Question Posted Wednesday November 24 2004, 12:26 am
There is this guy that ive likes for awhile now and he is a junior and i am a fresman.(highschool) He is one of the sweetest guys i have ever met and we get along really well. He called me and asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with him the on the weekend and i said yes. then i saw him two days after that and he said he really liked me but he just wanted to be friends because he thought about it and the fact that im two years younger then him scares him because he doesnt think i want a relationship. Its been a week since all of that has happened and now he doesnt hug me when he sees me and he doesnt go out of his way to talk to me. i still REALLY like him and i want to tell him id be ready for a relationship but i dont want to seem desprite and i dont want to bug him about it. should i just try to forget about him or what?
ask_the_becsturr answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 8:48 am: i think what you need to do is sit down and talk to him about what he thinks a real relationship is, and if it is somthing you're ready for then tell hhim that. if his idea of a real relationship however involves sex and other things you may not be ready for then just forget about it because i can garuntee you there will be other guys who you will like just as much if not more who will be better for you if thast the case. [ ask_the_becsturr's advice column | Ask ask_the_becsturr A Question ]
Pixiemagic14 answered Wednesday November 24 2004, 1:23 am: No because it's obvious that he really likes you. i do think though that you should tell him that you want a relationship with him and the 2 years between yall doens't really bother you and it shouldn't really bother him. It's not like your beggin him to go with you so theres no way that you'll come off as desperate. [ Pixiemagic14's advice column | Ask Pixiemagic14 A Question ]
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