Question Posted Wednesday November 16 2005, 6:34 pm
Hey Columnists,
OK, here's the deal. I am 13, and I am in 7th grade. My best friend,(9th grade) has been my best friend sence we were like 2 years old. When I was in about 2nd grade, my friend(4th grade), her brother(5th grade), played "Truth or Dare." What we did was dare each other to get naked, and then he would touch us. Well I have had a HUGE crush on him sence I was in 1st grade. This guy is in 10th grade, and on the computer he asked me if I wanted to play truth or dare with him again, but this time just me and him and i can't tell my friend. I said I don't know and signed off. I know that was him on his screename becuase he asked me in person, I pretened I did'nt here. I want to do it, but I can't let my friend know and thats very hard for me...becuase she is my BEST FREiND! Should I do it? or not? THANKS!
Kristen03 answered Thursday December 1 2005, 9:07 pm: No, he is definetly using you. You will end up getting hurt by him. You should just try talking to him and hanging out with him, once you know he likes you..It would be okay to have sex with him. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
Melaur1001 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:26 pm: wow. bad idea. trust me, guys in 10th grade(which I'm in) arn't looking for anything more then sex, and if they are they are surly NOT looking for a realtionship with a 7th grader. Your friends looking for a cheap feel and if you ask me, he sounds like a complete pervert. Unless you want to be treated like a whore and called a slut, I think it's best to keep all to your self. Oh, and EWWWWWW he dared his sister to get naked and touched her??? hes beyond perverted. gross. [ Melaur1001's advice column | Ask Melaur1001 A Question ]
Jessica13 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:17 pm: you should do it you want to but let me warn you things can go to far and stuff and stuff that you don't want to happen could happen so watch out]
seriouslyteenangel answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:16 pm: No. I strongly suggest against it. He sounds like he's just a pervert. Just because he wants to do that stuff doesn't mean he likes you. He just wants some fun and you shouldn't be his victim. You'll only be heart broken when you realize he doesn't like YOU he just likes your female body. He's a horny teenage boy and I think you are too young to be doing that kind of thing anyway. It's ridiculous. [ seriouslyteenangel's advice column | Ask seriouslyteenangel A Question ]
beentheredonethat answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:06 pm: ok... he's in 10th grade and you're in 7th? that means you are 13 and he's probably 16... that isn't even legal! that's just desperate on his part. you should stick with a guy a little closer to your age and he shouldn't try using younger girls... [ beentheredonethat's advice column | Ask beentheredonethat A Question ]
emilyjessica0x answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:02 pm: Well in my opinion dont do it. But if you guys really want to do it then do it. Tell your friend the truth if she understands then she is a good friend but if she doesn't and gets mad at you then she is not a true friend. I mean your only in 7th grade this can wait until your older (the gettting naked thing or your dare that sumone asks u) I hope this advice helped!
sweetjewel answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:00 pm: no.. you dont know what hell do if its just you guys. my step dad always tells me about his friends sister who was 14 years old and she was home alone with her boyfriend in the basement and he strangled her so dont do it not only that but if your friend does find out then shell be mad
she knew this kid for almost her whole life too.. he also told me about the two kids who were BEST FRIENDS and he killed her and they were best friends.. like hung out everyday [ sweetjewel's advice column | Ask sweetjewel A Question ]
GrAcIeBeLlE answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:00 pm: Well if you like him do it.. heere are gppd dare(s)
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