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confused
I have really liked my boyfriend for a while but after a while the "magic" started to where off i am thinking about dumping him but i dont really know what 2 do. I mean i wanna go out w/ him to say i have a bf but i dont really wanna go out with him i dont know what 2 do plez help!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
One word...Infatuation. You meet a guy, you really like him, maybe even think that you love him. You date him for a while, and the infatuation eventually fades, leaving you confused.
Happens to everyone, of all ages.
It sounds to me like you like the idea of having someone to go on dates with, and the "boyfriend/girlfriend" status. That's more normal than most people like to admit. However, you have to realize that dating someone you don't _really_ like is not only unfair to you, but unfair to him. I think that you should be honest with him and yourself, and simply end the relationship. Just try to be gentle. Rejection sucks, but it's a lot easier to bare when the person rejecting you is at least trying to be nice.
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I am sorry to hear that the heat in the relationship is gone. But, are you sure that you want to leave him? I think that you should try to talk to him and explain how you feel. He may be able to help you be happier! I would try to give it a fair chance first. If you do decide to leave him, the best thing is to be honest. Also, do it face to face and be very direct. You dont want to lead him on and hurt him even more. That would hurt more than anything. Once again, just be honest and be as sweet as you can. Hope this helped! If you ever need anything you can e-mail me at HMKnarian@bsu.edu. Good Luck!
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well, if you only want to go out w/ him so you can say that you have a boyfriend...then you should break up with him. you can't be in a relationship where he thinks that you like him and want to be with him when you really don't. because if he ever does find out that that was the only reason you continued to go out w/ him, he might be angry and not talk to you or something. you just have to be honest.
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