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NaMe : Amber

AgE : 17

StAtE : VA

BdAy: September 1

ScHoOL: SHS '06 Graduate.
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I decided to make this to help people out if they need it. I've been told I'm a good advice giver. So we'll see. =) Feel Free To Ask Me Questions About Anything! Hope I help.




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can you get pregant 2 weeks before your period?

Theres always a chance of getting pregnant. Theres no time of the month thats 100% pregnancy-free-safe so always make sure you use protection to decrease the risks. Hope I helped =) *Amber*

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I still think my boyfriend's ex has feelings for him.She's one of my friends is the worst part and it's weird to be around her because she gives off that "vibe."She has a boyfriend too but I still get nervous.I've talked to my boyfriend and he said not to worry about it becuz he loves me.But I still get nervous,but I don't know why.HELP!

Well, your boyfriend says he loves you. Listen to him.. as long as you don't start getting weird signals from him.. everything should be alright. As for this other girl, try not to let it get to you. If it does maybe you should take a chance and talk to her and tell her where you stand and how its affecting you, and then you can find out if she really still does have feelings for him. No need to be a nervous wreck avout it. hope I helped =) *Amber*

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ok i just started high school a few days ago and its really hard to make friends b/c they all pretty much came from all the same schools and everyone already has friends and groups already and i dont... ive met some ppl but we arent like close or anything so what should i do

Give it time! Its like that for a lot of people in the beginning, in a month or two you'll be just like everyone else and have your group of friends too. For now just try to get to know people and see how it goes =) Hope I helped *Amber*

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Is it considered "dorky" to roll jeans that are a little short into capris? or should I just cut them? Thanks

Its not dorky, there are capris made and sold in that way. Plus its prolly a good way to get use out of old pants. You'd prolly save some money, since its one less pair of capris you'd need to buy ;) Hope I helped =) *Amber*

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Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage?

It isn't really a big thing. Everyone just has this mindset that it is, just because of the pressures around us, which are normally the cause of young people having sex. It really isn't that hard to not do it. Its called self control.. And everyone has it, people just ignore it sometimes, usually when they probably shouldn't. Waiting until marriage is a good moral to have, and it would be better if more people had it. No one should ever let the pressure of people around them encourage them do do something that is best waited for. Hope I helped. *Amber*

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Hey..ok, whenever I try to put a picture of me on mii site it says that `You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded.` Do you know what that means, and if so can you tell me how I can upload one..? Thanks guys!

It means your picture is too big to upload. You just need to go to any type of paint or paint like program and resize your picture, or just get a smaller one. Hope I helped =) *Amber*

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Where do you look to see how people rated you?

You just click the 'view feedback' link thing. And there ya go =) Hope I helped. *Amber*

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how do you keep your clothes from shrinking.. like jeans and shirts!! please help

If you don't want them to shrink just don't put them in the dryer, let them air dry by hanging them up or laying them out over something =) Hope I helped. *Amber*

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What are the bases? Like I know what a home run it but like the rest of them, what are they?

1st base, kissing. 2nd, above the waste stuff. 3rd, below the waist stuff, and Home of course is all the way.. Hope I helped =) *Amber*

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i love rock/punk...i'm always looking for new stuff to listen to. can anyone name a few bands for me?

Well off the top of my head.. yellowcard, story of the year, afi, hoobastank, blink 182, evanescance, taking back sunday, sugarcult, the used, and like a million others are pretty good. Hope I helped some =) *Amber*

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I think I'm falling for my exboyfriends best friend. We're all really close and whatever... So I feel really lost. One of my good friends told me that I should go with what I want, but I'm not sure. I do know what I want, but I also don't want people getting hurt. ahh...

Well, I've been there. Well I am there. My current boyfriend is two of my ex-boyfriends good friend.. so yea. I'd say just go for it. You have to go with what your heart tells you. I was worried about hurting people too.. but it all turned out okay =) If you need to, look at the positives and negatives of the situations and see how it turns out ;). Hope I helped *Amber*

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how do i get a pink background(or anything) on my advice site thing? like idk where to get a background or where to paste the URL for it!!!i rate high babes! thanks a bunch!

http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/ has really cute ones. And you just copy the backgrounds URL then go to collumn settings and past it in the background URL sections.. Simple as that =) Hope I helped. *Amber*

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i've liked this boy for a long time.. since 9th grade and now im goin into 11th.. and i wanna stop likeing him and jus be friends, i dont think he knows i like him, so thats good.. but i wanna stop likeing him and find someone new. but i just can't i dont know how.. can u help me?thanx

Awh, I know how that is. I'm the same way, I'm not the kind of girl to get over someone in just a few days, it takes a while. You should definately stay his friend you know, because you can never have too many of those! And if you wanna find someone else to like, get to know some guys and find out what they are like. Eventually you'll prolly end up liking one of them, and who knows, maybe they will feel the same way ;) And if you don't know any guys, ask your friends. I'm sure they will find someone perfect for you. Hope I helped =) *Amber*

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how do you lose love handles?? i mean like mine arent HUGE but they are kinda big and they bug me. please help me i dont like them and they're starting to bring my self esteem down fast
xoxo loves ya!

Try side crunches (courtesy toneteen.com)

1. Lay on the floor as if you were doing regular crunches. Starting at your waist, turn your legs completely to the left side. Place your hands behind your head for support.

2. Lift your head up slightly off the ground as if you were doing a regular crunch.

3. Lower your head back down so it almost touches the ground. After desired number of reps is achieved, repeat exercise on other side.

Hope I helped! =) *Amber*

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Where can you find icons..like for ur livejournal

You can always do a search on them (google is good) or find journal communities on Livejournal and other blog sites and what not, thats what I do... Hope I helped! =) * Amber *

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is it okie to like an 18 year old if in 13 its only 5 years n i mess w. him i tell him i will call him when im 18 n he just laughs is it okie that i like him!?!?!

People say age isn't anything but a number..But, thats illegal and if anyone found out there could be major trouble. Plus in 5 years you won't even remember his name to call him. Its just a little crush that probably won't last.. so don't get too caught up in it. Hope I helped =) * Amber *

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we're trying to put a picture on our advice column but all of our pictures are too big, do you know how we can make them smaller? thanks

You can always go into Paint or paint-like program (Jasc Paint Shop Pro, Photoshop, etc) and resize it or cut it down to a smaller size =) Hope I helped *Amber*

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what is a g-spot?

A g spot is an area of tissue surrounding the female urethra and running along the roof of the vagina, postulated to be erectile and to enhance sexual arousal. -gotta love dictionary.com ;)- Hope I helped =) *Amber*

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is there good way i can lose some weight.. im not fat at all but i got some pudge in the middl of my stoamach... please help me

You can always try doing different types of situps or crunches. Try toneteen.com, they have a lot of different stomach exercises you could try =) Hope I helped * Amber *

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what is a hymen on a girl?

Hymen- a fold of tissue that partly covers the entrance to the vagina of a virgin.-dictionary.com
Hope I helped =) *Amber //}

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