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note i found
imdoing okay now..
i havent been hurting myself no more which is good i guess. but i have lots of friend problems. i just want a friend that is sooo close to me that we hang out alot and trust eachother and do like everything with. i don't know who my real friends are. i always start fights and stuff. i feel bad after. i always at least start everythingg...i had found a note about one of "my frends" and it said some stuff about her that two of herrr friends wrote and i thought she should know about it so i gave it to her and now her 2 friedns are mad at me and one of them is a guy that i kind of idk like and idk if he liked me but hes mad at me now-not wicked mad but kind of mad- and her other friend is just madd-she like hates me now and i feel so badd--the friend thinks i just gave her the note just to make her mad at her so she would like me better b/c we're not as close anymoroe or w/e. she told me, that me and the friend who the note was about aren't like frriends anymore and even i didn't notice that. It really hurt me and i just dont know what to do/think...my and my friend were soo close and i have tried 2 make us stay friends but i would never eliminate her friends so she would like me better.
what should i do??
sigh...
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well see I have friends that think that they can say stuff about one of their friends and them not knowing about it, I know how you feel, I can take things the wrong way as well, one of my friends wrote somestuff about one of my other friends and wanted me to keep it to myself, but I couldnt cause I was kinda close to the friend they were saying stuff about and it hurt me that she wouldnt talk to me cause I promised them that I wouldnt tell, but I told her what had happen so was mad at me for a while but she got over it , and I told my friends to keep their oppinions to their self cause it can really hurt people... what I am trying to say is that you should talk to them about what is going on and see why they aint that close of friends and Im very sure that everything will work out :)
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You should probably apologize to the friends you told on perhaps then they will forgive you,won't be mad at you no more,as far as your other friend who thinks you gave her the note just so she would like you better I think she is just trying to act like her friends never wrote her the note but deep inside she knows the truth but she is just too afraid to accept the truth that is in front of her eyes.Look how she repays you after you were just doing something thoughtful so forget her she isn't worth your time worrying about talk to people who appreciate what other friends do for them.Hope you solve your issues with the other friends hopefully.
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wow sounds like your friend needs to blow off some serious steam you did the right thing giving your friend the note and your friend is probably in denial back off and let her make her own decisions for a little bit and if your friend doesn't belive you after a while well... lets just say friends should trust each other and she should probably know what your handwriting looks like. But if you just want to avoid fights this one could have been avoided by throwing the note in the garbage and not reading it. (just for future refference if you want to use it)
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