my friend gave me her e-mail and her password
because she has no internet in her house. does she trust me or what? sometimes she goes online if she can.
yes.. she trusts you.
just don't ruin the trust by reading her messages or something.
she might want you to check her myspace out since she has no internet.
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Alright, Im going to preface this by saying, Im not your average asshole guy who thinks the world loves him, so temper your responses as if youre talking to someone who is reasonable and who approaches things with a relatively open mind.
So, Im in this relationship. One in a long line of similar ones, I have a tendancy to get into the serious kind, and my girlfriends tend to stick around for the better side of a year. My current and I are just about at the 18 month mark.
We have hit this point where I am comfy. I like talking to her, and having her around, and doing the cute little couple things,but I also like my space, and try to communicate that to her in a non hostile or not "get off my back" toned way. I try to just let her know gently when I need to just chill out and not be sitting on the couch with her in my lap.
But she, on the other hand, just cant seem to get enough. She wants me to hold her from the second I get home until the second I leave for work the next day, and generally suffocates me.
Now, Im pointing out what she does, but this behaviour has led to EVERY SINGLE BREAK UP Ive had in the last 8 years. 6 ltrs and a few month - 2 month beginnings. Girls hit this point where they want you around them 24/7, and excuse me if I like my partners to be _part_ of my life and not the entire focus of it.
So as I said, Im not an uncaring person. I cuddle after sex, I like laying together and watching a movie, I give her a massage nearly every night, but I dont want to be wrapped around ANYONE every second that Im not at work. I hate my job, and at times I enjoy going to get a respite from her. Its fucking ridiculous!
So, what the hell should I do? I mean, Im not going to say theres something wrong with me. Hell, I would say that Im more affectionate on a regular basis than the average guy I know, but I like a few hours a day to sit at the computer and play games, or to take a hot shower _alone_ or maybe, just maybe, fall asleep in a position thats comfortable to me, not that makes her feel like my teddy bear.
I cant figure it out. Are all girls like this? Or do I just have some wierd attraction to girls who do this and havent figured it out? I dont know. But its the reason I keep having to end relationships, and I like this girl, I dont want to break up with her because shes suffocating me.
Angry women responding saying Im a pig, or that I dont deserve her, or anything else of an un-thought out and abrasive nature will get a one and an angry riposte.
She must like you a lot.. She seems to be afraid of losing you...
Show her you won't leave. Plan something big for the both of you..
Then after that.. You should talk to her girl-friends and have them make plans with her, so you'll have time alone.
You could just do what you want and tell her she can have some time to herself. Watch a movie, or maybe take a hot bubble bath.. or something you know she likes to do.
Just remind her that she means something to you... little notes placed in spots you know she goes to.
Make some plans with your friends and tell her it's.. like a guys night out, and that she should have a girls night out.
Don't try to stay late at work, it will make her worry and probably cling onto you more.
you can just try telling her you need some space/alone time?
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is it true guys think its hot when girls kiss/ make out?
Some guys think it's hot while others dont.
yup..
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What are some of your favorite books that you would recommend? thanks!
I enjoyed "A Certain Slant of Light"
=it's a ghost story, a romance, and a fantasy :]
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Ok well I have wavy and puffy hair. I just got cut it in layers, it looks good...but I want it kinda like straight yet wavy. What I mean is that I want my hair the same but not puffy. I have tried different things and it's the same. Suggestions?
Use some anti-friz serum or a product to make hair straight/gel. rub it in the puffy parts. Use some hairspray and blowdrop a little...it shouldn't be too puffy.
But if nothing's working for you, get it relayered and thinned out!
My hair was just like yours and when I got it layered and thinned out, the puffy/frizz died down.
Ask your hairdresser for products to reduce the puffyness.
But maybe the puffy thick haired look, looks great on you :D
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How do you get your hair so blonde that it's almost white? You know, like jessica simpson blonde?... I've tried bleaching it, but it just turns orange & then when I put a base on after the orange doesn't go away. Does any one know any good brands or tips on how to do this?
Did you get a blue based toner? It's supposed to take the orange out.
If you used the toner... and you want to go platinum blonde.. Leave your hair alone.. so it's not brittle. Wait a week or two and bleach again.
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i'm getting eye surgery to make my eyes bigger because i think they'd look more pretty that way. umm people tell me after i do the surgery, for 2 weeks my eyes are going to be all puffy and stuff and it will look bad and it will take around 2 weeks to heal - is that true? umm and how old do i have to be to get the surgery done? and like are there any cons of getting the eye surgery? or any side effects? thanks.
whenever you go through surgery.. it will reaction with being puffy/swollen. it will take time for the swelling to go down but i'm not sure how long for that. ask a doctor. i think you have to be 18 but maybe with a parents permission, you can do it earlier?
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Hi my question is about disneychannel.com it won't let me get on to it so my question is how do I get in to it if it won't let me?
Do you mean you can't load the page?
If it won't load.. then it's probably down so wait give it sometime
But it could also mean your computer doesn't have flash?
I'm not sure. Maybe the server is busy..
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i have a running problem. i can only run for like 2 min and after that i'm so tired that really sucks and i always start running soooo fast and after 2 min i'm tired! what can i do to last longer? i know i'm breathing right! and in about 3 weeks my school has this running compatition and i dont wanna win but i also dont wanna ambaress myself so pleeaaassee help me!!!
start at a slow pace. running fast slows you down
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what does grinding feel like? does it give you pleasure.. i want to do it with my bf at the next school dance. also, how do you do it? dont say "dont do it cause you dont know how" cause there is always a first time.
I think it turns the guy on, if the guy is behind you. But if you do it the other way, and he has an erection against you, it could give you pleasure.
I'm not sure how you do it.
Maybe watch other people and copy what they do
Or watch music videos.
But it just looks like you're leaning back and whatnot.
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For the past two months ive felt real confident and been like doing my hair cuter and like dressing cuteness and ive noticed guys actually looking and talking to me but like on friday i really felt bad like stuffy i dont know so i took a shower and was going to leave my hair curly for school well so long short story short i had a bad hair day and looked bad well at least i think so. Do you think guys really care ?
Some guys care about appearance but there's the other half that doesn't.. I'm sure there's guys that think you're pretty when you think you have bad hair days.
But I guess it depends on the guy that you're trying to attract.
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Ok well I have a friend who is 12 and she wants me to ask a question on here. (Not old enough to register yet.) Well she wants a BF and she wants to know if she is old enough to have one. Answers?
Does she mean boyfriend?
Well you can have one at whatever age.. just know your limits.
But I'll ask her parents because sometimes they don't let their kid date til a certain age so they don't get hurt.
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What is 666? I know it has something to do with the devil.. I'm an atheist, so I don't know what it is and why the heck everyone is so worked up. Can someone please explain this to me?
It's a joke. I'm sure somebody made a site about it and some person clicked it, to see what it was about.. and if you have a myspace.. it MAKES you post a bulletin about it. It's not the devils numbers or anything and nobody's going to die. People think it's funny ..how gullible people are.
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I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months, I honestly do love her. Whenever I tell her I love you she says I know like it's not a big deal or something, now whenver I tell her I love you she says I think you love me for the wrong reason, it hurts me when she says things like that, not once has she told me she loves me back. Am I just wasting my time? What should i do to respond to her when she tells me I love her for the wrong reason?
Thanks
Just give her time.
I'm pretty sure she really likes you
Sometimes people are afraid to say it.
Like.. throwing those words around like it's nothing, sort of thing..
Maybe she doesn't want to get hurt.
She might be saving those words when the relationship gets really serious.
I don't know, it took me a while to say those words.. it just felt weird and it was something new.
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ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?
thanks guys.
it's a joke...
edit
rated a 2?
believe whatever sh*t you want
it's a fricken joke.
O__o
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13/m ok well my gf was at this party and she was cold and went to sit next to this guy who she has known since she was born (btw i wasnt at party with her) anyways she was cold and he said come sit next to me ill warm you up and so she did and she went over sat next to him and he asked do u wanna kiss and she said ok not thinking and they madeout....and me and her only madeout 1 time and she makeout with him 5 times in a row like stopped and did it again 5 times then they stopped then he grabbed her hand and like made her give him a handjob....well....she felt REALLY bad after it remembering me and everything and she told me and told me she was REALLY sry and she thinks shes a whore and i should break up with her but i love her to much and i made her swear never to do it again as long as we were going out and she agreed and so now i dont know what to do!!!
should i break up with the love of my life cause she made a HUGE mistake?
but she told me instead of keeping it a secrete and i donno!!!
HELP PLEASE!!!!
You're 13.
If she really liked you. She wouldn't have done such a thing. But since she has told you... it's a nice thing to do but you don't have to trust her or anything until she proves it to you.
But once she does it again, I say break up.
Don't let someone hurt you.
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im 13 yr old female.
Okay i started talking to this one guy i really liked a while ago.He imed me and sadd that he wanted to get to no me better, we started cybering and i started liking him even more. He started getting orderly so i showed my friend what he was saying and we were mad at each other for sometime.he said he was sorry, and now he wants me to flash him a piece of my thong, or "pretend to slip and rub me" and i dont know what to do, hes really popular, so im afraid if i turn him down ill be even more hated than i already am...please help ill rate high!
You're just 13.
Who cares if he's "popular"
He sounds like a perverted jerk.
Don't do it if you don't like it.
Block him on whatever you're talking to him.
You won't be hated.
You would think you are but you won't.
He's just stupid and he knows that since he's "popular" he can use you.
Don't give him what he wants.
Show some dignity.
If you do what he wants and he wants more...
He will bad mouth you.
And rumors won't be good, would it?
So if you see him, make sure you're with a friend.. because if he acts more like a jerk. You have a witness to back you up when you go to an adult for help.
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14/f. My boyfriend of about two weeks is named Dylan. I really like him and I love being with him but the problem is my friends (both girls and boys). They ALL don't like him because of mainly two reasons. One is that he is sort of mean to them (jokingly though). And two, they say I ditch them for Dylan. I actually only ditched them once for him but still. It was so much easier when I was single to hang out with my friends and have a good time and remain part of the group. All of my friends REALLY make it seem like I have to choose between Dylan and them. And when I asked them about it, they said they didn't know what I was talking about. But their actions speak louder than their words. I know if I break up with him things will be a lot easier for me but I would still like him. I feel almost as if my friends have forgotten me because I'm with him. What do I do?
THanks
I RATE....
Balance things out.
Make plans with your boyfriend and then the next day, hang out with your friends.
And even after school plan a movie party? with your friends or something.
You can tell your boyfriend that your friends don't like his sense of humor. You can have him try to get into the group so you all can hang out.
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Okay, I was at a party and my friend Sara was acting like a slut. She was wearing really short shorts and flirting with everyone (until her boyfriend got there) all the guys were all over her and she was showing off. And, she flirts with the guy I like. What should I do it annoys me so much, and I need to win the guy I like so he won't start to like Sara.
Next time your friend is actually all slutty at a party. Get her boyfriend over and see how she's all over people. I'm sure he would want to know if she's flirting with every other guy.
Talk to your crush, get to know him, say hi every time you see him, etc. If he likes her, then he's not worth it.
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Ever since I was 14, I could read people's minds. It scared me at first, and it still sort of does because I don't know much about it.
Sometimes it happens randomly. I'll be thinking of something and suddenly I start to think something completely different that I can't control. This has happened with my siblings and parents before, and I've been able to tell them exactly what they were thinking/feeling.
My family is thinking about sending me to a doctor (I know this because they think about it alot). But there's nothing wrong with me.
Is this mind-reading thing normal? How do I tell my parents to not send me away? =(
Well don't mention it.
If you do get sent to a doctor.. they shouldn't do anything to you.
You can prove that you can read minds.
I'm sure other people have it too.
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