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So I have liked this boy since the beginning of the year. We didnt know each other, but I just had a major crush on him. I am very outgoing, the thing is...hes super shy. He agreed to go to homecoming with me and we went and ended up having a blast. I think he just thought that I thought of him as a super cool guy. I don't think he got that I actually had feelings for him. Now, we don't talk a lot because I am super shy around him myself, and he seems like he might be intimidated. Yes, I'm a sophmore cheerleader, and hes a freshman football player, but does that make a difference?
Lately, he has started looking at me a lot. Whenever I walk by his table, he cannot stop staring at me. I feel like his attitiude is still "girls have cooties and im not ready for a girlfriend". I really don't know, because he acts like hes infatuated with me, and I'm just in lust with him. We BARELY talk though. Yesterday, he said hi to me when I walked by him and that's because of his shy-ness.
I am so confused and I don't think I should be making moves and having my friends talk to him, and I think i should just back off for a little bit and if he wants to be friends, he will have to make the move.
What do you people think I should do?!
PLEASE RESPOND!!!
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I definetly know the feeling. It's weird though, because you feel like having your friends talk to him might be over-doing it. But i think thats what you should do. Have a guy friend of yours, that talks to him alot mention you a few times around him. And you should let him know your feelings. Tell him you like him, and see what happens..then just go from there.
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i'm trying to get close to this girl and talk to her more on aol so i can ask her out pretty soon. what kind of things can we talk about? (link)
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All girls are different, but there's one thing we all have in common..We wanna hear that we're pretty and beautiful. But don't over do it. Let her know that you wanna start talking to her and be really sweet to her. Don't ask her out too fast though, she might not be ready. There's a lotta things you can talk about. Start out with "how was your day?", that should get her talking.
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i've been with my boyfriend for over a month and he still hasn't kissed me? i'm his first real girlfriend so i don't think he's ever kissed anyone before. he also still has braces and he's really insecure about them. he desperately wants to get them off and talks about it all the time. do you think maybe he could be waiting for that to happen? that would suck. how can i hint that i want him to kiss me without coming right out and saying it (that would be weird!)? (link)
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That's a tough one. It depends on how you are with making the moves. You could just hug him one time, and look in his eyes, and let it happen. I don't really think he would turn away, but who knows.
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So basically I told my bf that I feel like Im not good enough looking for him and how i feel like nobody could be attracted to me. *this was all an online convo* and i asked "know what i mean?" and he said yeah..then made some excuse that he had to go do his hw. This gets wheels turning in my head..if im not attractive to him, how can this last?? :( help me (link)
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You don't have to be pretty in order for someone to like you. You could maybe ask him what he thought of the way you look. But chances are, if you weren't good enough for him, then he wouldn't be with you.
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i babysit for this family once in a while & they called me a few days ago to babysit on this coming friday, but i can't. then the lady called today and was like "I know you said you can't babysit, but I am really desprate, so I was wondering if you knew anyone who would be able to?" So I told her I'd ask a few people and let her know if someone could. So I asked a few people, but none of them can either. I feel bad for his lady (even though it's not my fault or problem) but I don't know if I should still call her back. I would feel weird being like "sorry i couldn't find anyone" and leaving her with no one at all, but I would also feel guilty if I didn't call. Should I still call even though I didn't find anyone, & if so, what should I say? (link)
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I would call. Just say "I'm really sorry, but I couldn't find anyone to babysit for you." maybe you can babysit a different day of the weekend, and she can go out then.
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15 female... okay well i want to get more intimate with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now. we havent done much more than make out and he feels me up and ive touched his dick over his pants but that pretty much it... whats a good way to make the first move? dont say just do it! i want specifics please
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If I were you, the first thing I would do is talk to him about it. Tell him you want more with him than to just make out and stuff. Ask him if he's ready for that too. Chances are, if he wants it, he'll make the first move. Wait a little bit and if he doesn't do anything..Then while you guys are like "in the moment", and making out or whatever, if you want to have sex, then just start to pull his shirt off. He'll either get turned on by that, or turned off. Depending on what he wants with you. The best I can say is to give it time. Something's bound to happen soon enough.
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Hey guys! I'm 13 years old (almost 14) and I am in 8th grade. Next year, (which is not too far away) I will be in high school (freshman). For those of you IN ninth grade or over, does it suck? It scares me because I will be going to a school with 17 and 18 year olds and I'll be only 14 when I go to high school! Is it scary to go to high school? I've heard so many bad things about high school... the boys are the worst... I could probably survive in an all girls school because boys that I klnow are just mean except a few. I'm really scared knowing that I will be in high school! Can anyone give me some comforting advice to help me feel better because everyday, I get scareder knowing that another day is past and I'm that much closer to high school? I'm just scared... can anyone help me... seriously! I don't want sarcasm or rudeness in yall's answers. I'm just looking for a little comfort... Thanks!
P.S. I rate 5's to those of you who answer to me and who are being serious about the question and not goofing off...
Thanks!
Luv, Kay
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Highschool is definetly NOT scary. I'm a freshmen this year, and I was incredibly nervous. People told me a lot of bad stuff about it. The best thing I can tell you is to treat your friends right and don't let boys come between you. Once you get to highschool, you learn who your real friends are and who's just wasting your time. I started the year with more friends than I could count, and now alot of them have changed and moved on to making new friends. But you'll meet other people, and all in all, everything works out. Going to school with 17 and 18 year olds is no big deal at all. I thought it might be a little weird too, but you get used to it right away. Try not to be too nervous, it's no big deal. Hope i helped!
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Hey Columnists,
OK, here's the deal. I am 13, and I am in 7th grade. My best friend,(9th grade) has been my best friend sence we were like 2 years old. When I was in about 2nd grade, my friend(4th grade), her brother(5th grade), played "Truth or Dare." What we did was dare each other to get naked, and then he would touch us. Well I have had a HUGE crush on him sence I was in 1st grade. This guy is in 10th grade, and on the computer he asked me if I wanted to play truth or dare with him again, but this time just me and him and i can't tell my friend. I said I don't know and signed off. I know that was him on his screename becuase he asked me in person, I pretened I did'nt here. I want to do it, but I can't let my friend know and thats very hard for me...becuase she is my BEST FREiND! Should I do it? or not? THANKS! (link)
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No, he is definetly using you. You will end up getting hurt by him. You should just try talking to him and hanging out with him, once you know he likes you..It would be okay to have sex with him.
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So. I know gross but i think it is safe to say this is mostly populated with girls so you all in some way sometime in your life come into a problem simular to this.
So my boyfriend and I have been sexual active for 6 months and a month ago we stopped using condoms because it was comfortable for either him and or i. Sex without a condom was much more comfortable for both him and i. But I do not recomend it to anyone, use protection...Anyways after the first time we did that I got a urinary track infection, which i didnt go to the doctors for because it wasnt life threatning or anything. Anyways after a couple days it got worse, i was getting white discharge all the time when i used the rest room or when i was just walking around i felt leaking...about two weeks later it got worse, i was ichty down there every once and awhile and the white discharge increased and it started to get an oder. Well I douched and started taking care of myself as much as I could and it went away. While having the UTI i was still having sex but it didnt seem to bother it. Well today after intercourse he noticed thick white discharge on him and I on me. I smelled it but it didnt really have an oder at all and I was very confused, so i went to the restroom and whipped and noticed spotting of blood im suppose to start my period tomorrow so i just wrote it off to that and put a tampon in but when i took it out, it was completly dry not one thing on it. Well later last night we had sex again, but the thing is I orgasmed more than the first but I didnt have the thick white discharge this time...I thought that was kind of weird.
See I was thinking could it be, because we are having sex without a comdom and my body is just getting use to it. Or is it what my boyfriend said...that we dont have lube so he was rubbing me too much and maybe tearing me a little and that could be the reason but I dont know how it could be...
Im very confused. Please dont tell me to go see a doctor i cant afford to no health insurance and Im just wondering if it should be something to be totally freaked out on?
if you have any advice let me know. i will rate you very high...thank you for your time have a great day...and sorry if this grossed you out. (link)
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I would say, give it time. Maybe you just need to get used to doint it without a condom. If it continues to do this, you might want to start using a condom again.
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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
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I suggest you stay away from her. Not only is it illegal for her to do that to you, but it's not good for you either. It doesn't matter how many times you have had sex, or how attractive she is. There's other girls that you can find your age to have sex with.
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my gf talks all the time on the phone about wanting to have sex and stuff, but when we're together she doesnt seem like it at all...any ideas? im sort of confused here (link)
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Girls are strange, lol. I know, because I do the same thing. I talk quite often about sex with my boyfriend and when it comes to it, I get nervous. But the thing is, she won't make the first move. You have to do that. Reach for her pants or something while you guys are into making out, see what she does. If she stops you, then leave it alone. If she lets you, then I guess you guys are ready.
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I gave my boyfriend a handjob, and i'm afraid I wasn't that good. He did ejaculate until after. Why is that? Does anyone have any good advice/ tricks on what feels good and will make then ejaculate while you are doing it? Thanks alot
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Girls aren't as good at handjobs. The guys is the only one who knows how hard and fast to go. Start off slow and go faster. Maybe try doing other things with him too.
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I haven't got my period yet. Im kinda scared about getting it. What if im in school? what if im in the middle of class and i have to get up and someone sees? what are some signs when i get it differnt from just an itch. Gimmie info (link)
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Your first period can be scary. Although, when I first started, I was at school. Nothing got on my pants, and no one saw anything or expected anything. If you are at school, go to the nurse and tell her you're sick and your stomach hurts and you want to go home. She'll let you go. Don't let it bother you. As far as signs go, I had no idea I was about to start..it just happens.
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okay i shave down there nd like 2 weeks ago i got like sum little red bumps nd finally they went away .. but i got it again im thinkin its ingrown hairs from a not so good shaver . is that wut it is ?? nd how can i get rid of it . im so afraid my bf is gunna c it nd think its STD or sumfn .. help (link)
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It's most likely irritation bumps from shaving too hard, or too much. Maybe shave every couple of days instead of every day. Try a new razor and MAKE SURE you don't use lotion or conditioner on a cut. That burns and causes more redness and more bumps.
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i have known my best friend since 7th grade ((we're in college now))&& we are very close..and last thursday..we got even closer..well we were at his apartment and we were watching a movie..and out of no where he stopped the movie..and we were already cuddling..and yes..durin the movie..i did feel him get.."happy"..but anyways..he kissed me..and we started makin out..one thing led to another and we endin up having sex..now everytime i see him we end up makin out and doing it..i talked about being in a serious relationship and he seemed hesitant but he said he wants to think about it..and i told him that i am not going to be his little whore and everything..and he was like..i would never think of you like that..i like you a lot..but i don't want our friendship to be weird..but i told him that it already was weird after we had sex..so what should i do..i really want to be his girlfriend..but i am so confused about everything..i need sum good advice..and i rate 5's for good advice (link)
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Don't keep having sex with him. It may seem to you that it draws you two closer..But if he really did like you alot, he'd want to be with you. Sex is his way of getting you hooked on him. It seems to me that he likes you, but wants to be free to do whatever with other girls too.
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Okay I'm 13/f and I have liked this one guy scince last year. Me and my one friend talked to him about it. He said that I'm prude and weird to my friend and when I asked him about it he said that He loves me and never would say that. Then he asked if I could give him a hand Job. At first I said sure but I didn't really feel like doing it becuase I was neruves. After that he asked my friend if I would let him eat me out and let him finger me. Then my friend asked me if I would and I said I dunno and she told him IDK[I odn't know] and then he asked if I would give him head[blow job]. I wanna do this stuff to him. Like I've fingured my self before and like I want him to do it. I'm just kinda worried. Would he like it shaved. Would he like me after. Should I do it?
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Definetly shave. And let him finger you, but just let it happen. Just tell him that he can if he wants to, and when you hang out..It will just happen naturally. Start out by fingering, then when you're ready do the other things. Head and handjobs aren't as scary as you think it may be. It's actually pretty easy and the guy likes it, lol.
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how long should someone wait to have have sex(are b.f. and g.f.) (link)
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There's no limit. You have sex when you feel like you're ready, and when you know the person you're doing it with likes you alot. You don't want to end up crushed by him.
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im a girl im 15 years old. what are some awsome ways to finger myself. thanks! (link)
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Just use your own fingers for now. Start out with one, and work your way up. Don't go all into it just yet with pens and such. You may want dildos or vibrators later on too.
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Alright
my "downthre" is just really raw and red and burns.
what is this?
What can I do to make it go away? (link)
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Well, it could be the razor you use. Switch the blade and maybe shave less often. Chances are it's irritation bumps, and the burning could be from the soap or lotion you use, if you use any. Don't shave so hard next time. If the burning and redness keeps occuring, maybe you should go to a doctor.
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how much do i shave down below?
i am not quite sure please help me asap (link)
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You can shave as much as you want. If you are active with guys, you should probably shave it all. If not, just trim occasionally and you'll be fine. Guys like it if you have no hair though.
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