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Im new at a school, i met a girl and i think she likes me but i dont want to risk rejection and embaresment and a new school. (link)
hey you only live once eh? well, my advice just grab the bull by the horns(or in this case, her hips) and just ask her whats good. worst case senario: she dont like you and you move on. better case: she likes you and you live happily ever after.


In the movie Napolean Dynamite, he goes " do the chikens have large talons? " what are talons? (link)
bird Claws


I am 17 years old and have never had a bf. People in my senior class make fun of me behind my back because of this. I even heard one rumour that I was a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian, I do like guys but I'm really shy and most of the guys in my class are really immature and just want sex, not a meaningful relationship. I've also made the decision not to have sex, or make love until I get married. Some of the girls in my class have slept with over 14 guys, and act like it's no big deal. Sometimes I get so depressed I feel like crying. The fact that tomorrows Valentines day is just going to make me feel worse. Do things ever get any easier for girls like me? Or does it just get worse when I go to college and into the work force? I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only person left with values. (link)
i dont know if this will you make feel better, and im not trying to sound like a cornball here...


your not the only person in the world with values, and if itll make you feel a bit better...


can u be my valentine?


So I have a crush on this guy, and we are also pretty good friends. But I thought that maybe the reason he was hanging out with me and talking 2 me 24/7 was because he liked me. But one of my friends asked him if he liked me he said"were friends" Was he just saying that because he didn't want to tell her or do you think its true? I don't really want to have a seriouse relationship with him(evil parents won't let me) but I want him to like me and maybe I could sneak out on a few dates with him. I think he knows I might like him. So how do i get him to A. tell me that he likes me B. change his mind to liking me as more than a friend or C. tell one of my friends he likes me. Hope sumone can help. (ideas on how to date w/out my rents knowing would help 2) thnx!
much luv,
marsbars (link)
well, he probably said " just freinds" to your freinds cause he doesnt want to start anything till hes on even ground, be4 he knows what hes gonna do next. so just pull him to the side and ask him what good, just be blunt, u know straight to it. and about the whole avoiding your parents, just say u had a argument with a freind and lock your door and put your dresser in front of it ( then sneak out the window duh!)


hey ok..this is complicated and could be long but plz i need help!! ok so...there's this guy and he's like one of my best love em to death guy friends of all time...but the problem is, i wanna be more than friends. and i'm pretty sure he likes me too. so the REAL problem is that he lives 4 hours away. now the last relationship i was in was a long distance thing just like that and it didnt work...so why do i feel so differently and that it could work with him?? and what should i do..i wanna be his g/f sometime but its the long distance that's holding me back. but i feel like it could work..but at the same time i know it wont. i dont wanna just move on cuz i really really like him...:S:S:S:S:S xo thanx thanx thanx! (link)
well if u really like him, nothing should get in the way. your just gonna have to find a way to see him. maybe at a pre-arranged place? or meet up at a half way point?


Her name is Allison, and she is AMAZING. I would ask her out, but I have one problem. I'm shy. What do I do to get over it? (link)
talk about things that u both enjoy, and u take it from there.


Hey Columnists,


OK, here's the deal. I am 13, and I am in 7th grade. My best friend,(9th grade) has been my best friend sence we were like 2 years old. When I was in about 2nd grade, my friend(4th grade), her brother(5th grade), played "Truth or Dare." What we did was dare each other to get naked, and then he would touch us. Well I have had a HUGE crush on him sence I was in 1st grade. This guy is in 10th grade, and on the computer he asked me if I wanted to play truth or dare with him again, but this time just me and him and i can't tell my friend. I said I don't know and signed off. I know that was him on his screename becuase he asked me in person, I pretened I did'nt here. I want to do it, but I can't let my friend know and thats very hard for me...becuase she is my BEST FREiND! Should I do it? or not? THANKS! (link)
um....ok. the answer is no. simpley no, u dont want me to go into the whole ethics and molesting crap... so just say no and mean it.


I am looking for a VW Jetta, Toyota Corolla, Toyota Celica, Honda Civic, Ford Mustang but I really would like to know what one would be safest.. (link)
well, since all the cars execpt the ford bese are made out of light-weight alimunim, if you ever get into an accident, the base would crumple up, which is a good thing. would u want the car to crumple or you? it costs alot to fix, but its safer. the ford's base is made out of steel ( especially ford mustangs, my favs) so the base will crumple, sure especially if its a head-on, but not as much.which mean more of the force will be transferred onto you and the passenger, but costs alot less too fix. so the question is pay more for every fender-bender and be safe, or dent up other peoples cars, pay insurance, and be less safe. i hate to admit it, but the mustang isnt the way too go. especially if you have kids.


I'm tired of my super straight hair and since it's nasty outside it doesn't come out straight anyways so I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what kind of scrunching gel or whatever works best and keeps the "wet" look even when you're hairs dry? And eliminates frizzyness too? I've heard of Pantene has one but i'm not sure. Thanks for all your help. I rate high. (link)
well if you walk into almost any buety shop, youll see a little spay bottle called frizz-ease. my sister used to use, and myself for the short period in my life that i wanted straight hair.( im a male, by the way im reffering to a ceaser) so i guess it works, costs about 4.99


is there anything wrong with being a guy and listing to britney spears. (link)
nah, not really.


What are some things that turn on a guy whenever a girl does something?
[Example: Biting ear, kissing neck?] (link)
well, in my instance, if you stick your tounge in hs ear, that'll get him going. or byte his neck. that works for me too.i mean when a girl does it lol.


i just moved, im 13 and i dont know anyone. chool starts wed and i wanted to know some icebreakers/tips/what supplies are common for 8th grade. much appreciated (link)
well in my school some kids play yu-gi-oh. thats how i met some kids in my school. only that since your new and your playing yu-gi-oh , other kids might see you as a dork, but risk not want not. also, kids might try to take your cards, but either way its a good way to meet new people


Hey people i was wondering could everyone tell me what they think of a 15 year old going out with a 13 year old girl?

tell me ur honest opinions please (link)
well, im 16 and when i was 14 i dated a 12 year old girl. i ended it when i tried to sneak itno her lunchrooom and the gaurd said " the little girls are eating, youll have to wait" but its not wrong if you ask me, as long as the both of you agree to it, and know the limits.




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