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Q: I dont understand how all these younge kids come on here and ask for love advice and say how they are in love and "falling" for people. I dont think you kids really know what your talking about. Maybe instead of saying love so freely you all should start saying lust. thats what it really is.
Well id have to agree. Though I think there are different degrees of love. When you are younger you havent experienced much and it is hard to determine what love is exactly.
The one thing that completely disgusts me is how the kids are asking for sex tips. That is just plain wrong..boys and girls at that age arent even through puberty yet! Who wants to sex up a boy with a small weiner? I mean..common. "i really want to give a blow job..but could anyone tell me what it is?"
HAHA MAN.

Q: Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*
Just stay friends with him for awhile. (not friends with benefits mind you..) You will know if its right or not. Most guys dont change though if they carry that playerish behavior. Good luck.

Q: whenever a guy and a girl makeout, why do the guys always asked if the girl liked it?
They just want to make sure they are doing their job correctly. It makes um feel good knowing they are giving you pleasure.

Q: does ne 1 you have any good tips for makeup that isnt far out nd wont give you a name but stuff thats different than the rest of everybody. lol.. sry if its a bit confusin.. but ill rate you!

xoxoox
Try using colors that are less natural looking..such as bright greens..blues..hot pinks..ect. If you want some really good visual help join this community on livejournal.com. All the girls in there are awesome and they always post pictures and advice. You can post a picture of yourself in there and say what you want and i am sure they'd be more than happy to help. Check it out!http://www.livejournal.com/community/eyeshadowsluts

Q: Does anyone know a good brand of makeup that makes your skin look flawless. Kind of like how the stars have their makeup that makes their skin look so beautiful. Or does anybody know a good way to apply makeup to make it look that way?
I have spent years trying to achieve that "flawless celeb picture look" but i realized that i could never get that because everything we see on celebraties is usually airbrused or highly edited.
In my search though i have found some good make up. BARE MINERALS by bare essentials is the ultimate best thing i have ever used. It is pretty expensive though..so if you arent into anything that pricey you can look elsewhere.
WWWW.SEPHORA.COM

Q: arite well rite now im cleanin my hampster cage and im soaking EVERYTHING in dish soap and hot water...well my hampster like is in his lil hampster ball while im doing this and hes not like a tiny lil hampster hes really big!! and healhty...well he peed in his hampster ball and hes done this b4 but i juss wash the ball after i get the cage back together...shuld i wash the hampster??? how wuld i do it?? like in a bowl? i dont wanna kill my hampster but shuld i wash him?
You could always so as most animals do..
Just give the hampster a few licks. He will be clean in no time!

Though..if that doesnt work id just wipe him off with a warm wet rag or something. You only need to do that though if he is really dirty. All animals know how to basically clean themselves..so he could take care of it.

DO NOT put the poor little thing in a bowl.

Q: Well for the past 5 years my dog and I have been exclusively seeing eachother, but lately he has been acting strange. He barely notices me, and lastnight i was spying on him and saw him sneaking out the doggie door. do you think he is cheating on me, or has decided to leave me for one of his own kind?
I am sorry to hear that! I think you should take him onto the Jerry Springer show and solve things there.

Q: my foster kitten is a biter! ahh!! he does not know what to do with himself if he is not biting something..including me! What can i do to stop him from doing this?
Your kitty is just sort of teething. My friends kitten does that all the time and it drives him nuts. You cant stop the kitten from doing it..most kittens go through a biting stage, and once they get a bit older they will stop. Just hang in there.

Q: is it still pleasurable for a guy to kiss a girl with braces? do you have to do anything differnt?
Nope. I had a boyfriend that had braces for awhile and ya wouldnt even know they were there.

Q: ok well here's what happened...i was dating this guy who ended up bein a total jerk and tried to get me to have sex with him so i dumped his ass and then i met this really nice guy who i liked alot but we didn't date and now for some reason he just wont talk to me or is all of the sudden completely uninterested in me and i dont know why. so i;'ve been talking to my ex boyfriend and we're thinkin abt gettin back together and i know he's worhtless but i want to anyways cuz i feel like if i sit around waiting for something better it's never going to come....i don't know what to do at all...anything anyone can say to help would be great...i rate. thanks!
You have plenty of time to meet new people. You shouldnt revolve your life around having a boyfriend or else you will just have hurt and regret. If your ex boyfriend is a jerk than dont mess with him. He isnt worth it. There are plenty of nice guys out there that wont pressure you into having sex..and you wont be able to meet um if you are still with someone that you dont even really wanna be with.

NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS.

Q: why do guys find thongs so sexy?
Because they reveal your ass.

Q: Some times I feel like my parents don't love me. My sibling always make fun of me. My family always says they wish I'd run away. I have tried to kill myself before. but my mom and my friend came into my room so I had to come out of the closet. I don't know if they noticed but I had a thin red line across my neck. I don't wanna die but sometimes I feel it's the only way to get my family to love me. please help!
Your family cant love you if you are dead...so that wont help much. Maybe you should talk to your parents about it. I am sure that they dont realize that they are making you feel how you do. Siblings will always give you a hard time..so that is normal. Maybe if you tell your rents how you feel than they will learn to be better to you and show you more love. Good luck

Q: ive liked this guy for ova a year on and off. He now my best friend and he nos i like him. Ive tried asking him out but he always says no that he doesnt like meh like that and wouldnt want to ruin our realationship. Me and a couple of my girl friends think its bc i wouldnt do much of nethin with him besides makeout. Wat could i do to change his mind?
If he doesnt want to be with you...than there really isnt anything you can do about it. Why would you want to mess up a good friendship anyway. If you guys did go out..and then broke up..i can assure you that you guys could never be the same as you were. If you think he will go for you if you offer to do sexual stuff with him than you are off. He might go for it but itd only be because he is using you. I suggest you move on and try to find someone that is actually worth your time.

Q: i no she has a personal trainer and that helps alot lol but i no she does crunches n stuff... does anyone KNOW exactly wut she does?!? plzz help!!
Britney Spears hardly eats..works out incredibly hard every day..and probably has the occasional surgery to keep her all tucked and trim. All the dancing she does helps her keep her bod too. I am sure her program changes a lot though so i dont think you are going to be able to find out EXACTLY what she does.

Q: Hello, me and my girlfriend have ben dating for about 6 months and have ben going out for 3 we are boath ready for sex (we are 15) so the other night we were in my room when we decided that we were gonna have sex. so when it came time to bring out pappy (aka my cock) she said it was a monster penis (13 ins) and she didnt want to do anything, i was so horny that night and my hopes got shot down, what should i do to get her to like big weaners
thanks you so much

ARE YOU FREAKING SERIOUS?!?!?!
13 INCHES?!?!?! THAT IS MASSIVE!
Wanna date?

Only kidding.

But um..well your penis size is difficult to believe..but anyway..
I am guessing she had never seen it before?..which would be weird if you guys didnt do anything at all before you decided to have sex. I wouldnt suggest that. All you need to do is warm her up to it. Maybe after she gets more used to the feel of it she will start to like it more.

I do think the two of you are a little to young to do the dirty..but whatever..just be careful.

Q: i have and incredibly small penis my friends call me my friends call me teni weni (my last name is valenTINI)my girlfriend went dowm my pants and she asked wheres ur penis and the looked and laughed and left my house
how can i get her back?
i love her
LOL. Well id forget about her. If a girl only likes you for your ween than she isnt worth it. Depending on your age..you may have some more growing to go. If you are older..and done growing..than i suggest you purchase a dildo for your next girlfriend.

How many people have you showed your penis to??? ALL your friends call you that?

Interesting..

Q: I am 17, and I have had my period for about 4 years now. It had been pretty regular for quite awhile, but recently it has been getting very irregular. For Example, I got my period on July 15th, and it only lasted for 3 days which is highly unusal for me. Then today, I got my period again, and its only the 2nd, and it is much more heavy than it usally is.
Is this possibly a sign that there is something wrong with me, and if so, does anyone have any idea of what it is? I was thinking of going to the gynocologist, but my mom said its normal, but I dont think it is, because I know what is normal for me. Also, What should I expect at my first gyno visit?
Well i have never been to the gyno..(thank god)..but i heard its just a bunch of pokin around. Dont worry about your period..there is nothing wrong with ya. Every girl gets irregular sometimes. I know people that only have 6-8 periods a year..and i know people that will get them 2 times a month. Though, if you do start skipping them, i suggest you go to a doctor to get checked out. :)

Q: ok my and this guy are in love .... we both have told each other and everything but he hasnt asked me out .... i think its becuase hes afraid to get hurt like he did with his last g/f but i dunno .... i love him so much .... its pathetic we fight over who loves the other and everything ... i met him online and have not met him in person .... but we are planning to meet when we get older .... we are 15 .... and dont say thats to young to love becuase if you have ever loved you would know you can love at any age technically (sp?) can someone help me with him .... and i aint askin him out (i rate)
I am sorry, but i honestly dont believe you are in love. Yes i am sure you can be in love at a young age..but you cant experience it from a computer deep level. You dont know the real him and he doesnt know who you really are. The word "love" gets thrown around way too much. Do you really want to spend the next few years of your life in a relationship with a boy that you only get to talk to online when there are a ton of other guys right in front of you? I mean seriously..online relationships arent worth it.

Q: Okay.. the furthest i have been is making out.. but the guy i like has been as far as oral cuz hes older than me.. Like i dont think i would know what to do if something happen.. like.. i dont think i would know what im supposed to be doingg.. Like oral.. whats the whole thing with spit or swallow?? Which are u supposed to do? Yeahh please explain some things to me.. Thanks


If you tell him that you arent exactly sure what to do i am sure that he will be more than happy to show you. As for spitting or swallowing..its your own choice. Guys usually like it when you swallow though.
If this isnt something you are very comfortable with though..and you arent ready to give oral sex than dont let him force you into anything. The only way it will be enjoyable for you is if YOU want to do it.

Q: I have a problem. I'm 17 and ready to have sex. I WANT to have sex. I mean, I don't want to do it just to do it. I really WANT to. I'm completely ready. Problem- I don't have a boyfriend...agh! What do I do?
If you dont have a boyfriend than you arent ready..

It sounds to me like you are just horny.

What you need to do..is take a cold shower..
You really dont want to have sex with just anyone. I highly suggest developing a good loving relationship with someone before you do your deed or you may regret it later.

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