ive liked this guy for ova a year on and off. He now my best friend and he nos i like him. Ive tried asking him out but he always says no that he doesnt like meh like that and wouldnt want to ruin our realationship. Me and a couple of my girl friends think its bc i wouldnt do much of nethin with him besides makeout. Wat could i do to change his mind?
BeastFromTheWeast answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 8:36 pm: If he doesnt want to be with you...than there really isnt anything you can do about it. Why would you want to mess up a good friendship anyway. If you guys did go out..and then broke up..i can assure you that you guys could never be the same as you were. If you think he will go for you if you offer to do sexual stuff with him than you are off. He might go for it but itd only be because he is using you. I suggest you move on and try to find someone that is actually worth your time. [ BeastFromTheWeast's advice column | Ask BeastFromTheWeast A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 5:13 pm: well you shouldnt have to change his mind. Think of it like this. Do you WANT him to go out w/ you b/c he knows he can have sex with you... no, you most likely want him to go out with you b/c of you. So confront him. Be like not to be so blunt but are you not going out with me because of what you know i will and wont do. For some reaosn i just feel thats just not the reason. but i really dont know... if he says no maybe unfortunately he just wants to be friends. Tell him you dont think it would ruin your relationship, that it would just be a shot worth trying and that if ne thing happened ud always be friends [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
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