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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be??
you don't realy need to be a certain age. If you think that your ready then just do it.But don't do it to fit in with your friends do it because you want to. Remeber you have to be mentally and physicly ready. You also have to know what comes with sex, STD's and pregnancy. Use a condom, and have a back up form of birth controll like birth control pills.
what makes a guy get an erection and when can they start getting them?
um if there going through puberty um little thingss can let them get an erection. Like thinking about sex, the feel of a fabric, or wanting to pee. But mostly if the guy is arosed then he gets an erection. Guys start getting erections when they start puberty.
Okay, I know I shouldn't have but I did!! Everyone told me not to do it but I did it anyway. I popped about 4 pimples because they were huge and just staring at them made me feel grossed out. When I popped them it swelled up and had puss coming out of them. Is there anything you can use to make the swelling stop and to shrink or not to show real badly. Please don't tell me to use coverup, makeup and all those acne scrubs. Tell me an ingrediant something you can put on the pimple that you can make out of everday items. thanxz, please hurry!!
i put tooth paste on my pimples and they go away the next day.or they just get smaller.
i am fat.. when i look in the mirror i look like a mini-sumowrestler.. i'm 13.. 5'1 and i weigh 110lbs.. please tell me how to lose the blubber on my abnormally huge thighs and my blubbery stomach.. it would be much appreciated! ps; i hate exercise and i'm too young to get lapo.. please give me good dieting info..
ok let me think. you can do yoga. I've been doin it since i was 9 and now i'm 14. Not only is it good for you but it's not that hard.You can buy yoga book or tapes. I don't think it'll help you lose weight quickly you can also just get on a heavy diet you can cut out carbs and sugar and other unhealthy stuff from your diet. Hope i helped.
please suggest good rock groups/bands.. punk is ok too.. thats.. aren't that well known.. thx everybody
um simple plan, linkin park, good charellot,yellow card, evensanese, velvet revolver,um let me think, um this is an old band but janes addiction, switch foot,um i can'tthink of any other bands right now. But i hope i helped
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Okay.. well there's this girl at school.. and she told EVERYONE i have herpes and that i masterbated in front of everyone and that my boyfriend is only going out with me because i pay for his weed and alcohol *WHICH ISNT TRUE* HE PAYS FOR ME! And NON of this is true.. she is saying all of this stuff because MY boyfriend was her best friends X boyfriend.. and like my bfs X hasn't said ONE word to me about me and my bf going out.. it's just her best friend is sticking her nose into my business and this should be between me and courtney *his ex* The funny thing is.. is that.. my bf.. has been in love with me for like ever.. and we dated before him and courtney got together but i STOPPED talking to him for multiple reasons *mainly all because of me* but like.. he didn't even ask courtney out.. his friend asked her out for him.. and he didn't wanna say like.. no i didn't want him to ask you out.. because that would of hurt her feelings.. so.. he NEVER EVER called her and they only went out for two weeks.. but they never spoke once throughout this whole two weeks.. well.. one night i spent the night with him.. and i didn't even sleep in the same bedroom as him.. i slept out in the living room with his mom watching movies all night.. *my family knows his whole family* and my mom KNEW i stayed there.. so then those 2 girls automatically ASSUME that i slept with him.. and HES A VIRGIN! ugh.. i hate school drama.. well yeah.. i have no clue what to do.. this is the stupidest situation in the world *i think* but it's not cool of those two girls to start rumors about me just because i got my man back! Dumb whores!!! *sorry this was really long lol*
ok this what you do you comfront those bitches and be striaght with them. Let them know that your man does not want that girl. Don't be nice or nothing because they sho as hel weren't tryin to be nice when they spread those nasty ass rumors about you. And if they try to get smart blow they shit out.
* hoped i helped, and happy holidays* :)
Ok, i like this guy, let's call him Jim. I flirt with him CONSTENTLY and i think he likes me too. But then i was talking to his friend and he said that Jim raped someone. I didn't believe him at first and i askeD Jim about it. First he said "i'd never do that!". So i got his friend to come over and he said "Yea you did, remember? On my couch last summer?" And Jim said "O YEA!"
I dont want to like a guy who raped a girl. Plz help me, i dont kno what to do!
well if i were you i wouldn't like him because if he raped already what makes you think that he won't rape you. If i were you i'de stay away from him.
Ok, there is this boy I want to have sex with but I dont know what he will say, and I dont know how I should ask...I trust him, all tho me and him arent realy like best of friends or anything, I dunno, I am so comfused, what should I do and if I ask how should I ask??
well you can start by asking him if he's a virgin. Also after that say if he's ever considered haveing sexual intercourse with you.if you can't talk about it with him then maybe your not really ready yet.
I was always obsessed with a guy and I would always talk about him. And when my friends would talk about him, I would continue and say that i love him and all that. But he already has a girlfriend, so I dont wanna talk about him anymore. I wanna avoid talking about him when my friends are talking about him. It's really hard to change the subject when I don't know what else to talk about. So basically, all I need to know is how do I stop talking and thinking about a guy who I was obsessed with before?
you can find another guy to like and to talk about and you should ask your friends not to talk about him around you since your trying not to talk him
There is this guy that ive likes for awhile now and he is a junior and i am a fresman.(highschool) He is one of the sweetest guys i have ever met and we get along really well. He called me and asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with him the on the weekend and i said yes. then i saw him two days after that and he said he really liked me but he just wanted to be friends because he thought about it and the fact that im two years younger then him scares him because he doesnt think i want a relationship. Its been a week since all of that has happened and now he doesnt hug me when he sees me and he doesnt go out of his way to talk to me. i still REALLY like him and i want to tell him id be ready for a relationship but i dont want to seem desprite and i dont want to bug him about it. should i just try to forget about him or what?
thanks for the help :o)
No because it's obvious that he really likes you. i do think though that you should tell him that you want a relationship with him and the 2 years between yall doens't really bother you and it shouldn't really bother him. It's not like your beggin him to go with you so theres no way that you'll come off as desperate.
does any1 kno any good love songs to make a cd with?
um theres ashlee simpson lovemakes the world go round or Anthony Hamiltons charlene. O yea maroon 5 this love.those are somedgood love songs that i like.
I'm in 8th grade and i like a boy on the bus but we really don't talk that much and we look at eachother but do think i should tell him i like him and embaress myself in front of all those kids on the bus or jus forget about?
well i don't really think you should tell him just now, mostly if you don't know him.you can befriend him and if you still like him after that then you should tell him how you feel. Hoped i helped.
Okay well met this guy on the internet .. and we've been talking for about a year now . and i really think im in love with him ..and we talk about our fellings for eachother.. and he feels the same things for me as i do him ..He has never saw my pic befor .. bur he said it dosent matter if im Ugly or..pretty .. he said all that matters .. is the way he feels .. and he said ..that it WOULD NOT CHANGE anything if i was ugly .. well what i want to kno is .. if i should just cut it off with him because i kno were never going to meet i mean we might .. he lives in flordia and i go there every summer but ..i dont want my feeling for him to get any stronger then what they already are for him .. what should i do ?
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Hon all i know is that he might be telling you he's 16 and good looking but in reality he might be 43 and balding, internet raltionships aren't safe for 1 you don't really know if he's telling you the truth about him self. that's all i have to say.
i have been anarexic for 3 months.. My boyfriend is really worried about me, and really wants me to stop.. i have tried to do that for him.. but i just cant make myself.. i am 13, 5'8 and i weigh 65 pounds.. what should i do?
wow 3 months i was balimic ( i don't think i spelled that right) but anyways i was like that for some years and i started at a young age i think you should deffinitly get some medical help cause being anirexic can kill you. The sooner you get help the better.
ok well i got my first period almost 2 years ago and i had it some what regular for the first 6 monthes or so, but ive only had it twice in the past year and a half. what should i do?
i think you should see a gyno.
I might fail one of my classes because my teacher doesn't explain the work or go over it. The class i'm in is so behind on work what can i do.
you can ask your counseler to switch you from that class or you can ask the teacher to explain the work more.
last spring, i did 69 with a guy i dont even know. i know his name, we go to the smae school, but we havent talked since. i am embarrased everytime i see him, becasue i was drunk when we did it so i didnt really realize what i was doing. he stares at me alot, and his freinds say that he likes me, should i stay away? hes not my type.
I guess when you did 69 with him he might not of not known you were drunk and may have took you doing 69 with him as a sighn that you like him. I think you should tell him that your not really interested in him and that you were drunk when yall did that( maybe you should leave out the drunk part) but anyways it's best to let him know how you feel and i guess atleast once you've talked to him you won't be embarrassed every time you see him.
**hoped i hepled** :)
I have 2 change schools in 2 weeks and i wont no any1 @ my new school and + ive never been 2 a public school before. What should i do?
from,
Alicia
you can try to talk your parents out of not letting you change schools.
im gonna live with no regret im gonna take up every chance i get im gonna laugh until i cry im gonna live like ive got money fallin from the sky
does any1 kno who sings that song and where i can get lyrics to it?
um at first when i was reading it i thought it was kelley clarksons song and then when i finished reading it i had no clue, sorry i don't know who sings that hon.
Is it wrong to like a guy, and love another? Does that make me a hoe?...lol I give advice, but every1 calls me a hoe b-c of that!! But after u r done reading this then check out my site...sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY
-*Thanks a bunch!*-
-bEcKy-
um no a hoe is a girl that basicly sleeps with guys for money or a hoe can just be a vary trifilin girl but anyways likeing a guy and loving another just means you have mixed feelings. I hoped i helped.