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should i forget about him or pursue it?
i really really like this guy, he gives me just the right amount of attention, but then takes it away by not texting me back or saying he'll message me and then not doing it. he seemed interested in me but then i can't tell anymore. he talks to other girls, too but he talks to me at school in between classes. is there anyway to tell if he likes me? i don't want to ask him cuz i don't want to weird him out. he is kind of lazy and doesn't really make an effort, but i don't know if that's just how he is. if he doesn't like me though, then i don't wanna just be wasting my time. i noticed that he touched my arm when we talked sometimes but i haven't noticed it lately. soemtimes he is quiet and i can't hear him which makes me think maybe he's nervous. but i donno.. help me!
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well it sounds to be as if he may just be a flirt. Some guys tend to lead girls on so that they feel they can have any girl they want. The best thing to do is to lead him on then lead him astray beat him at his own game. Ive learned this really gets guy interested. So if you really like this guy i say play hard to get, see if he comes to you. If he does pursue it, if he doesnt start looking elsewhere.
good luck.
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maybe he doesnt think you like him. he probably has friends who are girls. as for being lazy thats why he does text you back either that or he gets sidetracked dont focus on that.its up to you to be assertive and confront him.tell him that you like him. it would be a waste just waiting around for him. by confronting him you get to the punch that lets you know to embrace him or move on. its better to find out now. maybe he figured youd make the first move and felt you werent interested.so ask him.it better that way whether it turns out that he does or doesnt.
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as much as it SUCKS. there is no way you can figure out if he likes you unless you find out by asking him or having someone to ask him for you. you said you don't want to waste your time if he doesn't like you. well if you don't tell him you like him you WILL be wasting your time unless he would come clean and tell you that he likes you then you could do the same. i think you should let him know how you feel and ask him how he feels. and if he doesn't feel the same you didn't weird him out. you just maybe took him by surprize but looking at everything you told me i think that he might kind of get the hint that you like him. the reason why you can't tell if he likes you or not is because guys give mixed signals. hope this helpeddd and sorry i couldn't straight out tell you if he liked you or not :(
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