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Q: hi im only 14 and i m like rely hairy down there and i can never let neone seeme in my undies bc it is soo hairy! i want to be normal! its embarassing! and when i do shave Omg it gets SO RED AND BLOODY and BUMPY so many red bloody bumpies and the hair comes back! and im not like olny talkin bout the hair in front o have hair like all around my..umm..buthole lol help me!! ***thank you!!
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I agree with the previous answer. You need to try just trimming instead of shaving so you don't irriatate the skin. Also, talk to your mother about seeing the doctor. If you are abnormally hairy, there may be a hormonal imbalance causing it. Good luck.
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Q: Is it possible to overdose on vitamin c? i mean i just bought cough drops that say each drop has 100 percent of the vitamin c i need each, is ok to take more if i need them?
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Vitamin C is usually passed out in your urine if you take too much. Read the package. If there is no warning, I'd say you're safe.
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Q: what do i need to do to prepare for sex-physically, not mentally bc im ready with that :-D thanx
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There is no preparation physically. If you've hit puberty, your body is ready. You may want to shave a few things and experiment with masterbating so you feel more comfortable with your sexual side, but other than that, there is no physical preparation. Just make sure you have condoms available to you and use them.
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Q: ok..my friends that I sit with at lunch I'm starting not to like..I was invited to sit with my best friend Amanda and her friends..but like I'm really good friends with some of them..like theres about 16 people there and I'm close with like 8 of them so that would be ok but I dunno how to break it to my other friends and I'm scared that I'm not gonna fit in that much at the new table..there all saying yeah I want you to sit with us and stuff but I dont wanna be like an intruder..what should I do? -rate high-
K e l l e y
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Well, Kelley, you just need to sit where you want. You don't have to sit in the same place or with the same people everyday. The idea of having specific tables is pretty segretory, if you ask me. Eat lunch at one table, then go hang out at the other, and switch the next day. I always spent most of my lunches on the go, floating from friend to friend around the campus. The more friends, the merrier!
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Q: okay.. this ones for the girls obviously..well i'm 14 years old and my boobs are really weird. like the areola and nipple are blended together.. my nipple is rarely out unless im really cold! this makes them super pointy n ugly!!! is this just a stage .. will my boobs be normal when they grow a little more? sorry but i really need help with this! i HATE it!
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I recommend looking at some amature porn, seriously. Boobs come in all shapes and sizes. You best get used to them now. Trust me, when a man sees a boob, he's just happy to see a boob. He won't be very judgemental at all.
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Q: my dog sheds like a mofo! i mean all i do is touch him and then my hand looks like a gorillas its so hairy...hes only a beagle what can i do?
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Get a shedding tool from the local pet store and use it on the dog as soon as his fur starts looking clumpy, which is when he is preparing to shed. This will pull off most of the excess fur for him and make him more comfortable.
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Q: *.:*Sorry If This Is Graphic!!*:.*
whenever i get a zit, i get everything out of it, but then the next day its bigger than it was when i popped it! help!
-JeNNi
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Wash your hands before popping it and clean the area afterwards with astringent of some kind. If that doesn't work, stop popping them. Your skin is too sensitive.
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Q: Ok, I just started becoming closer friends with this girl this year, and now she WON'T STOP CALLING ME!! Like, every single day, twice a day! I don't wanna talk on the phone with her every day. How do I get her to stop calling without hurting her feelings?
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Caller ID and just don't answer. She's calling because she has the hots for you.
This person rated me and left this response:
"Ummmmm....she cant really have the hots for me since i am a girl..... but...ok... "
Well, now, how about we TELL PEOPLE what our age and sex are when we ask our questions. You give ME a low rating because YOU provide inadequate information. BTW, quit being a homophobe. Being a girl has no effect on whether or not someone likes you. Walk headstrong into the new millenium and quit hating.
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Q: hey does nair really work? because i have a hard time shaving my legs and getting all the spots and i thought it would be nice but i want to know if it works first. thanx.
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It works but it's not very good for your skin. I recommend getting feminine shaving cream instead. Then at least you can see what spots you've missed because they'll still have the foam on them, AND it makes your skin so soft you won't even notice if you miss a spot or two.
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Q: OK For haloween im goin to be like a gangsta n dress up like a guy. Im gettin some jeans n a wifebeater but i cant think of what else would complete the outfit. Any suggestions ?
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Get some bling bling, like a gold chain with a kitchen clock hanging from it and a BIG ASS fake diamond ring. A do-rag would be great, or at least a bandana. Really large sports shoes with the laces untied would seal the deal.
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Q: im 13 and never had a boyfriend. How old were you when you got your first boyfriend??
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14 was my first kiss from my first real boyfriend. Don't be in such a hurry.
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Q: heyy .. okay i have lotss of like problemss .. and i really need so0me one i kan have to look foward to and be happy about what i mean is a boyfriend .. and i havent had one for a whilee .. and i havent liked any one for a while .. whats wrong with me .. and how can i find new guys to find a boyfriend .. i really wunt a long relationship
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You sound like you're young. There is no reason to be out hunting for a boyfriend. Just hang out with friends, both guys and girls, and let nature take its course. When the right guy comes along, he'll fall into your lap. No need to get stressed out over whether or not you have someone to liplock with all the time. Save that worry for when you're 30.
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Q: my mom and dad separted and now i live with my mom and her boyfriend in missouri. my dad still lives in iowa and i want to go live with him but he doesn't have a permanent place to stay yet. and thats y my mom won't let me move with him. do u think that is fair?
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Your mom just wants what's best with you, though I understand why you would feel upset. I really don't see what's wrong with living in a not-so-permanent place, either. What it probably comes down to is that she doesn't want you to go. She loves you. Just wait for your dad to get a permanent place and ask again. If she finds another b/s reason, then call her out on it. Realize that wanting to live with Dad may be hurting her feelings tremendously and do your best to assure her that you love her.
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Q: My parent's 25th anniversary is coming up. They are going on vacation and everything, but does anyone have any suggestions on what I could get them?
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I took my parents to a nice dinner on their 25th anniversery. Maybe you can suprise them with passes to a day spa or a bigger trip if you have the money. Trinkets and crap like that tend to be overflowing out of your house by the time you've been married 25 years, so don't get them another dust collector.
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Q: well my friend Amanda finch cuts. she cant stop. plz help she wants to kill herslef and i hope she doesnt! help! how do i support her?! i need ideans and QUICK!
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First of all, sweety, don't put peoples' names on the internet. It is a VERY unsafe practice. Don't share ANY information that can help someone find you or a friend. I can't believe parents let their kids use the computer without beating this idea into their head first. BE SAFE.
Now, about your friend. You need to tell your parents. They will contact the proper people, I hope, to get her some help. If they do not, or you know they are unlikely to, you need to go see a teacher, school counselor, pricipal, nurse, WHOEVER you feel comfortable with and tell them immediately. Ask them to let you remain anonymous if you want, but a friend that's mad at you for telling on her is far better than a friend who's dead or hurt. Tell someone NOW!
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Q: I get the worst cramps when I get my period. It's usually my first or second day when I get these horrible cramps. I take Motrin, drink tea and use a heating pad. Nothing I do seems to really work and my cramps get so terrible I just want to die. Is there something I can do or take that will make them go away?
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Yes, there is. First of all, if you want to take a very natural route, taking a multi-vitamin that contains iron or eating iron-containing foods, like fish and vegetables, every day will help. Cramps are linked quite often with iron deficiency. Be careful not to overdose, as iron can be poisonous in huge amounts, meaning don't go take 8 pills at on ce, hehe. If you want a more sure-fire remedy, the doc put me on birth control pills when I was having horrible cramps at about 14-15 years of age. They made my period very normal, it only lasted 2-3 days, the cramps were almost non-existent, and my acne cleared up. I hope that helps!
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I don't normally get bags under my eyes, but today my eyes are really, really puffy. Are there any home remedies for this, besides cucumbers on the eyes? Thanks.
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Get more sleep, drink more water, and don't rub them. That's really the best you can do for them. Oatmeal packs or masks can be beneficial for puffy eyes. Also, Mary Kay makes this great yellowish foundation that goes under your regular foundation and it's designed to hide dark circles. There are also lotions and cremes on the market just for treating this malady.
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Q: At school yesterday, I slipped on some loose rocks and split my knee open, I know, GROSS! It stings, and the bleeding slowed down, but it still does bleed a little! I don't want to bleed through my clothing! Any advice???
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First of all, did you wash it thoroughly with soap and water? If it's still split and bleeding, you may need butterfly bandaids or maybe even stitches. Have one of your parents look at it or the school nurse to determine if it needs medical attention. As far as keeping it from bleeding on your pants, get some clean gauze bandages and medical tape and tape a loose bandage over the wound. That will keep the dirt and fabric dye out of it, your blood off your clothes, and it's loose so air can still get in and help it dry up and granulate (form a scab.)
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Q: I'm a 17 year old manle, and I have my mood changes just like every1 else, but it seems when i get depressed...it really hits me. LAtely it's hit be pretty hard becos it just appears the everything i do or everyone i come in contact with i just screw up, and i often have this feeling like i just want to get away from it all, just...go somewhere and leave my problems. Are these just normal feelings? and does anyone have any ideas for getting out of these moods? I have no thoughts of suicide or anything, I'm not like that, but i just have these terrible feelings and i just want to get away. someone please give me adive.
P.S. Not sure if i put this in the right catergory.
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Almost every teenager feels like that from time to time at your age. You're male, so I doubt you'll be open to talking to anyone, such as a parent, favorite uncle, or school counselor, but if you ARE open to it, I recommend that first and foremost. What you really need to get out of your slump is a new hobby or obsession. Why don't you try out for a school sport or take karate classes? If that's not your thing, try to ride your bike everyday, form a dungeons and dragons club, start reading a new series of books, or whatever it is that interests you? Sometimes just giving yourself a distraction or activity to vent yourself on and maybe meet new people at can give you that little boost you need.
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Q: Its almost 1 year for me and my bf and I have noo clue what to get him. Hes 14. Any suggestions?
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At the age of 14, things like watches, silk boxers or a sweater are out of the question! Does he like video games? Or sports? Something fun and useful is ideal for a guy this age. Get him a magazine subscruption, a new video game, or some new skateboard wheels, whatever he's into.
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Educated young woman who's worked with children for years. I have an open, liberal, natural, fun-loving outlook on life and the world.
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Info
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Gender: Female Location: Palm Springs CA Occupation: Nursing Age: 26 Yahoo: Member Since: September 14, 2004 Answers: 200 Last Update: March 8, 2005 Visitors: 14837
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