how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks.
I've got the same problem and I haven't found anything that works other than sports. The more he gives me mixed signals, the more i fall in love with him. Ever since I had my crush, my grade in History went from B to D- and my grade in English went from B+ to D+. I try to convince myself to hate him because deep inside me i feel like its his fault that Im doing worse in school, but I know that its not his fault. If your truly in love, you won't be able to make yourself get over him. =( yeah, it sucks.
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-Brittany
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im doing areport for school and i need songs about sucide anyone know any??
'hold on' by Good Charlotte
http://music.aol.com/artist/good-charlotte/442724/video
thats a really good one cus in the music video it has little parts about parents and friends that lost people cus they did suicide.
then theres 'ohio is for lovers' by Hawthorne Heights. Not so much based on suicide, but says "cut my wrists and black my eyes..." so it kinda go with a self-abuser theme.
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-brittany
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okay, i like one guy, Gabe, who i don't know if they like me. i like Alex, who i went out with, and now regret breaking up with him, and he still loves me, but is going out with my best friend. and i like another guy, Diontrae, who also likes me back, but is going out with smeone else. my friends say that i need to pick one of them, but i like them all. i really need help!!!
I would wait for a while and the last one that hasnt stopped liking you is the one that likes YOU the most. They will probrally be the most loyal. Plus, the other ones that got over you wont get their feelings hurt because they will be over you.
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-brittany
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Ok so like my hair used to be kind of long like to the middle of my boobs. Then i got it cut to right above them. i hate it so much i think i look horrible. I need to fight a cute way to do my hair. By the way my hair is naturaly strait. thx much.
ooo, this is what i did to my hair and i luv it!!!
http://i45.photobucket.com/albums/f98/fresiangrl/DSCF0622.jpg
its a ponytail to the side with parts of it pulled out. I took out mostly the short hars right behind my ears.
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-brittany
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4 the past 3 years ive been feeling like i want to die and i have stress that just wont stop.i feel like everybodys like against me and i havent eaten in 4 days and i hope that im not turning anerxic.eveyday i get in arguments with my parents and teachers.i tried to commit suicide a few times but either the pills were old or it just didnt go through as planed.i think im adicted to cough medicine.i dont know what is wronge with me ill be overly happy one min. and they next ill freak out and start balling.i dont know what to do.please..HElP
Im really sorry you feel that way. No matter how many fights you get in with your parents, do you know how sad they will be if you commit suicide? Same as all your friends. Don't hang out with emotional friends, you dont need any more negativity in your life. Eating might make you feel better. Take some time to go on a little vacation. I'm sorry my advice isn't that great, but just remember doing sucide hurts the people around you as much, or maybe even more than it hurts you.
Good Luck... Let me know how it goes.
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-brittany
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ok heres the situation. your 15 yrs old. u never liked your dad, you hated him and you had this huge fite. and then he beats you wif a wooden stick until it broke. your mom was yelling at him and everything. and he hits your mom because she tries to stop him from hitting you. and then and then... a couple days later they act like nothings happened. yout mom doesnt want anyone else outside the family to kno this so she doesnt calls the police. you realli cant stand it that everyones living on fine and you get mad seeing your bruises. wat do you do?
My friend had the same problem as you, except not that extreme. Then one day during gym, one of her friends saw the bruises on her legs and asked her what they were from, she said it was from her parents. That girl told the school counslers who notified child services. I carpooled with the girl that got abused, and right when school got out, she told me she had to go to the office. It took a while before she told me what happened. When her mom picked her up, she had to speak to the child service lady. She still lives with her parents and I don't know if anything has changed.
The advice most people would give you is go to child services. But if I were you I can honestly say I wouldn't do that. I would probrally just try my best to stay out of their way. Right when I know I would be able to make it on my own, I would move out. So save up and good luck.
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-brittany
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Has anyone on here ever played with a weegee board? If you have what was it like? Was is weird?? Honest answers please!
weegee boards are freaky $hit. My dad played with one when he was a kid that was made in England in the early 1900's. When he was younger he also saw spirits in his parents house (when he lived there). In one case he saw a lady in a white wedding dress in the hallway. He said "Mom... is that you?...". Then his mom yelled from her from her room, "What do you need Patrick?". Obviosly the lady in the hallway was not his mom. Then the spirit disappeared right there. There was another case where only the upstairs phone rang. He went upstairs to answer it and then he hung up when he realized no one was on it. Then only the downstairs phone rang. So ya, don't use weegee boards cus they cause freaky stuff to happen.
lol, I was watching a show on TV that is all about hautings right before i answered this, and they used a weegee board in it.
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-brittany
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Lately I've realized that I haven't been eating as much. I'll be hungry but I just won't eat, maily because I don't want to eat. I am a very self-conscious person and I will willingly admit it. I know being anorexic is bad but sometimes I just can't help not eating. Sometimes after I eat, it doesn't matter how much it was, I fell really bad about it and regret eating. So do you think that I'm anorexic?
Most anorexic people will already know they are anorexic. If your stomache growls and you still refuse to eat, that is a sign of being anorexic. I'm guessing you are around 15 years old, no? Well, during that age every girl gets self conscious. It's most likly just a phase and it should pass. Your not alone; even I sometimes get self concious about eating.
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-brittany
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like omgosh!!! i was looking at your pics and you are like sooo pretty! how do you get so pretty? i'm short and scrawny and have frizzy and i have poop colored eyes!!! HELPP ME I WANT TO BE PRETTY LIKE YOU!!!
lol, thank you. There is nothing you can do about height (just eat your veggies, lol). But to get less scrawny, build some muscle by working out and eating protein helps a bit. Keeping your skin healthy is important too. Yeah, I have acne, but it would look worse if I didnt keep my skin moisturized. Dry skin isn't in, lol. For frizzy hair there are some products and shampoos that reduce frizz. My hair breaks really easily so whenever I blowdry it, I always keep it on cold air cause the heat damages it. Sorry, but theres also nothing you can do about your eyes, although they have come out with colored contacts so it could make your eyes look like a diferent color. Overall, the big thing for me is makeup. I don't use too much of it, but just enough to make it look like I don't need it (even though I totally do.)
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-brittany
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Where can you get cute layouts? I`m a girl n i love playboy.Can u get them off photobucket? if so how do you put them on myspace.
Thanks tons
to add a layout copy and paste the code in your about me (not the URL, the code). Here are some playboy layouts, you have to go on the page then find the code.
http://www.freecodesource.com/view.php?id=1952
http://www.myspacepimper.com/playboy_black_red.html
and here are some cute playboy bunny graphics. They are just pictures that show up in your "about me" and you add them in your myspace the same way as layouts (copy and paste code)
http://www.killerkiwi.net/myspace/graphics/playboy
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There is this girl i like at school and im not sure if she lkes me back i've asked her out twice and on the second time i asked her she said "...errr well not right now sorry" what is that supposed to mean plz help i rate 5s. btw this question would be better off answered by a girl
Sorry to tell you this, but it probrally means she doesn't want to go out with you at all, or that it was just bad timing. Ask a guy you know for tips for getting her to like her. Sorry I can't help with the tips, mine only work for girls. =[
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-brittany
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Do girls masturbate, because it seems like1 out of every 15 do. So if I was wondering if girls get grossed out by guys and or girls masturbating. I feel like asking my gf if she ever has [out of curiosity] but idk how...or is that too personal?
well, im 14 and i dont know anyone that does. I dont either. So this might help answer your question depending on your age. I don't think I would want my boyfriend asking that. So if I were you, I wouldn't ask.
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-brittany
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I am possibly thinking about going on an airplane in the near future and would like your advice/opinions about Airplanes. I would like to know who has been on one, How do you like flying, What do you love about Flying, what do you hate about flying and what advice you would give to me if I were to fly. Feel free to answer my question and really good advice in great detail will get a 5.
so did i get marked down in ratings because i had a messy advice column? (by the way, thats the look i was going for - its not quite as messy as my room though ;)
because of the elevation, your ears get plugged. So bring gum and chew it right when the plane is taking off. That will help prevent your ears from getting plugged. Once on my way home from Mexico, there was a baby that sat behind me. The whole way home I couldn't sleep- it was a 4 hour flight. Now whenever I hear a baby cry it seriously freaks me out. =[. Ask for a pillow when you get on the plane.
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-brittany
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how skinny do you have to be to look good in a bikini?? i want your opinion. il rate. thanks guys!!
ok, well, obviosly beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. But my opinion:
-no tummy fat hanging over bikini bottoms (so you can still see the top rim of bikini.)
-tan
-curvy body
-overall nice body
NOTE: skinniness is not the only issue. Some people are too skinny that its almost worse that way. If there is no muscle, it also isnt very good. If you don't have a body that you are okay with, try focusing on your hair and nails to distract people from your body in a bikini.
BUT DONT WORRY ABOUT IT! If people dont like your body they can screw off!
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-brittany
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im 13/f and ive been getting really close with this guy in my grade, like friend ship close. and hes been opening up to me and told me he cuts and i cut to. so weve been talking and im really afraid and i want to stop him from cutting but i dont know what to do.. any suggestions??
oo and theres another problem with this guy.. people have been telling me that we should go out because we talk on the phone for hours and we know each other inside and out, but hes hung up on this one girl like really really hung up on her but shes totally wrong for him and we both know that. is there any way i can help him get over her?
(by the way, i have never cut. i just know alot about this stuff because my friends dad is a psycologist and many of my frinds cut. =])
Its nearly impossible to stop a person from cutting. Beleive me, I've tried it several times. Everytime I give it a try, they can't stay clean for over a few weeks. Ive noticed that the main reasons for cutting are: family issues, friend issues, or bf/gf problems. He can't really even decide that he doesn't want to cut anymore. Once he starts the habit, whenever something bad happens, he will allways know that cutting is an option.
But there is a way you can help. Try to keep him away from negativity. Same as yourself, you should also stay away from negative things. Even wearing black can contribute to a negative outlook on life. If you have a more positive life, your mind won't need emotional support from cutting.
I don't think it would be very good to have a boyfriend that cuts as well as you. Two negatives only make a positive in math. (lol, yeah, a stupid joke i just thought of). What Im trying to say is if you 2 go out, you will always be miserable because 2 sad people together isnt the best thing. by the way, just since your friends say you two go out doesnt mean you have to. Decide for yourself if you like him. Also remember that with love there is heartbreak. This might ruin your friendship once you 2 break up. Keep that in mind.
- but, to get him over her, just be more flirty with him. This will distract him from her.
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-brittany
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ok everyday i wake up about like 4:00 in the morning but after i go to sleep suddenly after like 10 to 20 minutes my whole body becomes paralized,i cant move i cant speak,can open my eyes i cant even open my mouth until like 10 seconds then it goes away!..this started once everytwo weeks then went on to once every other day now it happens everyday!...people say its stress but i dont know yes im going through alot more then any 14 yearold can ever imagine other people should thank the Lord they dont go through what i go through...but i dont know what it is its killing me i learned how to beat it now i just have to take control over my body again but its scary i dont even like goin to bed anymore! please help me!!
yeah, it sounds like sleep paralisis. My science teacher told us about it and its rare, but it's not too much to worry about.
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-brittany
PS: my teacher graduated from harvord, so he knows his stuff ;)
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ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
please help soon! i rate well!
you should defently make him buy condoms. if he refuses and you still want to sex him, then you should buy them rather than taking the chance of being preg. plus if you dont use condoms you will always get scarred if you miss your period on the first day. if you can't live with knowing your mom might find out, then try giving up sex for a while... don't only think about the pregnancy, also think about STDs.
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-brittany
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I'm 14/f and latly I've been wanting a boyfrined soooooo freaking much, I just want someone to make me laugh, hold me, like me for me, protect me, just a guy to be there for me. It's not like my whole school has a boyfriend or girlfriend there only like err...4 mabye 6 couples that have been dating for a while. Also I'll be attracted to this guy and I can't stop thinking about them then like one day I'm like ew wtf was i thinking liking him. I just don't get why I like a guy one momment and then the next not so much and I want a boyfriend soo bad and it seems like my friends are quite as obsesed as I am with guys and wanting a boyfriend so is this normal? Is there any way I can um.. like try to not have my emotions so strong, not wanting a guy soooo much??
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I've got the same friggin problem. emotions are emotions and you can't change em even though I totally wish we could. There's this one dude I like that has a gf and we only got 5 weeks til summer break.. so ya... this isn't the happiest time in my life since pretty much everything i do ends up going wrong lately. Sorry, back to you, kinda started babbling on bout my life story.
Anyways, the reason you probrally want a bf (deeper than to hold and laugh with and all that) is most likly because you are going through some tough times also. You might also want a bf cause your guy friends don't treat you like they should. You might be missing a guy friend that DID treat you like you should be treated and now you don't see him much anymore. So basically tou want a bf that treats you like your old guy friend did. (that is, if Im right and there was an old guy friend).
What you should do is just try to hang out with this guy you like more often. Your emotions for him will get stronger at first, but eventually they'll calm down.
What I realized about the whole bf/gf thing, is that its all based on time. The time it takes for them to break up so hes single. The time it takes for you to pick truth instead of dare, and they ask who u like?. The time it takes for him to ask you out. The time it takes til he finds out you like him. The time it takes for someone to ask him if he likes you.... geez, i hate time a lot...
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-brittany
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This question has been asked alot, but mine's a bit different. I need a dress for my 8th grade dance, it needs to be nice, somewhat dressy, bun not like, dressy dressy like a prom or anything.. if that makes sense =\
Any websites with cute AND affordable dresses?
on my profile pic i am wearing a nice red dress. i got it at robinsons may i think and it was only $125... but i dont know if thats a lot for people cause "expensive" is an opinionated term.
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ok so im 16/f and i have to make up a hip hop dance for my dance class and i dont know what songs to do! i already have loose control and hollaback girl but i need more ideas so my group can choose what song we want to do! please help!
pussycat dolls- beep
cascada- everytime we touch
thats all i got. I'm not in dance so I'm not totally sure if these would work, but they all have a fast pace i guess.
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-brittany
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