Okay, I was at a party and my friend Sara was acting like a slut. She was wearing really short shorts and flirting with everyone (until her boyfriend got there) all the guys were all over her and she was showing off. And, she flirts with the guy I like. What should I do it annoys me so much, and I need to win the guy I like so he won't start to like Sara.
Additional info, added Friday May 26 2006, 9:05 pm: 13/f. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Sunday May 28 2006, 12:17 am: First off, your friend has a boyfriend, therefore she shouldn't be doing these things. Secondly, being a slut is just so trashy. What you need to do is confront your friend. Calmly tell her that the way she is acting is going to make people see her in a negative way. Also, make sure she knows who you like. If she's a true friend and cares, she'll back off. Hope this helps and if you need anymore help with this situation, you know where to find me.
-cindy <3 [ CiNdYLoUwHoO's advice column | Ask CiNdYLoUwHoO A Question ]
skater answered Saturday May 27 2006, 4:39 am: ok i know how feel the same things happening to me now and my friend also has a boyfriend ...these kind of girls dontcare if having a boyfriend she will do something because if she did care she wouldnt be flirting with all these guys 1 and second of all she thinks shes hot and all she might have an affair and she on her boyfriend to me basically flirting menas cheating your friend sounds like a whore (no offence) so they usually do get the guys so you go win him over quickly...but..dont sound needy like you need him sometimes guys like girls they have to work for be speacial and let him work for you those kind of relationships usually last long...also my friend has a boyfriend and shes flirting with the guy i like ...and i think because shes acting all slutty thats why he came to me because i talked to him and i was funny and all and we got close but i let HIM call me and i let him talk to me so i dont looks needy so hed work ...so you should do the same talk to him get close and when you feel like your getting him let him come to you =) lol sorry its long but i hope i helped byez [ skater's advice column | Ask skater A Question ]
adviceme3 answered Friday May 26 2006, 11:26 pm: I don't think you have to worry about your friend Sara stealing the guy you like. If she has a boyfriend, then she probably won't be doing anything with the guy you like. I think that you should also get to know the guy you like better also. [ adviceme3's advice column | Ask adviceme3 A Question ]
queenhearts answered Friday May 26 2006, 10:48 pm: Next time your friend is actually all slutty at a party. Get her boyfriend over and see how she's all over people. I'm sure he would want to know if she's flirting with every other guy.
Talk to your crush, get to know him, say hi every time you see him, etc. If he likes her, then he's not worth it. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
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