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hi please help!!
hey.. my name is stacy.. i need help. well lets see there this guy i like alot and i started going out with him. we have been together for 2 months or so now.. and this girl that i want to be friends with hates me cause she likes him.. what can i do to get the girl to like me and to accept that me and this guy are going out cause i want them both to get along.. thanks bunches.. Stacy
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if the girl doesn't like you because you go out w/ a guy, then (personally) i don't think she's a good person to be friends with. cuz if she doesn't accecpt it now, she probably never will.
but if you really wanna be friends with her, then just talk to her and maybe she will understand.
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eh.. not much you can do. its her own choice not to like you. personally, if i were you.. you shouldnt care to be friends with her if she hates you just because your with a guy that she likes.
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This a classic event. You can't expect everyone to like you. All you can do is to talk to her and show her that no matter what you'll still wantto be her friend. If she can see that and see that you two like each other then she should accept it and try to be friends with you so she can keep him happy,by keeping you happy. If she can't see this then I'm afraid that there is nothing more you can do otherthen just keep trying.
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Hey stacy. You can hang out with her more than him for like a week, then hang out together (the three of you)
-Advicenator2
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Well, Stacy, there isnt much you can do about someone not liking you. All you can do is talk to her and try to get her to understand how you feel. She will have to accept it on her own terms and on her own time. There isnt much you can do. Just try talking to her! You might also not want to be around your boyfriend while you talk to her, or if you become friends, I would not bring your boyfriend around a whole lot around her. This is hopefully make it easier for her to accept and by not seeimg him, she may stop liking him and that would solve everyhting. This is about all you can do. Go Talk To Her! Best Of Luck!
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This is a difficult one to answer. I've been in a similar situation before. The only thing that you can do is just be nice to her, start a conversation or something. But try your best not to bring him up around her, because there will be some or a lot of bitterness there. She might be shocked at first if you haven't gotten along in the past, but if you keep on trying, you could eventually turn into friends. If there has been anything between them (your guy and this girl) in the past, that may make the situation a little harder to cope with for her. Just make her feel like you WANT to be friends and that you aren't just doing it to stop the fighting in between you and her. I hope I help, let me know how it goes!!! <3 Arielle
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