Q: So my boyfriend loves sex, i mean what guy doesn't don't get me wrong i love sex to hah, a lot. Lately i have been thinking though i mean i love sex but i watch these movies and shows and stuff and the movies have the people 'making love' not having 'sex'. I've been thinking about it more and more and i want to make love so bad. My boyfriend is the kinda guy that talks dirty and stuff during sex, i don't know how to explain what im trying to say but i guess i just want to be more romantic then it is i mean the sex is great its just i want to feel that romantic connection that i see on movies and such with making love. My boyfriend likes doing everything and anything and he just doesn't seem like he would be the romantic kind during sex he's more like the 'porn star' kind. IM sorry i don't know how to explain this.. i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me i just want to feel more connected when we have sex instead of just fucking and then thats it, like we don't really say much after we just put our clothes on and thats it hah. How can i get my boyfriend to be more connected? What should i do about this? Any advice?

Q: i have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we have talked about marriege. he is my first love and i can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. we have had our ups and downs but i trust him and do love him. i just wonder if we're to young to get married. we're both 19 and are going to college. the fact that we are both still teenagers scares me. should age matter if you know for a fact its true love?

Q: im 17 and i wanna get on the pill to get birth control pills do i need to go to the pharmacy with a parent or gynocologist how do i get it?

Q: I am a male, 36 yrs. old. I move into a neighborhood about 5 years ago. My wife and I got friendly with another couple in the neighborhood. A few months went by, going out drinking, restaurants, movies etc., we were hanging out with this couple alot. Anyways one night i was on her couch and myself and Mrs. X were just sitting there. We notice that her husband and my wife were flirting in the kitchen and then they would disappear for a few seconds and come back. the next week end was a New Years party and I was out by a deck fire and Mrs.X came over and sat on my lap and we began to kiss, I told her that i was married and she said it was ok that her and wife decided to wife swap. It seem fun at first and went on for over a year, almost every weekend. My wife decided she had enough, she probably seen the chemistry between myself and Mrs.x, anyways its been almost 4 years now and I am still with Mrs.X only they do not know we still see each other. I fell in love, love like I never felt before. I found my soul mate and she says she found hers. I just cant take the sneeking, lying and fighting anymore. we also have 3 children a piece.This story cannot be told in 2000 characters but i could sure use some advice from someone who is willing to hear the whole story, thanks for your time.

Q: My best friend commited suicide on the first of this month.. N idk what do with myself anymore. She was everything to me.. we were so close n we were even blood sisters (meaning we poked our fingers and touched our blood together). I met her in the behavorial health hospital n i knew we both had depression, but she always said she'd call me if she was thinking those thoughts again. But she didn't.. N i feel even worse cuz I was supposed to be with her that day too! I feel like I could've stopped her or something. I'm lost without her.. I don't feel like I can do this without her. What should I do? Please Help Me!

Q: Seventeen.Female//bestfriend is Nineteen.Male
okay so ive known my bestfriend since i was born. Like literally he's been around that long. Now he's only been my bestfriend for like 2 years but he's always been here for me. Well, him and his ex girlfriend broke up like a month and a half ago and ive been helping him through it, which has been going good for him and whatever. Well he's recently started seeing this one girl who he seems to really be into. well im extremely happy for him because he's no longer depressed and whatever. Well this is where it gets tricky. He flips out on his ex-girlfriend all the time cause he thinks shes going to find someone else, well he's finding someone else so its not fair for her. Another thing, me and him just recently began fighting a lot over the dumbest things in the world. Well now he is refusing to talk to me, and ignores me when he's at my house which is retardedd. Well this girl he's recently trying to get with, is a big time partier and a druggie, well he doesn't like that stuff in a relationship and i know she is for a fact. And i think if i tell him he wont believe me and he'll think im jealous and not wanna talk to me for even longer. Us not talking is killing me because he's the only person i can trust. And if he doesn't find out the truth about this girl, i know he's going to end up getting hurt and i wont sit around and watch him get hurt again. He's too good to get hurt and he's been hurt too much already. I don't know what to do =/ Should i tell him about this girl? I dont knoww, any input on any of this. Anything would be absolutely amazing. Thank youuu.

Q: Im a 16/m. Today my kinda girlfriend told me that she started talking to her ex and her feelings came back for him. I say kinda because i never asked her to be my girlfriend because her parents didn't want her to be in a relationship. I told her that if im keeping them apart then i would stop talking to her. She said she cant be with him right now but she didn't say why i think it was a distance thing. Then she told me that she still wants to talk as friends but i cant do that she already hurt me before i don't think i could take it again. So i said goodbye and i asked her if she could stop talking to me completely so i could get over it faster. I don't know what to do i feel sick ive been crying for the past 4 hours and i have to see her tomorrow at school i have her for my last class of the day. And i see her in the halls.
Can someone help me.Tell me about your experiences, or how to get over this, something to look forward to; should i try to get back with her or let her go?

Q: 16 female,
This guy who i have liked for ages, i recently slept with twice (we both lost our virginity to each other), ever since it has be really awkward and nothing has really happened, i really want to talk to him and stuff but theres nothing to say. I kind of gave up although i cant get him out of my head its driving me crazy i like him so much! I phonned him on friday and told him how much i liked him stupidly ( me and him were both drunk) and he was just saying "cool and good" and then i asked him if he likes me and he said "dunno" so i just left it at that i have to see him tomorrow at school and i dont no what to do as iv probably made it more awkward. He told me he liked me ages ago but he also said can you really see us togeather? and i said i dont no and it was left at that. but either of us want a relationship, i really dont no what to do anymore :/ as all of our friends keep winding the situation up by saying loads of stuff.

Q: ok im 15/female

ok on thursday me and my boy friend had sex and it was only his first time and it was really special and we used a condom but now its been a couple days and i always wake upfeeling sick to my stomach and i dont like it and i heard its the first sign of pregency is that true ? should i be worried? please help me...

Q: i wanna flirt and tease my boyfriend and people told me to like whisper in his ear in like a seducative voice and stuff but what would i say? anddd what else can i do?
thanksss! (:

Q: Okay, you know those huge jumbo remotes that they sell?
If I get one, will it work for all tv types? I have a Samsung television.

Is there a certain kind I should get?

Thanks!

Q: ok, my boyfriend gets an erection just about everytime we make out, is it normal for that to happen every time? thanks

Q: I am a single divorced parent of four and very attractive. Although I am a 40 female, I often get "carded" or mistaken as my 20 yr old's sister. My delimma is that I have not been blessed regarding relationships whereas someone loves me as much as I love them. I started attending this huge church three years ago. I have always been active in church in another state. On my first visit, which was business related, the pastor, who was single, made a point to introduce himself to me. I brushed it off because I was seeing someone at the time. Recently, my friends who visits from other churches notice how he stares at me during service in a church of over 1500 members per service. I have noticed that he seeks me out and have constant eye contact. I brushed it off as he does it with everyone to engage them. The final thing that made me wonder was the fact that I was leaving the church and wrote him a letter. That Sunday, he stated, "I got your letter.....don't leave me.....I don't know what I would do if you were to leave." I have also "heard rumors" that he has it bad for me and that is why I am catching hell from other females in the church who have a crush on him.

I am beginning to have feelings sub consciencly. I don't know if I've been attracted all the while as was subpressing my feelings or if it is curiousity. The problem is that I think about him all the time. I am in a relationship with a wonderful man, but I don't love him as a significant other, only as a "best friend". He wants more. On the other hand, my pastor is communicating more with me and inviting me to dinner functions that are only suppose to be for church board members or deacons.

My pastor has even appointed me to key positions in the church, which makes me feel awkward because I want to earn positions based on my talent, not becuase of favor.

Although I am thinking of him all the time, I also have butterfiles when he is near and become speechless. I have noticed the same behavior from him. He compliments me every Sunday. This feeling is getting worst and I did not have these feelings at first.

My question is, should I pursue him, although he has never been married and doesn't have any children? How will the church look at our relationship? How do I "ask him out"? How do I truly find out if I am not reading into things? How do I get him off my mind? If we date, how do I save my friendship with two of my best friends who are "madly" in love with him? Please help!

Lonnie44
Atlanta

Q: ive liked a guy over 3 years
my friends got involved try getting me to talk to him. he knows i like him. my group and his group became good friends

long story short, in the end my friends are better friends with him. i am still to shy. i try and talk to him but he just doesnt always talk back. he is shy oo, but i think its cuz he knows i like him but i dont know

my friends are closer to him and it hurts me. what do i do?
stop hanging with them all, try harder with him, ot just ignore everything.

please help!!

Q: Okay I'm 15 and a girl,I'm a freshman and for the last 2 years my dad's been acting all bitchy and just an asshole at me! >O
What the fuck?!
He says things to me that emply that I'm fucking around with guys! Which I'm not I haven't even had a real boyfriend yet!D:
So where's he getting this from?
He's been bitchin at me lately about having to buy me clothes,I barely have any.:[
Yet he gives my oldest sister money to fix her shitty car every time it breaks down;and he's like don't worry about paying me back.
What the hell?
So tonight my dad and I got in a nother spat about me going to the movies...All I asked for was ten dollars,ten fucking dollars ad he spazzes out at me!D<
He's like,"I don't have money for you to waste,I just want to go see Twilight with my bestfriend god is that to much to ask?
Shit and I'm not even going to eat,since they raised the price for the movie tickets..>->
So after he yells at me for like a good 12 minutes he finally gives me ten dollars,I say thank you and shit.As he's leaving my room he say,"I don't want any unexpected bellys in this house!
D:<
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So at this point I've had enough,and scream like a maniac;yeah I know bad...U-U
But I couldn't take t,all I say is "What the fuck?!!! Why do you always say that shit,why the fuck do you always act as if I'm some whore?!"
He's like,"Don't talk to me like that,why the fuck do you always act like this when I give you advice for your own good!!!"
Okay one,he doesn't say it nicely he completly breaks me down and god I swear.So then he's like,"Answer me!" I'm crying and trying not to say anything so I just tell him to leave me alone.He slams my door and I run to lock it,meanwhile he's yelling at me still;"I don't want any assholes calling me! Fuck you pieces of shit!"
Then he says the final thing that completly breaks me inside and out,he says he dissowns me,and to never bother him again,that I never had a father so just to forget him....So since I have no "father" I just don't care anymore,I been thinking about getting snake bites,my friend's uncle is a professional piercer,he has his own shop and he'll do it for me.My socalled dad said I couldn't get my lip pierced,but this is someyhing I want,and since "I have no father," I'm thinking I will!:)
I'm just scarred that if I do and he sees iy he'll like...I guess hurt me or rip it out...He;s said it before and I just don't know what to do...=_='

Q:
Im 21 years old and this is my story...
It all started 6 years ago,my father started having problems with his company and he would always throw his tantrums on my family,i have 2 elder sisters.he would get upset over the most ridiculous things such as,why isnt the rice cooked nicely,or y is the music so loud,he never lets us go out with our friends or whatsoever.he hits us all the time if we were to do something wrong.my father is a good man,i know,he provides alot for us,i feel he just do not know how to handel his emotions.one day he caught me talking on the phone when everyone was a sleep,he redail the number i found out i was talking to a boy,he started hitting me so hard,he punched me,he dragged me up the stairs,he threw a weight scale on me,he did all sorts that at the end of the day i was so bruised up,i had no space left for another bruise.my mom didnt let me go to school for a week so my scar would heal,so that no one would question me,my teacher saw it tho,she wanted to report my father but i didnt allow it.and when i finally was allowed to go to school,i ran away..i manage to run away for 3 days only till my mom found me,things were horrible in the house,both my sister left the house after awhile cuz no one could take it anymore frm my father,i was the last one left until finally i was old enough to survive on my own,i stayed away for 2 years on my own,my father fell sick between that 2 years and i went to see him in the hospital,but i was not allowed 2 becasue the docs didnt wanna cause him more stress.after 2 years my 2nd sister decided to go home,and my father gave in,and then i decided to come home after awhile,and i talked to my dad,and according to him,it was all my fault the family was apart.now im currently working with him,but he is not paying me and he does not allow me to work anywhere else.i wanted to study too but he didnt allow that,both my sisters had the advvantage of studying and going overseas.but all this problem started when it was my turn to study.now,he still does not allow me to study and im worried that,if anything were to happen to himmm i will have nothing to fall back on to,he still treats me and my sister like kids,we are not allowed to come home afetr 11pm,we cant do anything that we want 2,boys are not allowed,things like that,i decided to give in,but even thou,he still treats us like crap despite his terms and conditions im still here trying to make things better,but when something upsets him,he does not talk to us n make us feel real dumb.there is no way of talking to him at all,he is always right,no one can tell him otherwise,even my mom is giving up.i need a solid future,but im not getting it..im really worried to what i should do.i know there are far worst problems thats others may have,but please..i really need advice!
ps:my eldest sister has not returned home till now and i have not seen her for 3-4 years already,and there are many things i left out but i didnt want my post to be extreamly long sorry!

Q: Hi i'm 17 year old female and just over the last few months I have started breaking out terrible I mean I used to just get a few pimples every now and then, but now now I have them all over my forehead and on my cheeks and I've been using stuff like neutragena and other stuff you can get at the store, but do you have any recomendations on what works the best like proactive or something like that??? Thank you!

Q: I am a 26yr old female with 2 children ages 3 and 9. I have been on the depo shot until July'08. I was due for my next shot Aug'08 but I did not get one. I did not have a period for the month of September however I got one Oct 1-4th. The week of Oct 6th I had the white filmy discharge during sex. The week of the 13th I ovulated. On 10/14 cramping. 10/15 I was spotting. THen on 10/16 bad cramps. 10/28 I had very bad cramping and back pain. I was due for my period on 10/29 and nothing came.
It is now November and I am 3 weeks late today and have taken 7 pregnancy tests and they are all negative. On 11/17 I felt cramping and I was spotting. It felt as if my period was coming and still nothing. ON 11/18 I was also cramping and spotting but it was pink not red. I took a preg test this morning with 1st morn urine and preg test still negative. I go to the GYN on 11/21 to get a blood test. I dont know what is wrong with my body. I have preg symptoms like headaches, fatigue and my breast were sore for 2 weeks straight feeling full and engorged. What should I do?

Q: 15/f
okay i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years, the reason why we broke up was because he moved. [not on and off]
so now its a few months later... and i'm friends with alot of guys it's just i'm more of the friend type i guess. not to sound conceited, but i know i'm alright looking, better then average. older guys always want to hook up with me but i don't. i want a boyfriend and to have that feeling to like some one again. i'm really outgoing too & im preppyy. so im not a town boy or anything of that sort. my other friend is extremley shy and alot of guys like and wanna go out with her. before my boyfriend.. guys asked me out.. i just didnt like them to go out with them. ughh help? i just dont understand why guys only see me as a friend type? [so im guessing]

Q: My ex and I broke up a few months ago. It was a horrible, messy breakup and we aren't speaking. We go to the same school and my friends are also his friends. I think he's over it, but I'm still extremely hurt and depressed. My friends & family are tired of hearing me talk about him, and I'm tired of thinking about him. We had a serious relationship for 2 years, and it's killing me it didn't work out. How do I get over this already? It's ruined friendships and has affected my school work.

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