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my heartache's for him( please help)
ive liked like 15 guys in the 14 years of my life but this time its different i like some one (he is kind of my friend) i give him things he asks for(food,candy and stuff like that) i talk to him like he is a regular person all my other crushes i was blushing and i had butterflies in my stomache but with him it like we can have a conversation without my throat getting dry and ive had 9 dreams about him one dream we almost kissed i feel so different all my friends tell me that im in love with him and they can tell that he likes me and they said i need to tell hm that i like him im so scared he would reject me i cant even begin to explain my feelings for him
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Well if you don't want to tell him you like him upfront, then maybe you should find out if he likes you first. If he does then I would tell him. So get your friends or yourself to ask him or his friends who he likes. Many people have dreams about their crushes, its perfectly normal. Especially for girls at your age. And the reason why you can talk to him like you do maybe is because you're getting older and you can cope with the fact of liking someone and your not acting like a giddy school girl. No offense or anything but I'm sure its not "love" when you're 14. You have your whole life to wait for real love, so don't go and jump on "lust" when you have so much time ahead of you. Your probably lusting ( wanting love ) over him. Hope I helped & Good Luck!
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so start with something like "i dont know where to begin but i guess ill just start with saying i like you alot...." don't seem obsessive with him, just tell him how you feel, if it makes it easier then say it on the phone. don't be shy because most guys that i talk to anyway, like it when a girl is outgoing.
keep me updated hope i helped,
modelkate11
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Okay. This could sound stupid but whatever. I felt the same way about a guy for the longest time. Before that, I'd just been crushing, nothing serious, but this guy made me feel like nothing could ever go wrong. I didn't tell him how I felt for about six months. That was a really stupid mistake. He started liking a friend of mine. When I did ask him out, he went out with me, but promptly "forgot".
Don't wait around for the perfect time. This guy sounds really great, and you sound totally head over heels. Talk to him!!!
*hugs*
Rose
P.S. don't let the fear striking out...
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if your friends say that he likes you i think you should go for it. I mean what is there to lose. If you are not positive he likes you ask some of his friends, flirt with him a bit. If you feel this strongly make a move though the worst thing is rejection for a second it may suck but you guys sound like good friends so its not a big deal, dont rush into things. Ive come to realize that in life it isnt hard to get what you want, it wanting it after you get it.
GOOD LUCK!
Brittni.
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Aww, it's perfectly normal to be scared of rejection, but just think of it this way: If you don't tell this boy how you feel right NOW, another girl will & easily go out with him. I'd tell him as soon as you can. The worst he can do is say that he doesn't see you that way. And if he doesn't, then that's his loss. But anyways, just tell him how you feel. Bring it up in a conversation or ask him who he likes. =) When he tells you, you tell him. If he likes you back, start dating.
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