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Q: Where can I download Sufjan Stevens songs on the internet for free? Please don't say Limewire...
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go to www.dogpile.com type in what you want Sufjan Stevens for example the click audio, search. Depends what you are looking for but hopefully that will find you some songs.
Brittni
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Q: ive liked like 15 guys in the 14 years of my life but this time its different i like some one (he is kind of my friend) i give him things he asks for(food,candy and stuff like that) i talk to him like he is a regular person all my other crushes i was blushing and i had butterflies in my stomache but with him it like we can have a conversation without my throat getting dry and ive had 9 dreams about him one dream we almost kissed i feel so different all my friends tell me that im in love with him and they can tell that he likes me and they said i need to tell hm that i like him im so scared he would reject me i cant even begin to explain my feelings for him
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if your friends say that he likes you i think you should go for it. I mean what is there to lose. If you are not positive he likes you ask some of his friends, flirt with him a bit. If you feel this strongly make a move though the worst thing is rejection for a second it may suck but you guys sound like good friends so its not a big deal, dont rush into things. Ive come to realize that in life it isnt hard to get what you want, it wanting it after you get it.
GOOD LUCK!
Brittni.
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Q: i'd like people's opinions- do you believe that it's possible for two teenagers to fall in love? i'm 16/f and he's 17/m. this is our relationship in (very small) nutshell:
we talk about everything. we care about each other to the deepest, most loving extent possible. i don't see other guys [friends, random guys] in the same way i used to. neither of us would ever do anything to hurt the other [emotionally & physically, for that matter.] and anytime either of us even suspects something is wrong [which has only happened twice], we bring it up and talk through it. he makes me genuinely happy- the happiest i've ever been in my life. i'm constantly in a state of bliss when i'm with him, no matter what we're doing or what's going on. we've been dating a year and almost seven months. i can honestly see marrying him and spending the rest of my life with him. no words can describe how much i love him.
i'm sure i'm forgetting other things. but anyway- in love? or just a "teenage love"? [in your opinion. of course, my opinion is the former, haha.] thanks in advance (:
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yes infact i have been in love i was 16 and he was 18, first love ever. Although you may not stay together forever, some teens acually continue to date their high school sweetheart and eventually get married, i however was not so fortunate. But, i wish you and yours the best of luck and happiness, it sounds like you guys truely have something special.
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Q: 14/f
what do guys look for in girls?
(looks, personality, etc.)
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Confidence is key,
If you dont care what others think that attracts guys a great deal. Of course any guy will fall for a girl who looks good but that doesnt make for a lasting relationship(if thats what your looking for)Guys love girls who can just chill, like one of their guy friends, someone they can relate to. As for looks it all depends on the guy, look at girls that certain guy has dated prior to you.
hope that helps,
Brittni
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Q: iight i'ma try to make this quick. i'm with this guy that i meet a month ago. my bestest guy introduced him to me. At 1st i was like no cause i've been hurt a few times and i'm tryin to be good wit me, myself & i. but i ended up talkin to him and really fallen for him even though i tryed not to. But the problem is he goes to one school and i go to another. and yesturday i finally saw him... um he's alright but not truely not my type. but i dont kno now i aint that crazy for him no more. is it cause i saw him or cause i'm tryin not to really fall or is it cause our far away relationship? please help dis shortie.
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well possibly it could be that in the past you were hurt in a relationship so you are looking to have another so another guy can comfort you and take all your troubles away. That honestly isnt always the best, it ends up with you hurt, trust me my friend is going through a major depression because of this very reason. If you are looking to start a new relationship make sure you really like him, for example this one just sounds like you arent interested 100% there are a lot more guys. So look for one that is your type and make sure you are ready to let another guy into your life.
Brittni
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Q: a few months ago my friend ironed my hair with her iron and its really killed my hair so i got the dead ends cut off but there is still dead hair higher up does anyone know what i can go to get it healthier.
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hey the best thing to use is a bed head product or catwalk yes they are a bit expensive but they make hair healthier. You should not use a pantene or garnier becuase they have waxers in them which are not good for your hair it weighs it down. Although at first it looks good. If not herbal essense works for me so maybe it will work for you. Hope it helps.
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Q: ok so my bf and i have decided to have sex but the thing is we are both virgins. so i would like to know if it is possible that i can get pregnant by swallowing his semen. i have heard it's possible and other's say it's not. can someone pls clarify for me?
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no it is not possible to get pregnat but there is a risk of possible disease such as AIDS. But it is physically impossible to get pregnat unless the vagina is penetrated.
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Q: is it true that if you make a wish at 11:11 it'll "come true" or something? just wondering because i don't know what it means
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it is said that if you make a wish at 11:11 it comes true. But, it doesnt always means it does, its just something people do i guess to make themselves look forward to some of their wishes come true.
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Q: when my bf and i have sex i make myself moan, yeah it feels good but i can lay there and be silent but i dont want to be so i make moaning noises. are you like that too? or do they just come out of you? i just dont get if moans are "fake" or if you actually cant help them.
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hey there,
to be honest i never moaned during sex. But, its not like ive had sex a lot. But, some people moan during sex to make their partners feel like they are giving you pleasure, so in return they know they are doing a good job. Another reason is because you get an orgasm. People fake these because they think it means the guy did a great job in sex, so therefore the boy feels like he did please you and not only himself. But, if you are a virgin you most likely wont get an oragasm even after the second or third time, it depends.
brittni
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Q: Hi.
I'm way younger then my 24 year old boyfriend.
I hate that he smokes weed. He does this rarely, like once a month. He knows I hate it and it's a serious thing in our relationship because if he doesn't stop I'll have to end it. I hate worrying about what he's doing when he goes out with his friends and it's because I can't join him since I can't go to bars and stuff because of my age.
The reason, this time that I'm SO mad. Is because on Friday he went out with a group of friends. These friends constantly drink & constantly do drugs together. I asked him on the phone if he had gotten high and he said no, and he promised. My boyfriend NEVER lies, so I was stupid enough to believe him.
A few days later I had gotten a message on myspace that was from his friend. The message said, "Your boyfriend got baked on brownies the other night." Which basically means he got high. After asking him what this meant and if he really did it, he lied again and finally told me the truth after nagging him for like an hour.
He told all of his friends on Friday about how I cause a lot of trouble in his life and he wanted to be happy again by smoking weed. Everytime I bring up that I want him to stop smoking weed, he'll argue until I have nothing else to say. What are reasons that he should stop? Because the reasons I come up with OBVIOUSLY don't matter.
BTW, he's 24 years old, and he just recently got his first job because of me. Before that he was a waster living off of his dads money and playing video games all day. I don't want him to turn into what he used to be.
Please help & thank you.
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i know this maybe tough but you should talk to him about it. Honestly though just so you know drugs will most likely come before you in a relationship if your partner is doing drugs. What you can do is tell him what is wrong possibly even take a break for a little while until he straightens out. But i mean he lied to you too which violated your trust, you had to get it from his friend. Did you confront him about what he said you to his friends? Maybe if you do take a break he will realize how much you mean to him and how serious you are about him giving up weed. Trust me you do not need that kind of stressor on your shoulders and it will never fully go away unless you just give in, which you should not do. And when you tell him about weed make sure you dont use word like YOU SHOULD or stuff like that tell him that the health risks worry you and you feel it is putting up a barrier between you and him.
GOOD LUCK
brittni
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Q: i've been going out with this adorable junior for 4 months now. at first, i never thought it would work out because im the freshman girl who is shy and has never been with a guy before. but since the first time we met he took my heart. things have been going great, but im afraid he dedicated himself too much to me?
To me, it just doesn't seem right. He's Mr. Popular, quarter back of the football team and like abercrombie model looks; and im just the freshman girl. we've gone as far as oral but in the past month i've really wanted to have sex with him. i ask him all the time about it but he said he doesnt want to. (He already had sex before by the way.) He said he doesn't want to take the thing away from me that is most precious unless i love him.
You dont understand though, like i WANT to have sex with him so bad, but he doesn't want to take it away from me at such a young age unless im sure i love him. He tells me he loves me but it's hard for me to say "i love you" back and really mean it.
Does he not like me anymore? It's just he's so nice and i know for a fact he never cheated on me before or is seeing another girl. Should i drop the whole sex subject?! PLEASE HELP!
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well maybe you should wait a little bit before you have sex with him. At an age like this if you can not fully say you are in love with someone you most likely should not have sex. Hormones are raging which could make you want to have sex, more a of a lust than a love. So just wait it out until you are positive. Losing your virginity is a big deal. I mean right after you have sex its like whatever but the next day you feel even closer to this person and some people even grow to require sex more and more. Also sex can be painful. Not only on your emotions but physically. I think it is great that he does not want to just get in your pants, most guys would just take advantage of the fact. You got yourself a good one. Just THINK about it, and youll know when the time is right, if you have the slightest doubt or if he does dont do it. YOU CAN NEVER TAKE THIS BACK EVER. Trust me i lost mine with my ex and i have fallen so hard and he will always have that connection with me. FOLLOW YOUR HEART NOT YOUR HORMONES.
good luck
Brittni.
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Q: How do you flirt i need some good examples. i am very interested please help me.
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well you can wink, lick lips, smile at them constantly laugh at their jokes, say how you are their best friend and that you love them, kiss on the cheek, stare at them, hold hands, tocuh areas of their body, dance with them, blow them kisses, say how cute they are/sexy, twirl bubble gum on your finger while staring at them, play with your hair, ask them to fix your necklace (even though it is okay), eat something in a sexual manner such as a lollypop(likc it intensly). To lead up to this you can ask them to a movie just the two fo you it thats what you're looking for.
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Q: I don't really understand flirting; how do you do it (I've tried searching other sites, but I can't find them I KNOW what flirting is, i just would like some examples!!)
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flirting is rather simple.
1. lick your lips.
2. put your hand on the persons leg.
3. stare at the person and look away when they look back.
4. smile at them constantly, laugh at there jokes even if they are stupid.
5. hold their hand.
6. nodge them like a lil shove see if they do it back.
if you need anymore examples feel free to ask
flirt away
good luck
Brittni.
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Q: ok
if we have been dating a month...
& valentines day comes up...what are so ideas of some things i could possibly get him?
i rate
& any advice wil be appreciated
THANKS IN ADVANCED
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well boys love food you could makes him some cookies, homemade gifts always show how much you care. Or make him a mix cd of his favorite songs or songs that you both love. Make him a homemade card with a little poem inside saying how much you care about him.
Brittni
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Q:
at my school a lot of people have already lost their virginity. not just regular sex, but from oral and other stuff. i know that theres one guy that would be willing to but i don know if i should. i dont just want to be a follower but i also dont want to be the loser.
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you should not do something you do not want to do. Sex is a very personal thing that you cant just throw away. The first time you have sex oral or vaginally you remember it for the rest of your life. This could hurt you so much emotionally. So do not do anything you are not 100% ready for just to but like everyone else. AND YOU ARE NOT A LOSER, trust me you have more guts if you stand up for what you believe in and guys dont want a trashy girl anyway. Once people see how strong you are they will envy you, trust me.
GOOD LUCK
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF
Brittni.
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Q: i broke up wiht my bf and everytime i see him i regret it and now he has a new gf and he sitll tells me he lvoes me and i love him too but ijust dont wnat to go through all the pain(of us breaking up) again if we do go back out. adn i can not stop thinking about him!!!!
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well honestly if you broke up with him before why did you? Think about this then think about seeing him again. But as for the time being he is with someone else. Could it possibly be that you just want him because someone els eis with him now or that you just really want a boyfriend? Think about these things before you get involved with him again trust me i've had this experience. Then once you get back with them you realize i dont want them anymore. Or you see them do something completely stupid that you didnt like about them when you were in the relationship and go OHH thats why we broke up and im glad we did. I mean you can still be good friends with him, maybe all you just love him as a brother not as someone whom you share intmate realtions with. Consider this.
hope this helps
Brittni
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Q: how do you stop loving someone?
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hello i am facing a similar problem with the person i am in a relationship with. It honestly depends upon how far you have gone with the person for example giving away your virginity, that will make the situation hard. Or if it was your first love the person will be in the back of your mind subconciously. But, there is hope it may take awhile to recover depending on how serious the relationship was/is. First off spend sometime with the people you havent seen in awhile such as friends/family memebers. Dont feel bad talking about it even getting a consuler to discuss these factors may help.(only a suggestion)You can also plan a trip to somewhere you love or try a new activity to get your mind off of that person. Take a break from romance, explore your options. But to be completely honest its hard. And if you have anymore questions feel free to ask.
good luck,
brittni
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Q: i really really like this guy, he gives me just the right amount of attention, but then takes it away by not texting me back or saying he'll message me and then not doing it. he seemed interested in me but then i can't tell anymore. he talks to other girls, too but he talks to me at school in between classes. is there anyway to tell if he likes me? i don't want to ask him cuz i don't want to weird him out. he is kind of lazy and doesn't really make an effort, but i don't know if that's just how he is. if he doesn't like me though, then i don't wanna just be wasting my time. i noticed that he touched my arm when we talked sometimes but i haven't noticed it lately. soemtimes he is quiet and i can't hear him which makes me think maybe he's nervous. but i donno.. help me!
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well it sounds to be as if he may just be a flirt. Some guys tend to lead girls on so that they feel they can have any girl they want. The best thing to do is to lead him on then lead him astray beat him at his own game. Ive learned this really gets guy interested. So if you really like this guy i say play hard to get, see if he comes to you. If he does pursue it, if he doesnt start looking elsewhere.
good luck.
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Q: im scared to get my ear lobs pierced should i be
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no not at all you barley feel a thing. Just bring a friend to talk to and before you know it you'll have your ear pierced and you wont even realize it.
goodluck,
Brittni
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Q: My friends skin looks soft. She has acne but apparently not the same kind I have.
I really want soft looking skin. My skin is all bumpy ? my pores stick out and it looks rough i guess :[
I use acne treatments. Should I moisturize? I don't know..
and
What eyeliner is the best to use?
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well as for the soft skin you can buy some Curel it works wonderfully. As for acne do you use the pads such as stride x an oxy clean well here a hint, you should rotate between the two because your skin begins to adapt to that medication so change it up every week or two weeks. And i know it may sounds kinda silly but when you are in an emergency toothpaste yes toothpaste by the next day pimples can reduce size, it's prety amazing acually. Now for eyeliner i have the best stuff in the world its called lancome amazing but, amazing comes with a price about 22 bucks a pop but it lasts a long while about 3 months.
goodluck,
Brittni
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bio
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Hello there the names Brittni, I decided to make a site on advicenators because i wanted to help others with their struggles, its a passion of mine, i hope one day to achieve my dream of opening a center for teens. Let it be known that i will never judge you based on a question you ask, i will simply give you an answer i find fitting, but dont expect me to candy coat my answer, im going to be honest. In the past i have been faced with many difficult things and looking back i am confident i made the right decisions. I've been through a lot personally, i've heard a lot, I've seen a lot, I've grown a lot. Heck, i know im not perfect but im the best version of myself i can be which is perfection in my eyes. I know sometimes speaking to someone you know about your issue is hard, trust me i've been there. Just like i have helped others i am here to help you with the best intentions. So i am here for you if you need me.
never feel hesitant when asking me a question, leave me one in my inbox and i will get back to you as soon as possible.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA AIM: Member Since: July 19, 2006 Answers: 166 Last Update: March 9, 2009 Visitors: 11457
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