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should i ... what would happen
okay... so im 13 and my boyfriend just turned 14 he want to do setain thing that im afraid if i do i will get pregnant but the thing is i havent started my period so do think i will get pregant if i havent started my period.
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Ok. Lets look at this logically. Sex, in it's most basic incarnation, is for making babies. It's a reproductive function that humans happen to tie alot of emotion to.
If you aren't physically old enough to reproduce, why the hell would you think you're old enough to have sex? It's a fact, after all, that humans become physically able to reproduce before they are emotionally ready to handle the impacts of sex in today's world (or the repercussions like STDs and pregnancy) and you're thinking you want to start _now_?
Way, way, way too early. Keep your clothes on, it is not your job to take them off to make your boyfriend happy.
Let's repeat that.
IT IS NOT YOUR JOB TO TAKE OFF YOUR CLOTHES TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY.
Sex is about partnership. About two people who want to fuck each other's brains out and make a mutual decision to do so.
You aren't anywhere near ready to make that decision responsibly, you aren't educated enough to know what you're getting yourself into. If you have sex, it will be a huge mistake and you will very, very likely regret it.
Wait. You can't un-have sex.
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well im 12 and ive aready had my period. yours should come soon. also, if youre not married, please dont have sex
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You shouldn't get pregnant, because you aren't menstruating yet.
HOWEVER
If you're the slightest bit uncomfortable with having sex, then you shouldn't do it. You need to talk to him about your comfort zones and boundaries, and he needs to respect that and not pressure you into doing anything outside of them.
You really should wait until you've had your period at least, because before you have sex you should go on the pill (or another type). Always use condoms in addition to other forms of birth control, to protect yourself from STIs and pregnancy.
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Listen,
Period or not ANYTHING is possible, You are also very young. My advice would be to wait, Sex is not a race and to be fully honest with you sex is not ALL THAT either. If anything it's maybe 5 minutes of your time and it's over and done with. You are way to young, Wait until you are older trust me you will be better off.
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woah, No i won't advice you to give up your virginity to your bf just because he turned 14. you will be in 7/8 th grade and that is just to young. what if you don't spend the rest of your life with him, you will look back and regret it forever, No i won't advice you to do that. And yes even if you haven't started you period, I am pretty sure you might get pregnant.
Please Avoid that!
Sarline
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look ,i'm going to be straight up & blunt. your only 13. you don't need to give your boyfriend something as special as your virginity. i'm 15 & almost lost mine a few times this year, but then you have to think on "really, how long is this relationship going to last?" & you still being in 7th/8th grade... y'all won't last too long. guys are jerks that look for ONE THING. if you have any questions or wanna talk message me or something. i don't want you to do something that you'll later regret. stay safe hun. -rachel.
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If you haven't started your period, there is no way you can become pregnant. You could get a sexually transmitted disease though.
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Even though you haven't started your period yet, you could start at anytime. Therefore, you don't know when your cycle is or when you're obviating. If you do plan on having sex, be sure to use protection, please.
How long have you and your boyfriend been together for? Does he really love you, or is he just saying that to get into your pants? (Not saying he is, but some guys do this.) If you guys are comfortable around one another, talk to each other about this. My suggestion to you is to only have sex when you're 100% ready. If you truly feel like this is the guy and you want to lose your virginity to him, than do so. If you're having ANY second thoughts in your mind, you're obviously not ready for the next step. Make sure you're 100% ready, you're in love and you're comfortable with him.
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Well, it depends on how long you've been dating him & if you truly love him or not. Girls your age don't really know what love is, and boys usually sweet talk girls so they can get in your pants.
Anyways, if you love your boyfriend enough to where you think you'd like to lose your virginity to him, go for it. Just think about it a ton first. Do you know the consequences? Do you know a ton about it? Are you scared/nervous?
If you can't answer any of those questions except the last one, you shouldn't be having sex. So wait until you're completely ready. And tell him you're not ready. If he loves you, he'll understand.
As for the pregnancy thing; use a condom & try to get on some birth control. It's the best thing to do. Unprotected sex is stupid, don't do it. Besides you're young, so don't ruin your life by having a kid. But all in all, yes it's possible for you to get pregnant even if you haven't started your period.
♥T!NA
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How long have you been dating him; how do you know he really loves you? Regardless you at least want a solid relationship even if you don't plan on being together for life to spend your first time with. You are too young right now; trust me a guy i thought was the sh** at 13 is really sh** now so wait until you can see things in a better light and be with a more stable down to earth guy you want to give it to a man when you're a woman not a boy when you still have so far to go. When it is time than you'll really enjoy it. Having sex this early can get your name in the streets don't let anyone take advantage of you .
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Yes you can get pregnant, because you can start your period soon. You are way to young to be having sex. Think of the consequences. ♥
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You are to young to be messing around. Think that 14 year old can support you and a kid?
Yes you can get pregnant. You could start any day. Since you have no idea of when your cycle is you can indeed get pregnant and never have a period.
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