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Dating
hey im 13/f and i just wanted to know how old must you be to start dating? i know that i am the right age but my parents dont think so. i have been asked out a lot by cute and not so cute guys but i had to turn them down. my mom knows who i like ( i know!!!) and she always talks about how i can get to see him more etc. but when i tell her that he asked me out she shouted at me whats up with that? and dad doesnt what to let go of his little girl meanwhile my brother who is the same age as me does whatever he wants! i and im 1 min older its sssssoooo unfair!
please can somebdy find the time and answer my question
thanx
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Well dads are always like this with their only girl.. You can`t change that.. Only way you can date guys is with out him knowing and you mom.. But seriously 13 still is a bit young to have a boyfriend in my opinion maybe a friend thats a guy to hang out with would be fine for the moment.. if you really wanna date at this age and stuff just talk to guys on the DL and date them on the DL but if you do that it`ll be hard to hold a good relationship.. ♥ Dez
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I come from Europe.. And do what i told you. I did the same thing. My sister who is 13 like you does it now!
And i understand exactly what you say now. Wait for the right time. And in my opinion it will be when you will like someone very much!
Thanks for telling that for the advice i gave you! You made me happy! I wait for telling me what happens when you will talk to them! Bye!!!
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Your parents don't want you to get hurt and they dont want any guy to take advantage of you. So cutting off dating is a way to protect you. If you really like a guy, ask if you can bring him over and have your parents meet him. Ask your parents when you can start dating. In a year or two. It will probably lead to the whole sex talk. You should try to work things out with them...like no one-on-one dates. Say you're bringing your friends along. Once you earn trust, you can get away with certain things. You should tell the guys that ask you out that you're parents won't let you because they're overprotected, otherwise...by the time you're allowed to...they will think they're get rejected again.
If it doesn't work and you really like a guy... secret boyfriend, yes?
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