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14/f. i'm fine with my weight, it is just that i would like to get a flatter stomach. i already eat healthy, drink lots of water, and i know that i need to exercise in order to reach my goal. but everytime i try to exercise, i get lazy and stop, or i never start at all. what can i do?
and what are some easy exercises to do at home? i already do crunches and bicycles, but i know i need to do some kind of aerobics. i want to do something that i can do at home. like i dont want to go running, jogging, or walking. i also don't want to have to buy a video. i know i'm being picky but i just don't have the money to buy a workout video.
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Im going to try to describe a few exercises good for a flatter stomach, and if you dont quite understand what im explaining, give me a shout. First, is a half crunch, where you lift your legs at about a 45 degree angle off the ground, and just do regular crunches. Then theres this crunch where you do a regular crunch, but lift your opposite knee to your opposite elbow. Something that motivates me to exercise is some really good, fast beat music that youre really into. Or, you could put on a good tv show to distract you while doing this.
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So I have this HUGE crush on this guy. But 'this guy' is no ordinary guy, he's the most popular guy ever! I know we have a lot in common and we would be perfect for eachother. But the problem is since he is sooo popular he has a lot of other girls after him. (The only reason all the other girls want to date him is because he is popular and cute, but they don't know ANYTHING about him.) Just to let you know I liked him before he came Mr. Popular.. See first I heard somethings about him and I thought he was just the sweetest, kindest, funniest guy and one day soon after I saw him... And it didn't take long until he was popular. So my question is should I just take a chance and do whatever I have to do to get his attention? Or should I just forget him? And if you say forget him, how? He is not an easy guy to forget. Please and thank you (link)
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Yes, you should take a chance, but that doesnt mean do WHATEVER you have to do to get his attention. I know this is overused, and corny, but honestly be yourself. You have to be outgoing to meet him and talk to him, dont be shy. Be confident, cause guys can just sense confidence (whether they even realize it or not). Get him to like the real you, not another fake girl thats after him. Popularity shouldnt affect who u chose to go out with, but if this guy is as sweet as you say, it shouldnt matter how popular you are. If it does, than hes not the guy you think he is, and does not deserve your time.
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Okay, there is this new guy at school. He just moved here. He isn't cute at all, and is weird. I talked to him once because he was just sitrting there, and I felt bad. Now, he always stares at me. How do I get him to stop? (link)
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You need to explain to him, in a kind but matter-of-fact way "I have seen you staring at me, and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Could you please stop. THanks"
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So I like this boy Kyle. But I don`t know if he likes me. He's really good friends with my cousin. When hes around me and my cousins not there, hes very nice. He like jokes around and says nice stuff and we talk on the phone for hours. Okay but hes completely different around me when my cousin is there. He says like mean stuff and like I know hes joking kinda but he just acts so different. Is maybe he being shy because he doesnt want my cousin to know he likes me or that were good friends? I know some guys are like that when theyre shy. Any help or advice would be great. (link)
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It's not so much that hes shy, but rather guys feel like they have to put up an act in front of their guy friends. They just like to seem macho or something, and cant appear "emotional" in front of other guys, or they might make fun of them. He definitely likes you, because guys don't normally spend that much time with a girl that they only want as a friend. Especially talking on the phone, cause guys dont do the whole phone thing, except with girls they either A. like, or B. are going out with. Try to ignore his stupid jokes, but if and when yall do end up going out, he needs to stop.
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ok. so my boyfreind and i have been dating...well for one year on saturday. and yeah this isnt that much time. but still...i really want to come up with a good idea for something that will really surprise him. I have a swim meet in the morning at 10 and then we are going to the kenny chesney concert at 4:30...so there isnt really that much time. so basically what im asking is what is a good surprise for him...girls what have you done...and guys what do you like?
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Once I gave my boyfriend a bag full of chocolate kisses with a little note that said "Some spare kisses for when I'm not around." Other really sweet ideas include making a photo album or scrapbook of yall together. Even a single red rose, sounds funny to give to a guy, but he would actually like it.
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My hair is really really frizzy It would be pretty straight if you minus all the frizz but magazines always have ideas for diffrent kinds of hair but not frizzy hair. Have any ideas on how i can style it without using an iron. or websites where i could get ideas. that would be great! thanks! (link)
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i have the exact same problem. i use garnier fructis sleek and shine conditioner, John Frieda's Frizz-Ease serum (like a little tiny bit of leave in conditioner kinda) and JOhn Frieda's frizz ease spray. As for styling, u can gel your hair, to make it wavy and theres not much frizz. Also, if you live in a really humid area like I do, the humidity kills your hair, and makes it like X100 more frizzy, so try not to be out as much, like riding the bus and all.
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What's a really good masacara? Something that makes your eye lashes look really think but doesnt clump. Mine clumps so badly and makes my eye lashes stick together and it is almost impossible to wash out (covergirl) (link)
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clinique has really good mascara. also unstoppable by maybelline is good, and never clumps.
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i really want to start straightening my hair. i already know which straughtener im getting..my friend has it. its a conair ceramic one with 30 heat settings on it. is that a good one to get?? would that damage my hair if i use it every day?? and if it would, how can i make it not? (link)
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i dont kno the specific type youre talking about, but conair is an okay brand for straighteners. Ceramic is good, but the settings dont really matter, all that matters is like how hot it gets, cause basically the hotter, usually the better it straightens, and lasts. With any straightner, your hair will get damaged, but to reduce this, you can use a specific kind of conditioner (I use garnier fructis) and also spray your hair right before straightening to not only protect your hair, but to make it more shiny and it will hold longer. (Im very happy with Paul Mitchell Seal and Shine. Seems to be the best, costs about $7 i think, but its worth it)
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so, my bf and i dated for over 2 years, and he broke up with me because we needed "space" and he just wants to hang out with his friends. i don't know what to do to get over him, because i don't have as many friends as he does. what are some things i can do to get over him? (link)
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Join more school clubs, and other extracurricular activities. hang out with your friends, they r always there for you. listen to the music that always puts you in a good mood. Maybe when you start getting involved in other things, u might meet another guy and things can progress at a pace that youre ready for.
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I have this friend. well i think he's my friend.
he told me that guys at school don't like,like me
because they think i'm gay. or like girls.
what the hell. am i gonna do.
do i have to be mean to get them to like me.
cause i'm not that desperaite and i'm not gonna
make out in public unless it's someone i really like. cause just cause i don't worship the ground
they walk on.and i don't date assholes.
just because i would rather be just friends with the nice guys.i do like some of the nice guys
but i be there friends than nothing at all.
i don't date ass's I'm not gay. what should i do? (link)
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this guy does not sound like a friend. he would have corrected these people and there would be no question. its great that youre not a prissy little girl desperate for every boys attention in the sense of wanting a relationship. the nice guys you like as more than friends, you can do little extra things with them, like hanging out and talking and stuff. you can tell them how you feel, and maybe they even like you back =]
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ive sort of got this thing for one of the guys i go to school with, at camp this summer we hung out and he was really sweet and we like flirted and stuff. I'm and athetic trainer which basically means i go to football practices and pass out water for hours and during class i learn sports medicine. I have his team ( hes a fish and im a sophmore) and when ever i see him at practice which is every day i have it he just looks at me, he doesnt even say hi and when he uses the waterbottles he throws them in the mud, then i have to clean them up. it so weird, at camp you would have thought he liked me, and now, well...im not so sure anymore...can someone please tell me whats going on? i dont care that hes younger or anything i just think its weird hes changed so much. thanks! (link)
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try talking casually to him, not necesarily about this, and see how he responds. also, guys r about 3 years less mature than girls, so this could just be his childish way of saying he likes u, throwing the bottles in the mud. Just try talking to him about it, it could have to do with the age difference, maybe thats weird for him actually in school. So ya, talk to him. =]
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Hi I am 15/f
Like typical teen girl, I have a boy problem. Lets say this guy's name is Conrad. I think I like him, I mean I always thought he was cute ever since last year but never really talked to him because
1. he is super shy
2. we never had a same class
so I just let it go, because he is not extremely cute. In fact my friends think I'm kind of weird that I like him because he's just not that type of a guy that girls go after. Which by the way are guys that I am attracted to a lot. Those guys who aren't good looking at all, to all other people, but whatever, because I think they are cute but getting back to the point.
So the 9th grade passed by, and then 10th grade started and I now have 2 classes with him. But we don't sit near each other, because the seating arrangement is in ABC order, so we sit far away from each other. So I kind of let that go too, but one day, I just happened to sit next to him at computer lab and we just kind of talked for a while, and now I say hi to him in the hall way and I talked to him more. But he is just so shy and I dont know what to do. I mean I dont want to scare the guy away by straight out asking him if he likes me or asking him out or anything. Also I am not sure if this is an infatuation, which I happen to have a lot, in fact all of my previous relationship was infatuation that never lasted longer than 2 weeks. So I dont know about that either.
I mean "Conrad" is a great guy. He's smart, he's polite and all that, and i happen to find him cute.
But I can't really see myself holding hands with him, hugging him, and etc...whole bf/gf stuff...
What do I do?
Pleaseeeeeee help
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ya, shy guys are harder, but as youve said just keep talking to him. he will open up more and more as yall get more comfortable. try talking to him on AIM or yahoo instant messenger or sumthing like that, its easy to not be as shy on there. or the phone is also good if you can work up the courage to call him. Another thing, if hes as shy as you say, theres more than likely a reason hes talking to you at least this much. usually guys dont want solely friendship at one point or another. Its not infatuation if this has been going on for a while, if you think about him a lot. Maybe youre only looking at him differently now, so at first it might be different to hold hands with him. But you would probably adjust better once it starts happening. You wont scare him by asking him, if you tell him you like him, the worst that would happen would be that he is really flattered. He wouldnt be scared. But the best thing that could happen if for him to reciprocate, in which case yay! lol
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My bf is such a hypocrite. Well for starters he is about 30 pounds overweight. I am about average; and he keeps telling me I need to lose 20 pounds although he never thinks he has a weight problem. He also gets upset if he thinks I'm too friendly with the opposite sex; but he flirts outragiously right in front of me. He also has said the he thinks he's smarter then me even though I know a lot more things like about movie and television trivia and mental health and other topics than he knows. He thinks he's king sh_t. It is really beginning to tick me off. He also copies ideas of mine and passes them off as his own and he never gives me any credit for them. Should I confront him? He really needs a reality check before his head swells up any more. (link)
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yes, definitely confront this issue. however, be careful, try to be civil about it, and phrase it in a way he can understand, rather than it sound like you are attacking him. But on a totally side note, i kno youre not asking about dumping him, but it sounds like you could do a lot better than this jerk. You still can tell him all thats bothering you, but sweetheart this guy is NOT worth your time.
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I'm watching my friends kitten from saturday to wednesday. I'm going to have to keep it at MY house. I have to feed it, play with it, and all that stuff. How much should I charge? (link)
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I would say around $40-$50 because first of all that is a lot of work. second of all, thats still a LOTTT cheaper than your friend taking the cat to any kennel, and will probably get more love than in any kennel.
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k so im a 15/f crushin on this guy who doesn't like me... as a g/f.. cuz well he already has one... and he told my friend that he liked me as a friend but i told her he never talks to me... and she was like well then he's not interested in you... and yeah i still like him and everytime i go in my spanish 2 class i feel really sad because he doesn't even lke me as a friend... i know i should just get over him and move on but how? there is no other guy in my school and i don't know what else to do!! (link)
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if and when he gets single, you can try and pursue him. but in the mean time, you can try to occupy your time with extra curricular activites and not to mention your friends! They are always there for times like this, focus on them. If u get into some other clubs or sports, maybe youll meet a new guy there. Go somewhere, like if u like to skate, go to a skate park, and you will automatically have something in common with every guy there. Just pick a lucky guy, and start a conversation. Who knows, anything is possible.
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now that i'm going into 9th grade (my last year of middle school), i have started getting depressed lately. i keep thinking about how i've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and i keep thinking that nobody likes me. what can i do to make myself feel better about myself. i'm 14/f if that helps any.
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honestly, i was JUST like you at that exact age. I know exactly how you feel. I later did get a boyfriend, and that made me realize how worth it, it was to wait. It truly makes your first like a thousand times better. Not only that, but you have to understand dating is a LOT more complicated than you would think. Try to involve yourself with your friends, and some school activities, and whatever kinda stuff u like. who knows, u could meet that special guy anywhere. let them come to you!
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ok 14/f i have a class with this really cute guy that i dont know and he doesnt talk much so how should i start a convo with him without seeming to weird (link)
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if u happen to see him in the hallway, or in another class, casually bump into him and introduce yourself and say "hey, i recognize you! youre in my ____ class, right? I'm (insert your name)!" now he will introduce himself, and then yall can talk about that class/teacher/the homework and go from there.
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okay so today...i was talking to the boy i like, online..and he weve liked eachother for a while...and you know we'd kinda flirt and stuff...but yeah it was just friendly i guess. and then the other day he told me that his friend tricked him into saying he loved me and then today he's like, you wanna know something? and im like sure and hes like well today i said i loved you and i wasnt tricked and im like ooo and then my friend talked to him b/c i had to do something and then i came back and talked to him and then i told him i loved him too and he said that i shouldnt say it just because he did and im like i didnt i mean it
so yeah, i know i meant it...but it felt weird telling him that.
so my question is...
how do you know you love someone?
and being 14...is that too young to know what love is?
14/f by the way. thanks..sorry its so long. (link)
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my opinion is, you probably love this guy as much as you are capable of at this age. it feels like love, yes, but i think its not the same as the love you feel when you get married, cause lets face it, i dont think youre getting married anytime soon. i would call it puppy love. Im only 15, and although at one point i thought i was in love, its still not the same as what you will feel when youre older. but theres nothing really wrong with saying it, so long as you realize that later on, it will seem overused and have less meaning. Its your decision. It will however, have a different meaning when youre older.
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