what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?
(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois)
Its masturbation while talking to him online. You say dirty things to eachother and then do them. I suppose it could be fun, but I kinda think it is gross. But, if you do it, Have a good time. Hope this helps.
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I have real sweaty hands...does anyone know anything i can do to prevent, or block this? It is so bad i cant even write without having my pen slip or having my paper become wet. Please Help.
Ok, I have this same problem and it even is in my feet as well. All you can really so hun is wash your hand a lot. And try to use soap that is not moisturizing cause that will add moisture to your hands and make it worse. I can tell you how often I wash my hand in the day, lol. I though I was the only one with this. Glad to know that I am not. Best Of Luck! Hope I Helped!
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16/f.
I've been with my bf for nearly 3 months now, I like him alot but I'm starting to think it may just be in a friendship manner... We hang out alot together and with my friends..his friends, we were friends before we took it to the next level and ever since we started going out it's basically the same but we see each other more... I like spending time with my bf but sometimes I feel it's excessive and get tired and just want to go home! We cuddle and hug alot and kiss when the times right (he's not a great kisser lol) but the problem is I'm not physically/sexually attracted to him as a person.. I like the closeness of the relationship but at the same time I feel confined... I don't know what to do because he's such a caring and sensitive guy and I do like him alot and we connect in alot of ways but is the attraction thing going to be a problem? I don't have any intention of breaking up with him anytime soon but I can feel it'll happen eventually, inevitably.. I'm really confused because I'm feeling such mixed emotions towards him! When I'm apart from him for long periods of time I miss the hugs and kisses and general hanging out, but when we're together I can get restless and tired and little things about him can start to annoy me!
Basically... I'm confused... Any help with how I should handle this or anyone who's been in/is in a similiar sitution? That would be very appreciated! xxx
Sweetheart, I think you answered your own question in a way. First of, you said it yourself, that you will inevitably break up with him. Well, all I can say is that if you know for sure that it isnt going to work in the long run, it isnt fair to keep it going. You should break up with him soon if you know it is going to happen. It will just hurt him more the longer that you wait. When you do leave him, since he is a sensitive guy, be as gentle as possible and HONEST. Let him know exactly how you feel. Thats the best way. If he cares, then he will have no problem with staying friends. Hope I helped hun! Let me know if you need anything else! XOXOXO
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Okay so I'mgoing to have this party because I don't think I'm doing dance next year after 10 years so it's sorta a big deal. The question is: should I invite my ex that i still really like to the party..but not invite his girlfriend because i dont really know her? and what can I do to get him to notice me and possibly like me again? thx! i rate HIGH for awesome answers!
Ok, if you want him to come, then yes, invite him. As far as his girlfriend, well, you dont HAVE to invite her, but take cation to the fact that if you dont, he may not come. A lot of couples are like that. I know that I would not go to a party without my boyfriend. Just a though! Hope this helps hun!
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I have this habbit. Its like i start to like a guy and then he starts to like me back..and i dont really like him anymore. its like playing tag..its fun to chase them but once they stop running the fun is over. does anyone have any ideas on how to break this habbit??!?!
i rate high on good ideas*
thanks!
Honestly, hun, I dont think that you can break this habbit. You cant change you feelings for someone. I would suggest dating around for a while (nothing serious) and when the right person comes along, I am sure that you will find that you no longer have this problem. Try to hang in there hun. Hope this helpes!
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i really cant dicide should i wear :
1. a green skirt and a white shirt with a green butterfly on it
-or-
2. a denim skirt with a baby-tee thats black with pink writing on it and it says if found plz return to the nearest beach
i just dont knoe what too wear to school tomarow... yeh i rate 5's fer good answers jst put outfit 2 er outfit 2
thancks
Outfit two sweetie! Sounds cute!
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I'm getting a physical soon and I want to know what they do. Because last time I got one (about 2 years ago) the doctor made me take my clothes off. Are all physicals like that or do they just check your eyes, hearing, breathing, stuff like that? I rate 5's
Ok, if you are going to a regular physician, then they will check the things that you listed (eyes, ears, etc.) These are called your vitals. You can tell a lot about if someone is in good health by their vitals. If everything is good, then that shouldbe all that they do. As far as getting naked, I have never heard of having to be fully naked in front of a doctor. Thata s little much! Even if you and see a gynocologists, you have a gown on. So, I have no idea there. But, you should not have to take your clothes off. No need to worry. These physicals are standard procedures. So, try to relax. Hope I Helped!
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Hey i have this friend and we've been friends scince kindergarten and about two years ago she started hanging out with this girl and this girl is a witch she gossips about my other best friends and she gossips about my friend whos friends with her and my friend knows she does and she still calls her Her BFF and when i want to hang out with my friend her other friend AKA (Witch) who i hate is always around her and me and my friend always argue when were around the witch and when ever she comes over my house shes soooooooooooooooo !!!! annoying!!!! she routes through my stuff and makes fun of my clothes and the music i like and i just got done remodleing my room and i didnt have enough time to dust and she said your rooms soooo dusty and dirty and i told her why and she went home and she was only there for 10-20 minutes should i be her friend or not? Please help!!!!!!!!! My other friends hate her sooo i need your help!!!!
Wow! This is a difficult dilema to be in. It sounds to me that you are really frustrated with this girl and thats not good. I would say that if she is a friend then you may need to just talk to her and tell her that you don't like how she is acting and that you want to stay friends with her but cant stand how is is acting towards you. Just let her know how you feel. If she is a true friend then she will undertstand and things will get better. If they don't, then you may need to stop hanging out with this girl in order fo ryou to stay happy. She isnt wort it is she makes you mirserable! I would just follow your heart and let it tell you if it is time to leave this friend or not. As far as her coming to your house for only 10-20 minutes, thats wasa really snobbish thing for her to do, but, if you want to be her friend, then, like I said, talk to her and try to work it out. Hope this help! Follow Your Heart!
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Ok i have this friend whos a guy his name is Josh and i think he likes me i mean he flirts with me and always complments my outfits and the other day i didnt feel good and i wore sweat pants and a baggy t-shirt and he said i looked great and he alwayz sitz next to me in math it not bothering me but now i feel weird when im around him and hes not going to my high school next year hes not moving but i think i like him but what i want to know if he likes me thnx
It sounds to me like he does like you. If you like him then I would go for it. If he thinks your pretty no matter what you wear then he is a keeper. Hope I helpes! Follow Your Heart!
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Where can I download Clone Aim. I cant find it. Please help. Thanks.
http://www.deathring.us/aim/downloads/
That should have it hun! Thanks.
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Okay well i got a my bf jacob a few days ago and i already have regrets about it. Its like, when i am talking to him, i like him but when im not, i dont like him. I kinda wish i would have never said yes. What do i do? wait a while then break up with him or like see what happens?
Ok, first of all, it isnt fair to be with someone if you dont like them. If you dont like this guy, then you need to be honest with him and tell him. Just flat out tell him the truth. Also, the longer you wait, the more hurt he will be. So, the sonner, the better. Just try to be as kind as you can and gentle becuase you dont want to hurt him anymore than he will be already. Why did you say yes if you dont like him anyway? Good Luck! Let me know how it goes. Best Of Luck!
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Ok, so there is this girl named christina and she used to be my friend, but the reason I quit bein her friend was because she couldn't shut the hell up about two of my other friends, I mean she would just blow up on them for no reason when I was around but when I was gone and she was the only one there, she would be all nice and stuff because there was no one els there but anytime I was there they could jus sit by her and she would scream at them.So could you help me on what to say to her to tell her off and make her get off my friends!!!
Ok, first off, why do you want to tell her off? It would be a better person of you to be nice to her and try to just talk to her. Let her know how you feel and that she needs to respect your friends. Tell her that she dont have to like them but since they are your friends, she needs to be respectful and not say bad things about them. Especially in front of you! If she isnt going ot be respectful then she isnt worth keeping. Just let her know how you feel! You also might want to tell your friends that she is talking about them bad to you. Maybe they will be of some help. Hope I helped!
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I broke up with my bf about 3 weeks ago and within that time he started going out with a girl but she broke up with him. While he was with her he was being bitchy and plain out wrong with me but now that they have broken up he regrets everything he said and did and wants me back.When we broke up I cried and was hurt for a LONG while but now I am dealing with it.Well he wants me back and I don't know if I should give him a chance part of me says yes but the other says no. I don't know what I should do but sometimes I just feel like calling him just to hear his voice but then again I don't want to get hurt again. Pleace help me out!
Ok, it soudns to me like this guy only asked you out BECAUSE that other girl broke up with him. You were just someone to fall back on. And, if I am right, then you don't need to be with him.
However, if I am wrong, and he truely is sorry and wants you back for all the RIGHT reasons then I would say that you may want to give it naother chance because you seem to like him a LOT!
Basically, I think that you need to use your own judgement and try to find out his TRUE motive for wanting you back and see if he is sincere. Then, make the decision from there. BEST OF LUCK!
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Ok well I like this guy but the problem is, we havn't met in person yet. We've talked on the phone and computer but havn't met! And im like, So crazy about this kid its weird! And i don't want him to see me in person 'cause i think im really ugly and fat. People say no but i think they're lieing! But i need help on what I should do. Because what if we do meet and he thinks im ugly or what ever and doesn't talk to me anymore? He's seen a few of my pictures but i don't think they look like me! So i don't know what to do. Please help. ANYTHING! I rate high. Thank you so much.
x333 Kara
Ok, the best advice that I think I can give you right now is this:
1. Be Yourself when you meet him. If you are yourself and he still dont like you, then why would you want to be with him? It would not be fair to yourself or him.
2. Work on your self-esteem. IT RUBS OFF!!!! If you think that your beautiful then I assure you, others will share that opinions.
3. Dont ever change for anyone, INCLUDING THIS GUY! The most important thing here is to be true to yourself and who you are. Not being true to yourself is NEVER a good thing.
This is basically all that anyone can really tell you. I think you should use your own judgement. When you meet the guy, pay attention to what kind of vibes you receive from him. You should be able to tell if he dont like you. He would act different. Just be careful and as I said, BE TRUE TO YOURSELF!!!!
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OK well, it's abit silly but I kissed my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago and was kinda' surprised when he went straight into frenching! It was my first time kissing properly so I was just expecting a lip kiss or whatever, but he kinda slipped his tongue in somehow... and I was like... ah no? I didn't really want to go that far + it kinda grossed me out! so I sort of pulled away... He said he was okay with waiting until I'm more comfortable kissing him, but I would just rather stick to lip kissing for now! How should I deal with this? I'm not sure how to phrase it right... It was his first time kissing aswell... any help muchly appreciated!
Ok, if your not ready for french kissing then simply tell your boyfriend and I am sure he will understand. But, honestly, french kissing is a lot of fun and its really not a big deal. You would probably enjoy it if you would just relax and not be so nervous. lol. But you really dont like it, just talk to him. Hope I Helped!
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I have really liked my boyfriend for a while but after a while the "magic" started to where off i am thinking about dumping him but i dont really know what 2 do. I mean i wanna go out w/ him to say i have a bf but i dont really wanna go out with him i dont know what 2 do plez help!
I am sorry to hear that the heat in the relationship is gone. But, are you sure that you want to leave him? I think that you should try to talk to him and explain how you feel. He may be able to help you be happier! I would try to give it a fair chance first. If you do decide to leave him, the best thing is to be honest. Also, do it face to face and be very direct. You dont want to lead him on and hurt him even more. That would hurt more than anything. Once again, just be honest and be as sweet as you can. Hope this helped! If you ever need anything you can e-mail me at HMKnarian@bsu.edu. Good Luck!
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I think that i may have an ear infection and i'm wondering do i have to take out the ear rings let it close or can it heal eventually?
I cant tell if your talking about an inner ear infection or an infection where your earings are in place. If your talking about an inner ear infection, then you dont have to take your earings out. You will just need to go to the doctor and get an antibiotic. If you are talking about an infection where your earing is, then you need to take them out and clean the infection. I would not put the earings back in until you feel like the ifection is better. If you are really worried, go to the doctor or ask your parents. Hope I Helped Hun! Good Luck!
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i might have one friend that is still a virgin besides me.... i mean when we get into deep converstaions about sex and stuff i can't relate cuz i am still a virgin. every single time i watch a movie with a sex scene in it i get this weird feeling all over my body like i want sex that very minute. could someone please tell me if this is all normal or should i just give in and have sex?
Your making a smart decision by not having sex yet. You will know when your ready, please dont rush it. Just hang in there and give it time. Dont do it until you know your ready! But dont do it just because everyone else is and you feel left out. Thats not the righ treason to have sex. As far as the movie scene, you are prolly just getting turned on. Its just your hormones! Happens to all of us. No need to worry! Hope I Helped!
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hey.. my name is stacy.. i need help. well lets see there this guy i like alot and i started going out with him. we have been together for 2 months or so now.. and this girl that i want to be friends with hates me cause she likes him.. what can i do to get the girl to like me and to accept that me and this guy are going out cause i want them both to get along.. thanks bunches.. Stacy
Well, Stacy, there isnt much you can do about someone not liking you. All you can do is talk to her and try to get her to understand how you feel. She will have to accept it on her own terms and on her own time. There isnt much you can do. Just try talking to her! You might also not want to be around your boyfriend while you talk to her, or if you become friends, I would not bring your boyfriend around a whole lot around her. This is hopefully make it easier for her to accept and by not seeimg him, she may stop liking him and that would solve everyhting. This is about all you can do. Go Talk To Her! Best Of Luck!
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well tonight my boyfriend and i were fooling around and we were about to have sex.. and i wasnt "wet" enough for him to put it in me. this has NEVER happened before. i was completly turned on... but i just dont understand it.
is there any explination for it?
Ok, noone seemed to answer this correctly. This is perfectlly normal. Sometimes when you trying to get wet and have sex you may feel like your turned on the same, but your just not getting wet. It Happens! There is nothing you can really do about it. But, if you keep fooling around, and give it time, you will eventually get wet enough. Also, you may want to try a lubricant if this becomes a real problem. Women have to be wet to have sex, its all about when their body is ready. So, dont worry. Just try heating things up a bit more or buy a lube. Hope I Helped!
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