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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Are brown eyes even pretty anymore?
It just seems like all these beautiful people have blue or green eyes.

And all the people with light colored eyes are noticed more.

My eyes are very dark brown.

I want to make them look pretty.. :\

Brown eyes are grogeous. I have very dark brown eyes, (they're almost black) and I adore them. Not everyone goes for the persons' eye color. Some people like the shape or how the eyes look on that person. It's not always about the color. My boyfriend loves the color of my eyes, but he loves how they're shapped more than the color.

To make your eyes prettier than they already are, try wearing some eyeshadow. Plum colors look gorgeous with brown eyes. Also, wearing mascara and eyeliner will make your eyes pop.

17/M and wandering "What is the average length of the penis?" I've read many different things on the internet but I'm still not sure. So if I could get a few opinions then that would be awesome. Thank you very much for your time.

"Somewhere between 5.5 and 6.5 inches in length, with a girth between 4.5 and 5 inches in circumference."

my friend smoked weed about a week ago and now she has to get a routine blood test *basic blood work to check levels and stuff* next week and we were wondering if it will show up and if it does will they say it to her parents when they answer the phone for the results.

Marijuana can stay in a person's body for as long as 3 to 90 days after smoking. The most common period of time is anywhere from 3-30 days, depending on your metabolism and the amount of pot that you've smoked. Pot could still be detected in a urine test up to a month after the last time it is used. If you smoke it occasionally it will remain in your system for up to 10 days. If you smoke pot on a regular basis it will stay in your system for as long as 45 days, and if you smoke pot at a constant pace, it can stay in the body for 90 days.

If pot does show up (which it probably won't, since she's just going for a regular blood test), they'll probably end up telling her parent(s) over the phone when they call with the results, considering it's her parent that took her to the doctors' and payed for it. However, if your friend went to the doctors' herself and payed for it, her parents won't find out the results, only she will.

What does it mean why a guy says he has "Blue balls"??

"Blue balls" is a slang term referring to testicular aching that may occur when the blood that fills the vessels in a male's genital area during sexual arousal is not dissipated by orgasm.

i know a hicky is like a love bite. but does the opposite sex really bite ur neck?plez explain this to me, thanks.

A hickey is formed from someone sucking on your neck (or any part of your body), for a long period of time.

to detailed but i was wondering when people have sex do they automatically moan or does it just come out without even trying or effort? im really confused and would like to know.

It really depends on the person. Some people moan, and some don't. When you are enjoying yourself moaning usually comes automatically, for the people who do moan while having sex.

okay... so im 13 and my boyfriend just turned 14 he want to do setain thing that im afraid if i do i will get pregnant but the thing is i havent started my period so do think i will get pregant if i havent started my period.

Even though you haven't started your period yet, you could start at anytime. Therefore, you don't know when your cycle is or when you're obviating. If you do plan on having sex, be sure to use protection, please.

How long have you and your boyfriend been together for? Does he really love you, or is he just saying that to get into your pants? (Not saying he is, but some guys do this.) If you guys are comfortable around one another, talk to each other about this. My suggestion to you is to only have sex when you're 100% ready. If you truly feel like this is the guy and you want to lose your virginity to him, than do so. If you're having ANY second thoughts in your mind, you're obviously not ready for the next step. Make sure you're 100% ready, you're in love and you're comfortable with him.

how much is a bowl? or how do you classify a bowl? and what is a bowl?

A bowl is the part of a device (the pipe) for smoking weed that holds the weed itself. If you pack the bowl it is the same as smoking haft a joint.

does an orgasm burn calories? haha

Yes, an orgasm and sex will burn calories.

What excactly is friends with benifits?

It's someone you're not in a relationship with, but you're able to a sexual relationship with.

ok this is going to sound weird.
but when i get my period, i get chunky bits along with the blood. hahah. well anyways, does anyone else get that? is it normal?

thanks

I'm sure mostly every girl gets these while on her period. It's a blood clot and it's totally normal, nothing to worry about.

I have a question.

How do you make your mascara not - so - clumpy when you apply it?

Please don't say 'buy better, more high quality mascara,' because I'm sure it all works fine...

but any tricks?

Thanks in advance.

I suggest buying a mascara brush. They work great and they get rid of the clumps.

what is alcohol poisoning and how can you get it?

When the concentration of alcohol in the brain becomes high enough to depress the areas of the brain responsible for consciousness and respiration, the drinker can lapse into a coma, stop breathing, and die.

Alcohol also depresses nerves that control involuntary actions such as the gag reflex, which prevents choking. Since alcohol irritates the stomach, people who drink an excessive amount often vomit. Without a properly functioning gag reflex, they could choke on vomit, which could kill an unconscious person.

A person's blood alcohol concentration (BAC) can continue to rise even while passed out as alcohol in the stomach and intestine continues to enter the bloodstream. Assuming the person will "sleep it off" is dangerous.

You can get alcohol poisoning by drinking too much. If you want more information on this subject, I suggest checking out the following website:

http://healthyhorns.utexas.edu/education/alcoholpoisoning.html

Hi i was wondering,for anal sex,do you put the lubricant on her or on the guy?
Thanks

You put it on him and her. I suggest putting more on him, though.

What are your opinions on Gauchos (the pants) ?

Personally, I hate them. They aren't really my style. However, if you enjoy wearing them there's nothing wrong with that.

Does the Tampax Pearl tampon have a plastic wrapper?

Yes, they do.

What are the best tampons?
I want leak protection that doesn't leak before the whole tampons is full.

I use Tampax Pearl (Super) and I love them, they never leak.

i like when my boyfriend like kisses all the way down my neck and starts sort of making out/sucking/generally playing with my boobs with his mouth.

is this normal or weird?

It's totally normal, everyone has different things that turn them on and yours just happen to be this. Nothing wrong with it though, I enjoy it too.

hey! okay i was planning on asking this guy to sadie hawkins dance. well, hes in one of my classes but hes a sophomore. im a freshman.and we kinda talk were kinda just like friends. and i think im gonna ask him to the sadie hawkins dance. but he might wanna go with another sophomore and not with a bunch of freshman. it will be nice if he doesnt care but yeah lol im just kinda scared of him saying no. I just need some comfort or confidence so i can ask him. :] im scared of rejection too:[

If you like him enough, you should ask him to the dance. You never know, he might like you too but is too shy to ask you. You don't know until you give it a try. Just because he's a sophomore and you're a freshman doesn't mean anything. There's nothing wrong with a sophomore and freshman going to a school dance together. I think you should just be brave and ask him, you don't have anything to loose.

To the parents of teenage kids out there(meaning 13,14,15 year olds), you know your kids are smoking, popping, doing drugs and partying. Do you care? Do you try to stop them? , i'm really curious, becuase now-a-days it seems like everyone's doing it, and there parents dont even care.

You have some parents that do care about what their children are doing, and you have some parents who don't care at all. It just depends on the parent; what they're like and how they chose to bring their child up. I know when I was younger and in my teens I was a big partier; always at parties and clubs. My parents cared about what I was doing, but they let me do it anyways because they wanted me to make my own decisions and learn from my own mistakes. I think them giving me space and me being able to live my own life, made me who I am. As of right now, I hate partying and clubbing. I also hate drinking. I'll have a sociable drink, but not going to drink to get wasted. Sometimes parents that give their children space is a good thing and they turn out to be a better person.

As for the parents who don't let their children experiment with things, they're very hypocritical. Most of them were wild when they were teens; partying, drinking, doing drugs, etc. Why is it okay for them, and not okay for their children to do? Sometimes you just need to give your children space and let them find out things for their own. Yes, you give them information about partying, drinking and doing drugs. You tell them how dangerous it could get, but you trust your child, hoping they'll make the right decision.

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