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What can you do when your best friend Backstabbed u,

And you want your ex back, but
He's moved on?

Depends on how long you've been best friends. If it's years, try to fix your relationship...if it's one of those new school year, new friend sort of relationship...then ignore her.

Move on too. Bothering him makes a future get back together worse.

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hey im 13/f and i just wanted to know how old must you be to start dating? i know that i am the right age but my parents dont think so. i have been asked out a lot by cute and not so cute guys but i had to turn them down. my mom knows who i like ( i know!!!) and she always talks about how i can get to see him more etc. but when i tell her that he asked me out she shouted at me whats up with that? and dad doesnt what to let go of his little girl meanwhile my brother who is the same age as me does whatever he wants! i and im 1 min older its sssssoooo unfair!
please can somebdy find the time and answer my question
thanx

Your parents don't want you to get hurt and they dont want any guy to take advantage of you. So cutting off dating is a way to protect you. If you really like a guy, ask if you can bring him over and have your parents meet him. Ask your parents when you can start dating. In a year or two. It will probably lead to the whole sex talk. You should try to work things out with them...like no one-on-one dates. Say you're bringing your friends along. Once you earn trust, you can get away with certain things. You should tell the guys that ask you out that you're parents won't let you because they're overprotected, otherwise...by the time you're allowed to...they will think they're get rejected again.

If it doesn't work and you really like a guy... secret boyfriend, yes?

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Please only answer this if you're a junior or senior.

There's a kid named Alex who used to sit alone. A couple of years ago I invited him to sit with our group. The middle of this year, he started sitting with our group in the halls (he had left). I tolerated him, until he started with his anti Christian BS. Now I don't know what to do.
I tried staring at him. He pulled my hair (I was sitting on the carpet because we eat in the halls during lunch. He was standing behind me.) and I flipped him over my shoulder. I pushed him on his stomach but accidentally caused his forehead to bang his head against the carpet.

Imagine this kid. He's a skinny, mid heighted bookworm. I felt bad about his head and apologized. He drives me insane though. He has THE NERDIEST voice ever and dresses like he's totally out of it. At least he's stopped wearing short shorts.

How can I nicely make him go away?

Say that you want to be alone...or that you don't want to hear about his anti christian stuff. If he annoys you that much, just tell him to get away from you or hang out somewhere else where he cant find you. He'll probably get the hint.

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how come when u drink soda too fast it burns ur throat

Bubbles.
It's cold.

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Ok there was this guy I liked named Mike...well I thought I liked him but then I jst denied it because I didn't know what people would think..ya I know I shouldn't care but I did. Well he would always get in my face and do stupid things to get my attn. so I'm pretty sure he liked me, but I jst kept ignoring him..eventually he stopped. Now I realize that I reeally really like him...but I don't know if he lost interst or just moved on! Yesterday we were standin in this little group of friends nd when i looked up he was atarin at me so, idk doeas he still liek me or what? If he does how can I get us talking?
*I'll rate!!*

How about you do what he was doing to you before? Always in his face and do things to grab his attention? I think he'll like it and get the idea. :]

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Today when I went to change my pad ( I'm on my period) the blood was a dark red pretty much a brown color. Is this normal?

Yes it is.

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anybody know how to get permanent marker out of clothes?! please please! x x x

Try
-rubbing alcohol
-hairspray
-toothpaste

There might be a dark stain left to it if you try one thing, so if that happens..try another one..and it might leave a really small stain.

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Okay.. So I picked at my zits and they started bleeding. So now I have these deep red scars on my face. I'm supposed to go out later but I can't seem to cover them up w/ any make-up i have. Is there anything that will cover them up?

Wash that area. Put ice on it.
For scars... put lemon juice on those spots.

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Well how can I put this..

First of all I'm 14/F. I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe you could tell me if this is why..

Well I've like MANY guys. And some have seemed like they've like me too. For example, there's this kid that I "like" (you'll understand the quotes in a minute), and it kind of seems like he likes me too now. But now that he is kind of flirting with me, I'm starting to not like him now. What is this?!? It REALLY confuses me. I don't know why I am like this, can anyone explain?? Before the guy started flirting a little bit with me, I definately wanted him to like me, no doubt about that. Of course I did, cause I liked him. But now that it seems he likes me..I'm kind of avoiding him. Am I afraid of a relationship? I feel as if I will never have a boyfriend because of this reason, and it makes me sad & confused. Please help?

Yeah maybe you're afraid. I think you want a guy that plays hard to get. But don't avoid him though, if you like a guy and he likes you, go for it. Just try going out with someone and if you aren't ready just break up with them and tell them that. I think they would understand...

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My friend lets say (jesse) jesse smells pretty bad everyday. Like a bad smell as if she doesnt take a bath. How do i tell her she has an odor i dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont want people to talk about her behind her back
seriously.. shes recently had staph too?
does that mean youre not clean? ermm help

tell her whatever perfume, etc she's using..your allergic to..and suggest a product she could use...and offer to get it for her because you don't want to sneeze on her or anything. or just tell her about a bodyspray and offer to SHARE?

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What would a 14-15 year old girl think if they saw the guys cock jus the shape of it from your shorts, cause theyre basketball shorts. Would they think its gross, hot!, orweird ?

depends on the girl. i think it would be kinda weird...awkward. some girls think it's hot.

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I have all these little red bumps on the sides of my face, back and chest..has anybody had this, and if so..what is it?

acne...

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Hey guys! I'm 13 years old (almost 14) and I am in 8th grade. Next year, (which is not too far away) I will be in high school (freshman). For those of you IN ninth grade or over, does it suck? It scares me because I will be going to a school with 17 and 18 year olds and I'll be only 14 when I go to high school! Is it scary to go to high school? I've heard so many bad things about high school... the boys are the worst... I could probably survive in an all girls school because boys that I klnow are just mean except a few. I'm really scared knowing that I will be in high school! Can anyone give me some comforting advice to help me feel better because everyday, I get scareder knowing that another day is past and I'm that much closer to high school? I'm just scared... can anyone help me... seriously! I don't want sarcasm or rudeness in yall's answers. I'm just looking for a little comfort... Thanks!
P.S. I rate 5's to those of you who answer to me and who are being serious about the question and not goofing off...
Thanks!
Luv, Kay

The people there don't bother you unless you're out there bothering others. It's just like middle school though...just with more older people...but most are mature. The ones that aren't, hang out in a little group elsewhere. It is scary because it's new but it's alright. You will probably have friends who are in 10th or 11th. Yeah, you heard a lot of things happening in high school... and some of it, is probably true but you just stay out of trouble and do what you think is right. Nobody goes out of their way to make a certain freshmen's year hell..and if they try to, you can ALWAYS fill out a harrassment paper. It's easy to make friends when sophomores are willing to help/show others around.

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ok well i have 3 scars on my face from acne and i was just wondering if theres any way to get rid of them? like creams and stuff..thanks

I don't know any creams...but if the scars aren't years old then put some lemon juice on it. Lemon- lightens scars.

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Is it weird going out with someone younger than you? I'm 13and in 8th grade. And he's a year younger than me, and in 7th grade. Is that weird if he asks me out? I kinda like him...but it just kinda freaks me out to think of it? What should I do?

Nope it's not. I was in the same position as you. I'm in highschool already and we're still going out.

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Okay so theres this really bad rumor going around about me that is not true at all!! And i dont know how it started or who thought of it. Why do people do this if they dont like someone and why waste your time? Any ideas.

People get bored. They like to watch people get hurt from something they did. It's "amusing" ?

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hiii.
kay well. Im 14 and im a girl. Boys are so inmature now a days. All the guys I go out with are not good boyfriends. All they say to me is " your hot" And I really want a really long good relationship. I know thats not really possible at my age but i see it all the time. I want a guy who loves me for me and does all those cute little sweet things. Ive had a couple in the past like that but they turned out to be ass holes.
Why cant I find that type of guy?

Because they're all taken or they think they can win you over by saying "your hot" and well you're only 14. You havee lots of time to find your type of guy. There's lots of them though! You just got to get to know them. I'll just wait for a guy or go to the shy ones because they're usually really nice. Well, if you think a guy is making the moves on you..randomly say you want a guy that does cute little things. Just bring it up or make it seem like, you like someone but you don't. I'm not sure. I'll try to be best friend material with a guy first but flirt at the same time. I don't know. You can't expect guys to be sweet all the time either.

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My face is so ugly ! but i think its because i have ACNE on my fore-head ! I really wish it would go away, but i dont no how it can. I try using acne treatment and stuff but it doesnt work ! soo.. i was wondering if anyone noes any ways on how to get rid of my acne??

RATE HIGHHHH!!
x3val

use Proactiv + Moisturizer

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is it possible to like two guys? see i like both alot but i also like one A LITTLE more than the other but i still like both! lol confusing

yes it is.

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Ok here it goes...I have this boyfriend and I like him so much. We have been going out for 3 weeks. He is kind of shy and so am I. I mean, I am really outgoing I just get kind of shy around him. We went to a football game last night and I started yawing and getting really tired. He says, "Do you want to go to sleep on my shoulder?" I was really stupid and said "no its ok." I feel really bad though because I wanted to, I just don't know why I said that. So I scooted in a little closer to him and he put his arm around me kind of. There was a bench behind us to he kind of just put his arm around me but didn't touch me. He asked me if I wanted to go see a movie sometime and I said sure. I really really want to spend more time with him because we go to different schools. I go to an all girls school and he goes to an all boys school but they are right next to each other. I sometimes go and see him after school after his wrestling practice. I really want to kiss him but I want him to do it first because it will be my first kiss. He is very shy so I don't know if he will kiss me. He asked me to the school Christmas Dance and I said yes. But I really want to get closer with him. What should I do? How do I let him know that I want to kiss him? I could let his friend that I know tell him but I don't know about that. What do you think? Thanks in advance...

Just wait for him. You don't want to push him. You've been barely going out with him for a month. My boyfriend didn't kiss me until months later. He's probably nervous so just settle back and sit closer to him. Maybe he will kiss you at that dance. An unexpected kiss seems nice...I wouldn't tell his friend anything because you could hurt your boyfriend. He might think you can't talk to him yourself. So, if you can't really wait... Just get a little bit closer to him. If he asks things like "Do you want to go to sleep on my shoulder?" and do it because he will feel more comfortable and ready for the next step (kissing). If he stares at you...lean forward slightly and he might take the hint. Or ask him, "Hey, do you know what I want for Christmas? A kiss."

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