,put your eyes on another guy because you have respect for your friend.Don't lead her the path to him I mean because then you will regret it for not going for what you really like and also worst it will stay in your conscious and I know for experience.
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heyyyyy girl ok so you said the girl have done this before. If you know she dose it why do you tell her?If you like this boy fight for him! you cant yust always think about hearting everybody els. what about you? you go a head and flirt your ass off!you know she only do that to get you mad because before you told her he liked you she was not on him like white on rice!
THAT'S WHAT LADY D WOULD DO!
HOLLA LADY D
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Yeah I have one of those friends too you need to talk to her and decide with her if it's ok that you go out with him and pay close attention to her facial expressions if she says she doesn't care but she looks hurt don't do it and talk to your guy friend about the problem eventually it will probably blow over and you and your guy friend can do what you want to from there.
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Tell her you like him. Ask her to please understand that you really like this guy. "Look (person), I know that you like a lot of guys, but I only like one and he is so special to me. I would really appriciate it if you could please stop flirting with him. I am afraid that he will start liking you and not want to ask me out." If she is a real friend she will understand and move aside.
Hope it Helps!
<333,
Melanie
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Lets not talk about what you should "dooo" but what you shouldn't "dooo"
"dooo" not put "dooo" in anything.
"dooo" not tell your friend in which you already knew was guy happy, and has already flirted with someone you admitted to liking before who it is you like currently.
You lack common sense. What you should do is think about how far you plan to go in life.
Anyways, it doesn't really matter. Even if she does steal you guy who cares? I mean, your realtionship with him would only of lasted 6 months anyways. Save yourself the heartbreak.
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