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cybering...but not
im 13 yr old female.
Okay i started talking to this one guy i really liked a while ago.He imed me and sadd that he wanted to get to no me better, we started cybering and i started liking him even more. He started getting orderly so i showed my friend what he was saying and we were mad at each other for sometime.he said he was sorry, and now he wants me to flash him a piece of my thong, or "pretend to slip and rub me" and i dont know what to do, hes really popular, so im afraid if i turn him down ill be even more hated than i already am...please help ill rate high!
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your only 13.. dont care about popularity. like serisouly it isnt even all that crack out to be.. you going to do that but then he is going to want more. he wont be satisfyed. he is a guy!!! what is more important your rep. or being liked by people who arent even going to be your real friends.. think about it.. that shouldnt even be a consideration!!
Adrianna
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your only 13, so you might regret it if you do.
if your looking for trouble, than do it.
this doesnt sound like a good idea to me,
but the choice is yours.
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You're just 13.
Who cares if he's "popular"
He sounds like a perverted jerk.
Don't do it if you don't like it.
Block him on whatever you're talking to him.
You won't be hated.
You would think you are but you won't.
He's just stupid and he knows that since he's "popular" he can use you.
Don't give him what he wants.
Show some dignity.
If you do what he wants and he wants more...
He will bad mouth you.
And rumors won't be good, would it?
So if you see him, make sure you're with a friend.. because if he acts more like a jerk. You have a witness to back you up when you go to an adult for help.
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the only populairty YOU will get for doing what he wants you to do is guys are ganna think your easy and when a guy tells you he likes you your not ganna know if its because you a hoe or because he likes you for you so DONT DO IT TRUST ME IVE BEEN THERE and done that
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I understand what you are saying but you really need to weigh this. Are you prepared to risk your personal dignity for a little popularity? I would also like to point out that a guy who 'wants to get to know you' and then just begins cybering is not the sort of guy with any respect for women. That is not getting to know someone, but rather finding a willing volunteer for a cheap thrill. I'm sorry if that isn't what you want to hear but he's not respecting you right now.
I would strongly suggest that you don't do it. If you do it, you may think he will like you but he will respect you even less and if you don't do it, you're not really losing out because he's not really a friend to you anyway. I'm sorry to say this but I am speaking from experience. If he really is your friend or respects you in any way, if you tell him you don't want to go any further and do anything like this that he is asking, he will be nice about it and let the whole thing drop.
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dont do anything if you feel uncomfortable. if i were you, id flash him a piece of your thong, but dont let him touch you, thats like molesterr. since your only 13, showing him is as far as you go. unless you want sex, then go ahead. so basically, you can flash him your thong, thats not a big deal, but make sure no one is around k?
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Hi There,
I understand how much you may like him and how popular he is but if you do not feel comfortable doing something then don't, you could try speaking to him and i'm sure he will listen to you and respect your feelings if he really likes you. Be careful especially on the net and just either speak to him or just forget about the whole things as hard it may seem i'm sure you can be strong and get over it but at the end of the day you can only decide we are only here to advice you and help you through it.
Takecare
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