Heyy Everyone! My Name is Samantha Lynn. I'm 13 years old. I wouyld like to be a Physcologist in the fiture so I can help people out with their problems so I'm starting with Advicenators! Ask me a question and you can garentee it will be answered! You can IM me on GaudQueen490 or email me at Batontwirlers_26@yahoo.com if you don't want it to appear in my coulum....Heres a little bit about me...I LOVE Music! I'm absolutly obsessed with Elvis Presley! I love Green Day, All American Rejects, Simple Plan, Fallout Boy, and many others! My favorite type of music is rock but i also enjoy rap, rock n' roll, a little country, a little gospel (( only Elvis Presley gospel )), and that's all. I'm in seventh grade and I do pretty well in school... I'm in gifted but I have no common sense haha...I LOVE my friends! theyre so frickin awesome... Kori, Jordan (( H )), Chelsey, Acacia, Taylor, Rachel, Karissa, Holly, Meghan, Emily, Domenique, Chelsea, Jordan (( B )), Ian, Eric, Joanna, Allyson, Erika, Joe, Tyler, Mike, Destinie, Rachel, Lindsay, Sabrina, Shelby, Maria, Courtney, Miranda, Jessika, Jessica, and many others
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ok, well theres this guy and i just met him at the beginning of the school year. we are really good friends and he has a girl friend. he's always flirting with me and i know we are just play flirting but would these kind of be REAL flirting too? today in social studies we were watching a movie (he sits behind me) and he was playing w/my hair... then my hands were cold so he "held my hand" b/c his were warm... he wanted me to move my seat in Math so i could sit next to him... but other times it seems like he's ignoring me completely... (not when his g/f around but he does when she is too) like regular times... (link)
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i sense some serious flirting girl! the only prob is...well he has a gf...if i were you id just keep it back till they break up and then wait like 2 or 3 weeks then tell him how you feel if you really like him! and if you dont like him just set him straight right away!
Hope I Helped =)
-Samantha Lynn
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okay this is kinda of long but i need advice and your willing to help i would love it and i wil show it by rating high
so i liked this kid and he knew and we only talked online ....never when i saw him which was liek wed. sun. and fri. anyways so tonight which is friday i saw him and we were all in a group it was like 2 girls me and my friend and like 3 boys and we were just talking and stuff and since he knows i like hiim he started braggin about the size of his dick and stuff and idk if he is just like that or hes trying to impress me ...so next time i dont wanna look like an idiot and give a fake laugh i wanna say something good..any tips on what i should do and ...why is he acting this way...?plzz help asap! i love you all who help me (link)
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Tell him to go screw off next time! I know its mean but itll change his attitude if he isnt rly like that and just tryin to impress you!
I hope that helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn
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alright well im having surgery on monday of next week (the 11th)and i was supposed to get my period last thursday. but i havent yet. and its a surgery where ill be in the hospital for 2 weeks and stuff and i dont want to be on my period during the surgery cuz its like a 7 hour surgery and stuff so what should i do? thanks (link)
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Well Ithink that there are pills that give you only 4 periods a year...arent there? and if not well if you were supposed to start on thursday then it will be coming soon...if not you should probably tell the doctors before they opperate on you because you want them to be aware so you know what to do and its possible that you could be pregnant so you definatly want to tell the doctors first.
Hope I Helped! =)
-Samantha
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ok so there is this guy and hes new to my school and i realy like him but so do all of the "preps\chealreders" to. But when i first saw him when i was in the wrong gym class for the hole period when this guy i hate so much ask him out for me and i think i totally blew it because i said eww no because i have never seen him before.His looker is 2 away from mine and i see him we talk and i smile at him and at choir i once saw him looking at me and it made therest of the day GREAT and my one friends asked him out for me 3 times with out me knowing and i just found out that he said no everytime and that realy pissed me off because my friend went behind my back and he difeitaly doesnt like me but i like him and cant stop thinking about him what can i do?? PLEASE HELP_ ME AMBER MARIE CARROLL (13-f) (link)
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Hey Amber! Its Samantha! Funny I got your question out of all the peeps in the world! Anyway...hmm i think you just gotta do a little flirin! Hey i like the motto " If you got it, flaunt it! " And if you really like him then tell him! Its better to hear it from you then anyone else...If worse comes to worse...Thats what friends are for! Im here for you!!! You can tell me who it is and ill try my best! I hook ppl up! Now if i can only hook myself up with a certain someone...lol
Hope I Helped Hun! Good Luck and remember, Im Here! =)
- Samantha Lynn
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hi... well im 19/f and I'm getting married 1 week from today.. I know it's only a little bit away and a stupid time to be asking this but anyway My fiance has been like accusing me of cheating on him because im involved with the football team at the highschool because i coach it... how can i stop him from thinking this? Also I've been becoming really attracted to this 1 guy where i work.. is this normal? (link)
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I think the problem is that you are too young to settle down...You might think you love him but them you realize later in life that it was just "puppy love" Just tell your fiance that you arent ready yet and wanna wait for a while until you just KNOW! youll know when its time...
Good Luck with everthing! I hope I helped ! =)
- Samantha
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Ok well I have a boyfriend but the thing is thatI like this one other dude too...Im not realli sure if this other dude likes me tho my friends say he does the case is dat this dude wants me to go sumplace with him and his friends and sum of my friends...I want to go b/c i just want to see if i actually have a a chance with him but im afraid i might end up cheatin on my boyfriend but i also dont want to break up with my boyfrind till im actually sure dat the other dude likes me...and wut i want
So pls help me im so confused right now
WHAT SHOULD I DO???? (link)
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hmm...well tell your boyfriend that you wanna give someone else a chance...tell him your confuzzed and wanna try someone else! if he loves you he'll let you go
Hope I Helped Hun! Good Luck! =)
- Samantha
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For Halloween I want to be a person from like the 1800's and I know what I'm going to wear but I want to know make-up to wear. Should I wear like nuetral, brown eyeliner, peach eyeshadow, pink blush? Thanks. (link)
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peach...definatly wear peaches...pinks and peaches maybe blush is a definate! no eyeliner...curl your hair and eyelashes ( eyelashes definatly!!! ) if you must do lips then pink for blonde hair and for dark hair browns or reds with lip liner
Hope I Helped! You look beautiful! Have fun!!=)
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what are some simple and very discreet ways to turn guys on.. something that will make them go wild but have to hold it in because we're around other people.. lol (link)
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well ill tell you what I do...try to dress hawt! i mean like awesome! preps atract attenion! Also, you need to carry a purse around with makeup and a brush and everything! Do your makeup between classes and maybe during classes sometimes! Brush your hair after every class! Flip your hair a lot while talkin to guys! The most important thing is be nice!
Hope I Helped! Good Luck! =)
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i know this is something really weird but if i drink like a mini bottle of water (8.5 FL OZ) I dont feel good after and I have a really bad stomach ache for about an hour. Why does this happen and what can I do to prevent it? (link)
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Well maybe you run or something directly after or directly before...dont do that! if you run beofre or after and i mean directly then youll end up paying for it! But if you dont excersice after or before then tell your parents and see a doctor cause it cant be good
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umm my mom found some pads in my drawer and now she thinks i got my period. I havent gotten my period yhet and i only had those pads for justincase, but she wont believe me! what do i do?!?!?!
P.S. I rate (link)
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Next time she brings it up just say that you had them there just in case! Just so you wouldnt worry when you do start!
Hope I helped Hun! =)
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thnx in advance for answering this.. i rate high.. 15/f... well i like my really good frend... and im getting mixed signals from him.. and i want to know how you tell if one of your frend likes you.. PLEASE HELP.. ILL RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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hmm...well these situations are very hard...I liked one of my friends before...just tell him! Maybe instead of wanting to be friends he used that excuse just to hang out with you! (( I use that excuse a lot =) )) but the only bad thing is he could say he just wants to be friends and thats the hard part...you need to say something like " I know were just friends but...i really like you and cant stand JUST being friends!" something like that should get them! =)
Good Luck Hun! Hope I helped! =)
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ok my best friend (hes a guy) was hangin out with 2 of his friends. he said to his friends "swear to god not to tell anyone but me and (my name) banged last night" and they believed him! and they were aaskin him a whole bunch of questions and he didnt even bother to say he was just kidding. Why would he tell them that when nothing would ever happen between us? he eventually told them that he was just kidding but rumors coulda started off of that! why would he tell them that though when it wasnt even true? (link)
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Guys are idiots...they always wanna lie and brag...it sux!!! Just set people straight if they start talkin ! Even if they do start talkin, Dont Listen! Dont worry hun, basically the same thing happened to me and that is what I did!
Hope I helped =)
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i need some help with something?
here it is.
its about a guy from my school i like him but, well see i met him on my bus and hes from el salvador and from then on he always says hi to me in the halls and he thinks im pretty and he always wants to talk to me after school cause he found out i liked him, but i get all scared and i just get butterflies in my stomach when he comes towards me and i tell him i dont like him but he knows im lying. well this week he came and grabbed me by the arm and telling me he wasnt gona let me go till i told him i liked him but i didnt and he finally let go well anyways he has been asking everyone to ask me if i like him and i do but see he has all these friends that are girls and most of them are his ex-girlfriend and this week he kept following me with one of them hugging her and so i left and he came by me again and i left and he kept doing it and to me i think he was kind of being a jerk and his ex's dont like me i can tell but the next day he asked someone to ask me if i like him cause he thinks im pretty so yea what do i do (link)
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Tell him you like him!!! Girl, this boy loves you! I garentee he'll say yeah if you ask him out! Or you could just wait for him to make the first move which will probably be soon if you just tell him! I say Go For It!!!
Hope I Helped !!! =)
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There is this boy on my bus named Joey and I have had a crush on for a good while. He usually sits with me and is always flirting with me but will not ask me out. He tells me that he likes me and everything but there is only one problem. EVERYONE on our bus hates him. This boy that I have known scence I was five wants to fight him and everyone is tryin to get me to choose sides. Some people are even tryin to get me and him NOT to go out... I have told him that I like him and yesterday even wrote I love Joey on my hand but he still just wont ask me out... What should I do?
Luv Alwz,
Ashley (link)
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Go for the one you love...If people cant' accept that well then thats just too bad for them! I went out with this guy and everyone hated him! It didnt matter though! I was in love... As long as you love each other then it will be fine!
Hope I helped! =)
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theres this guy at school that me and my friend think that we would all be best friends because were so alike. Weve tried so much stuff to try and be his friend ,but now hes moving and its making us crazy. also he mostly hangs out with the popular girls because they think hes hot. which he almost is. but we like him for his personality not for his looks. hes not even into that preppy scene. were all into the same music and everything. when hes not hanging out with the girls hes playing football or basketball. we really think that the three of us would be really good friends. but we cant get noticed that well. and now hes changing schools in a week wut should we do? (link)
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Well, You could either tell him and become friends ( long distant friendships are actually fun!) Or you could let him go so he would never no you wanted to be friends...now which one would you pick? I'd pick to tell him...wouldnt you hun? I mean what you got to lose? You could gain another friend here and thats always awesome!
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Theres this boy that I met a while back, and I sorta like LOVE him! It's a weird feeling. When I got back that day from meeting him, I started imaginaing marrying him! He was so sweet, caring, and funny!! He was like my perfect boy! The thing is im 13/f and I don't even know if he likes me!! He's 14 and my family only sees his family once or twice a year!! Any advice on this situation? (link)
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GO FOR IT GIRL ! appaerently your family approves so just go for it! just say something like " i really like you...will you go out with me? " and i you want HIM to ask YOU out make it noticable! Good luck! =)
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My boyfriend, Ed, and I been together for almost 8 months but we dated for a month before that. He is 18 and I'm 17. Everything was pretty good the 1st few months, few fights but nothing major. Then it seems as we hit the 6 month mark everything went way down. His family doesn't think I'm good enough, the have called me a slutty whore, cum dumpster, conceited, high mantience. At 1st, my boyfriend would stick up for me but then his siblings told their mom that we had sex infront of them and that I tried to seduce the 13 year old brother. Both of which are not true. So I was told I was not allowed to call or go over their house. Its been hard but we have dealt with it, but now Ed, is being a lot meaner to me. He'll blow off plans with me, show up 3 hours late, it seems everything is up to him. His friends hate me, he is nice when its just me and him, but add any of his friends and he's an ass. I love him and I lost my virginity to him and he is also my best friend. But I can't take this anymore. I;m sick of him blowing me off and only hanging out with me when he has nothing better to do. Do you think I should stay with him and try and work this out or just say fuck it and move on. One last thing, I hate being alone so I think the reason I have held on for so long is because I don't want to be lonely. (link)
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Dump that boy! Apperently he's not worth it! Im sure there is someone else out there willing to have a great girl like you as their girlfriend!
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