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hey ok..this is complicated and could be long but plz i need help!! ok so...there's this guy and he's like one of my best love em to death guy friends of all time...but the problem is, i wanna be more than friends. and i'm pretty sure he likes me too. so the REAL problem is that he lives 4 hours away. now the last relationship i was in was a long distance thing just like that and it didnt work...so why do i feel so differently and that it could work with him?? and what should i do..i wanna be his g/f sometime but its the long distance that's holding me back. but i feel like it could work..but at the same time i know it wont. i dont wanna just move on cuz i really really like him...:S:S:S:S:S xo thanx thanx thanx!
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well if u really like him, nothing should get in the way. your just gonna have to find a way to see him. maybe at a pre-arranged place? or meet up at a half way point?
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♥ hii love.
This is a tough one. If you two go out you would deffinetely need to talk about it. Like i mean in terms of when you would see eachother. And you guys would need to try to see eachother a lot or else the relationship could fall apart =/
If i werre you I would really think about this. 4 hours is kind of a lot. But think about it. Theres couples that live half way across the US from eachother && they sometimes last years. I would only make this a relationship if you two are 115% sure you are commited and sure you like eachother. You have to be very mature for this. I would also suggest you cal eachother a lot, AIM/MSN, e mail, letters, and make sure you two see eachother or it could fall apart and you two could drift apart.
Good luck! I hope everything works out for you! happy holidays. xoxo ♥ ♥ Lauren
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Look, you don't have to move just because he lives 4 hours away. don't let the distance hold love back. Maybe you and him can plan a weekend that ya'll will spend together. Maybe ya'll can do that every weekend or something. Plan a night out with him.
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i have had the same problem with my ex back in chigago well here's the deal. If you really like him just go for it no matter how far the distance if it is truly meant to be it will work and if it doesnt then oh well it was fun. Never wait knowing what might happen i did that one time and then i had to move but the deal was he felt the same way so don't think about it just take a riisk. just trust me it might just work.
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